NBOBODY BEATS YOU IF YOU DON'T THINK ABOUT IT

If someone beats you, if someone bullied you, if someone rejects you, of someone disrespects you... it is all nothing if you don't think about it, if you don't feel anything about it then it didn't hurt you at all, it will feels like nothing really happened. That is the power of ignoring something you don't like, that is the power of focusing into something much better. Because it is all in your head, you're only making your life uglier by focusing on people and things that makes you feel bad. Stop thinking about these people that do something bad to you and you're not defeated. You're only defeated because you're giving it an ugly meaning, you're acting like a victim, you're living your life like a loser. You always think about why it happened, you feel sorry for yourself, you feel you need some respect, you think you're entitled of a better treatment and that kind of mentality is making you feel like a loser even more. 

LIFE IS REALLY LIKE THIS

Life is nasty and get use to it, someone will reject you, someone will bully you, someone will never treat you right. It's normal, you can never control the attitude of people. All you can control is your judgment towards any circumstances of life. Everything happens for a reason, what doesn't kill you can only make you better. If you didn't like what happened then just try to let it go. You will not be respected all the time even if you have millions or billions. Nobody is immune to disrespect or mistreatment, anything is possible in this world even the negative things... it may happen to you every once in a while. Don't expect that everyone will be nice to you, life is really like this... even the President gets disrespected. Nobody has a fulltime protection, anybody may experience bad things from external events may it be big or small. 

BE READY FOR EVERYTHING

Chaos, hard work, repetition, mistreatment, cheating, unexpected event, unfair judgement... be ready for everything and accept it with all your heart. If you will try to control everything and force them to follow you then you're just making it hard on yourself, you're just torturing your mind. You can never control everything, you can never force them to think and behave like you do. Everyone has his on judgement and decision, they can do anything they want so you should just focus on stop reacting and place all of your energies to something that will give you a better life. Reacting to everything will only ruin your day, it will make your life harder. Ignore all the bad things and focus on the good things... this is how to live an easier and better life. Nobody beats you if you don't think about it, if you can feel nothing from someone that didn't treat you right or beat you in a competition or something then you're still undefeated. Defeat is only in the mind, if you are emotional about something then it controls you, it owns your life. But if you can completely detach from what made you feel bad then you're already winning in life. 

LOSING IS ONLY IN THE MIND

You're not a loser if you can detach from the thought of what everyone tells about you. Losing is just a definition, you can still feel like a winner after losing. For me the real definition of a loser is someone who didn't even try. A lot of NBA players were so afraid to retire without even winning a championship. They were so scared to be mocked by other players who have ring. They were so scared to get scrutinize by the media and be labeled by the world as failures. It only means they're prioritizing the comments and opinions of other people. They're not living by their own definition of success. And that makes them a loser. Winning is in the mind, it's about how you feel, if you already gave your best then you should feel happy with whatever results may come. 

YOU BECOME INVINCIBLE WHEN YOU DON'T CARE

Stop caring about what people say, stop caring about what people think and you will become so powerful, their words can never harm you, their comments and advises will never affect your mind, you will become so free, sometimes they will even become scared of you because they know you don't care and you will do whatever you wanted to do. Because at the end of the day it is your life, why will you care too much about what people say, it's none of your business if they're thinking of you as someone who's so low, what's going on inside of their heads doesn't matter at all, what matters is what's going on inside of your mind. If you feel good then you're invincible, you will become more creative and productive, sky is the limit to you. 

Stop caring and you will feel free. You will feel lighter, you will feel that nothing is stopping you, you will see no obstacles. Have a tunnel vision to your dream and it will manifest to your life faster than expected. 

THE BEST REVENGE

The best revenge is to not make any revenge, don't stab your enemy, don't criticized him, don't make false accusations of him, the best revenge is to become better. Become successful, be happy and live forever... that's how to make your enemies cry, that's how to make their lives miserable. Don't give them any attention because they are getting stronger every time you do it. Focus on your own journey, try to make yourself better each day, feed your mind with more positive thoughts and never dwell on the negative ones. It's ok if people are targeting you, it's ok if they're rooting for you to fail, you know who you are, you know what you can do. If your game plan is to become the best and always give your best then you will never notice the things or people that are not important to your life, you will enjoy life more and you will succeed, as simple as that. The reason why you feel like you've been beaten is because you're focused on what people are saying, you're not focused on your own life and growth. What they say is none of your business, it has nothing to do with your life.