masteRing the art of fake confidence

Make as many mistakes as you can, fake confidence, face failure, embrace the embarrassment, embrace the pain and critics, welcome the negative thoughts inside of your head and never judge yourself. Master fake confidence, everyone was not confident at all but some people are just good in faking it. Even the greatest ones are doubting themselves but they take action, once you are moving... you will immediately feel better. Confidence will only be felt once you are pushing and not caring if you fail or succeed, you just express yourself no matter what you feel. Once you master fake confidence you will have real confidence later, because this is not about winning or losing this is about not giving up, as simple as that. Once you are pushing and giving your all... there is nothing else to worry abut, you're worrying about what is the right action not knowing that all you need to do is face the pain and that's it. Feel confident even if you're really not, show up and let the world adjust to your presence, don't be scared of failing, don't be scared of getting beaten up, don't be afraid of not getting anything. Real confidence is when nobody claps for you, it's when nobody likes you but you still like yourself and you're not asking for anything. If you're not needy, acting like a victim nor needing a lot from other people then you will become confident. Confidence means independence, not needing anything to feel happy, not needing support or validation from other people. If you want to become confidence, face your fears, embrace your doubts and do what you need to do anyway. Confidence doesn't come from the beginning, it will come in the middle when you're already moving and enduring the pain of fear, judgement from other people, doubts, critics, failure and rejection. You will only become confident if you don't quit and just move forward no matter what. There will be times when you will really doubt yourself but you have to remind yourself that it is normal and that is how brain operates, stop judging yourself, stop looking for an easy route and just do what is needed to get to the next stage. Fear can never control you forever, at any given moment your mind will make a breakthrough and find a way how to win and achieve freedom. You will never become a jail of doubt and fear forever if you make a stand to fight from the beginning to the end. This is simply a fight and it is happening inside of your mind. This is not about the external circumstances, this is an inner work. Look at your thoughts, look at your judgement, look at your emotions... they are all product of being a human and they are all normal, confidence will be felt when you're pushing and not when you're pulling. Focus on yourself, focus on what do you really want and stop focusing on what you don't want. If you will be honest with yourself then you will win in life. 

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