The key to happiness and success is doing what is hard first not doing what is easy and then you will have a miserable life in the end. Doing what you don't like so that you will have a better life. Exercise, studying, learning a new skill, taking care of your health and well being, these things are boring and not fun at all but you need to do it to become happier in the end. Because it is the only way to live a better life. If you will not work hard then you will become broke in the end. If you will not take care of yourself then you will suffer in the end. Procrastinating is easy, getting addicted to pleasures is easy but it will only make you suffer and struggle in the end. You have to enjoy living a hard life so that you will never be in a position that you don't like. Practice delayed gratification, make sacrifices so that you will be able to level up. It's not going to be easy you will not like it but it's the only path to greatness and security. If you are feeling too comfortable now then you will have an uncomfortable life in the end. Force yourself to do what is needed, do what is necessary and never stop. It's ok feeling uncomfortable, you are not suppose to have fun and be happy all the time. If you're a happy go lucky guy then good luck to you because you will suffer in the end, you will struggle like a broke man that is so helpless and powerless. If you want to have power now, if you want to become strong then do what is hard, be responsible, be mature enough to know what is right and wrong. Because most people doesn't know what is good for them that is why they were stuck in a mud forever, that's why most people are broke because they have bad habits that they can't get rid of. Doing what you don't like is the key, if you want to evolve then prepare to make sacrifices, build the right habits. But building the right habits is hard, it is simple and known but hard. That's why you need to be patient, take it slowly but consistently, you don't need to rush here, this is not a race, your time will come, you will get on top in just a matter of time if you exert the right amount of effort. Once you get use to what is hard then everything else will become easier. Take it one step at a time, one day at a time and never stop. Invest in yourself, make yourself better each day, make yourself the best version of yourself. Be fast, hard working and persevering. Doing what is hard is not fun at all but very beneficial, you are doing it for yourself, you are not doing it for others... you are doing it for yourself because it is the only way to get happier in the end.
Oct 25, 2024
DOING WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE IS THE KEY
START FAST AND ENDURE THE PAIN
Start now, move fast and endure the pain, that's the way to become successful, that's the way to succeed. There is no other way but to push yourself or else your life will never improve. You will become stuck forever if you will not face the pain, you have to keep going once you start, follow through and keep going further as much as you can.
KNOW WHEN TO STOP
You're watching television now for 8 straight hours right? good, it is the best time to stop. You're scrolling on social media for 5 hours already right? good, this is the best time to stop. Learn to stop whenever you find yourself wasting time. Stop the procrastination now and start moving. Most people already knew what to do, they have a game plan but they can't stop their vices, they can't stop their bad habits, they're so addicted to their pleasures like a drug addict addicted to cocaine that's they they can't start something, that's why they're stuck in a mud. Learn to stop, study it, master it and let it be your number one skill. If you're not good at anything then just be good in stopping, stop your vices, stop wasting time now and you will automatically do what is better for your life. Even if you're at the heat of the moment, even if you're having so much fun... stop now, learn to stop and control your emotions, learn to practice delayed gratification and you will become unstoppable. That's all you need to do... discipline yourself and you will be attracted to better situations. It's all about focus and determination, are you hungry enough to win, if you are then you don't need a game plan, you don't need to force yourself to work... you will just move, you will face the pain, you will start fast and never stop even if you are so damn tired. If you're a good stopper of yourself from doing your vices then you will become unstoppable, you will become the best version of yourself. So watch yourself all the time and never let any stupid actions pull you down, stop drowning yourself with laziness and pleasures that will make your life miserable in the end. What you're doing now will have an impact in your future so be careful where you're getting addicted at. Endure the pain and never complain, you are acting like a spoiled child that's why you can't win in life, you have to go all the way and allow yourself to become the hardest worker that you can be. Hard work pays off, discipline is the magnet of success, you know if you're wasting time or not so stop pretending that you're doing well if you're wasting a lot of your precious time. You will only become a machine if you will learn how to stop yourself from procrastinating. There is no other way to go up but to get strict with yourself and stop acting like you have an infinite time, be in a sense of urgency, force yourself to do the first step and carry on.
Oct 24, 2024
THE NEXT STEP IS ALL THAT MATTERS
Forget the past, forget your mistakes and failures, forget everything that is weighing you down. The most important thing is today. You can make this day a better day, you can improve now, you can correct your mistakes, you can live positively, you can work hard and be the most productive as you can be. Nothing can stop you, just be fast and take the first step so your mind won't have any time for overthinking. What will you do next? forget the past, forget your failures because the next step is what matters.
YOU CAN MAKE ANYTHING BIG
You can make your muscles big, you can make your dream big, you can make your money big, brain and heart big. It all depends on your hard work and dedication, you can make something great, you can become great if you will just give a lot of time and effort. Perseverance is the key, patience and belief will make you big. You just need to trust the process and stop giving up when tough times are testing you. Yes there will be challenges, there will be adversities, there will be tests that will try to make you give up. Trust hard work and consistency and you will make anything big, it's like laying brick by brick, you need to trust that every action is the right action, you need to believe that one day is going to be your day if you keep on working hard and pushing yourself to the limits. The next step is all that matters, forget the past because it has nothing to do with the present moment, live in the moment and give everything you've got.
Stop thinking about other people, stop thinking about what they do and just focus on what you do, that's all that matters now. You will never be able to make a breakthrough if you're always worrying about what other people are doing or thinking. They don't matter at all, what matters is what you do with your life. Focus on day by day, you don't need to rush here, just be patient and learn to wait while working hard, what is yours will be yours, all you need to do is work hard while waiting for what you want and you will win, as simple as that. The next step is all that matters, the question is what is your next step? is it related to your goal? or is it making you worse? are you procrastinating like others? or are you forcing yourself to move so that you will create a little bit of momentum? the choice is always yours, the decision is yours, nobody can stop you if you will go for it like your life depends on it. Watch yourself, watch yourself, what will you do right now? what is your plan? are you really giving your all? or are you pretending like others? you need to take the first step now and follow through as much as you can, you will only win if you're so hungry to win.
MOVING IS A GREAT SKILL
You can become unstoppable if you want to, all it takes is creating a mindset that will make you relentless. All it takes is using your willpower and tenacity to keep moving forward even if you don't like what is going on anymore. Most people will stop when defeat is evident, they will stop if they can't win anymore, they will stop if they are sick and tired of the process. And that what makes them a loser. That's what make them stuck forever.
GO HARD FOREVER
Don't stop, don't slow down, don't sleep like a dog that has a master, nobody will feed you, nobody will change your life, you have to go hard or else your life will get harder. It's a must to keep moving forward no matter what and go all the way, the time is now, you can't be living so comfortable when you have so much to do. The time for being great is now, don't postpone your greatness because the more you delay your actions the more you get lazier and scared of taking actions. You will only become confident if you will push yourself to work even if you don't want to. Moving is a a great skill, you don't need any master or teacher to learn it, you can learn it by yourself, if you're a fast mover or starter then you can become anything you want to, it's just a matter of conditioning your mind and trusting the process. Trust that every action is the right action. This is too simple, once you're awake... go hard and never stop, keep pushing forward and never stop until you're done, until you win. Moving is a great skill, practice moving everyday, force yourself to take actions no matter what. Even if you are tired, even if you feel so lazy and stressed... just do it, your emotions will change once you start moving. The time is now, never let laziness take over and start training yourself to work harder. You've got this, you will only win if you are a fast starter, you will always fail if you keep on procrastinating.
THINK SOME OTHER THOUGHTS
Change your thought pattern change your reality, study your thoughts... these are the reason why you keep getting the same results over and over again, watch your mouth, watch your habits, your cycle and pattern is what stopping you from making a breakthrough. Study yourself, get rid of your bad habits and you will be able to change your life. You are the one who is creating your own life, you need to stop doing the same thing over and over again if you want a new life. The power is in your hands, you will only improve if you will start feeling uncomfortable, it means you need to move more and start thinking less, overthinking is killing you, it's stopping you from making a progress, start taking actions and now and keep going further no matter what. If you will develop a new skill it has to be moving, start taking actions and do your best to improve. You don't need to see big progress right away, take it one step at a time and enjoy the process, you got this, just trust yourself and go all the way.
Oct 23, 2024
ONE PRODUCTIVITY HACK THAT IS SURELY EFFECTIVE
One productivity hack that is surely effective is stop looking at your cellphone for a very long time. Don't scroll, don't check messages, don't look at your favorite channel. If you can stay away from your cellphone for a day then you already made a progress. Because the reality is your time goes to your cellphone all the time, you're like a useless zombie that is very slow and unproductive because your apps and posts from scammer influencers are eating a lot of your time and you are allowing, that's the saddest thing you are giving them time but you are not giving yourself some time to grow and get better. Take your work seriously, start fast and finish strong. Avoid all the distractions and you will become a super human, you will become a machine, you can break quotas, you can break boundaries, you can break any record, your growth will become rapid and inhuman. That's what discipline does, it will turn you into a beast, use your time very well and you're already ahead of the competition. At the end of the day those stupid influencers, vloggers doesn't deserve your time, why will you give your time for free? they are earning and you are getting broke by doing that, the worse this is your mentality is getting messed up, you are developing laziness and weak willpower by supporting them. Support yourself and stop scrolling all the time, the energy you're giving to them must be use by you only because it is yours.
If you hate living the same life over and over again then be fast, never let your mind think, never look for pleasures because it's only making you weak and slow. Just do it, just start it and forget about the outcome, freedom from outcome will make you creative and fast, it will take you to another level, you will feel powerful, you will feel loose, nothing can stop you. Be in the moment and just give everything you've got, you have what it takes to change and experience something better. It all depends on you, what are you going to do today? what will you do now that will make your situation a little bit better? Force yourself to work harder, grind like hell and never stop. Be all in, take it or leave it, it's now or never. It's ok if you are progressing slow but just don't waste time, just don't take this day for granted because it will make you ten times slower. Whatever you can do... do it now, have no regrets, have no conscience when taking actions, always think that you are doing this for yourself, always think that you are getting better every time you force yourself to take actions. So stop engaging on social media, stop checking notifications, stop stalking somebody if you want to level up. Tremendous discipline sis what you need, it's easy to become great nowadays because most people are soft, most people are not improving because they're just wasting their cellphones the whole day and acting like a useless zombie that couldn't change his life. At the end of the day you only have one life so why use it for nothing? why waste it like most people do? time is fast, you need to do whatever you can do today and force fate. Speed is the name of the game, just be fast and do more and your life will get better. No need to become fancy or flashy here, no need to learn a lot, just use your willpower and develop and insane discipline and you will be miles ahead of your competition.
reserve your energy
If you have a goal and it is really really big you need to master conserving your energy because you will need a lot of it. People get tired not because they're doing a lot of things but because they're doing a lot of stupid activities that is making them even more tired but not accomplishing something. If you're doing lazy activities then you will have lesser energy, it's because your body is adapting to a lazy pace, it's not producing a lot of energy because you don't need it and the result is being unproductive, slower, unmotivated and lazier. Your energy matters, look at your habits, it is your motor, is creates momentum, if you have bad habits then you will never be able to do something great, you will never be able to maximize your day.
how to have more energy
AVOID COFFEE, energy drink, junk food, social media, smoking and any other pleasures because it's draining a lot of your energy. If something is making you comfortable, lazy and giving you instant gratification then it's making you weak. Make sacrifices, stay disciplined, don't waste your energy procrastinating and you will have more energy. Manage your energy and reserve it for meaningful activities that will make you better. The more you stay disciplined the more energy you have, as simple as that. People think that they are blocking stress every time they take energy drink, coffee, smoke or anything that is numbing the stress but the truth is they are only making matters worse. Sugar, pleasures and useless entertainment will drain your energy even more, procrastination and delaying your important work will make you weak. If there is something you need to do... do it and you will have more energy, start it and you will find the energy to finish it. Distracting yourself and falling into temptation will make you weak and unproductive so beware of your choices because it is critical and will make an impact to your productivity. Instant gratification has a negative effect on your journey, it's making you slower and dumber, it's making your willpower weak.
TAKE ONE SMALL STEP WHENEVER YOU CAN
You can take one small step every now and then, nothing can stop you. You are the one who is stopping yourself because you're acting like a soft diva. Just take one step and follow through, even if you're feeling uncomfortable... just take it and you will feel much better in a while. You can take actions whenever you want to, you are the only one who is stopping yourself, you can move now even if there is an obstacle, nothing can stop you if you will force yourself to move. Your mental strength will get better every time you force yourself to take actions even if part of you is trying to make excuses. Don't believe in your excuses, defeat your laziness by taking it one step at a time, enjoy the process and never complain.
START NOW THINK LATER
The reason why people can't start something or accomplish something is because they want to overthink first before they move, they are thinking and worrying too much that's why they couldn't even get started. They want to be perfect, ready, motivated and equipped with the right knowledge before they start that's why they're so afraid to take the first step. They think they're a genius, they think they are something special that is not allowed to make a single mistake. That's why they are stuck, that's why they feel lazy all the time and always feeling lost and stuck. If you want to become very productive, if you want to become a hard worker then you need to master the art of just starting. Just start it, do it now regardless of what the situation is, face the challenge now, be scared and embrace the negative emotion but do it anyway. Do it no matter what, whatever happens... embrace it but never procrastinate, never delay the process and never play safe. Moving and taking action means you're already on a different level, you just need to iron the clothes even harder, push for more and never care if you fail or make a mistake. It is what it is, the challenges will really try to test you, you will see your imperfections but you need to be very good in ignoring it or else you will never advance. Just do it, it doesn't matter if you are perfect or not, stop looking for perfection, stop trying to look cute and become a doer. You are worrying too much about what people say, you are scared of their perceptions about you, you are so focused on the outcome that's why you can't put yourself on a better position to succeed.
NEVER CARE JUST WORK
Remember that the concept is to keep getting better everyday by working hard and pushing yourself to the limits. Never care if you're getting more money, never care if you're making a lot of mistakes, the idea is to create more and be faster. You will get better and better each day if you are consistent and serious so stop acting like a stupid bum and just do the work, execute whatever idea you have in your mind and never stop. Just keep moving forward until you finally made a breakthrough. It's on you if you want to change your life, never care just work because when you are moving you are improving, as simple as that. Just because you can't see any progress now doesn't mean you are not getting better, trust the process and never give up, you're on your way to greatness, all you have to do is embrace the moment and look for something to do that will make you better. At the end of the day you know in yourself if you did everything you can or not, you know if you really gave your all or you just clown around, you can never fool the universe because it's watching you. Never care about anything else and just focus on pushing yourself to work, take the next step and keep following through no matter what, this is the only way to become unstoppable... stop thinking and start doing. You can correct your mistakes later, you can make adjustments later but for now... do the work and never stop.
DO SOMETHING TODAY THAT WILL MAKE YOU PROUD OF YOURSELF
If you are so sick and tired of your life, if you are bored, if you feel weak, if you feel so disgusted because you're stuck in a rut, if you want to change a little bit then do something today that will make you proud of yourself. It means you need to take things more seriously. Stop being a bum, stop playing around and wasting your time without conscience because it will backfire at you in the end. Go harder, work more and focus on what you're trying to finish. Lift weights, do 100 repetition. Run for a few minutes, study a little bit, learn a new skill, clean your house, don't eat junk food. These little actions will make you proud of yourself, an activity that is a little bit harder will give you confidence and power. Most people are weak and lack self esteem because they're always comfortable, they're always doing the easiest activities that's why they don't have the willpower and tenacity to do something hard. You need to exercise your willpower, start something and finish it no matter what. Finish it even if you are feeling uncomfortable, never let anything distract you, you have to go harder and work for longer hours if you want a change in your life. Greatness is something that is not hard to achieve, you just need to stay consistent and serious about getting better everyday, build habits that will make you do more, build the habits that will make you stronger and better not the habits that will make you weak and slower. So start something now, pursue something, focus on yourself and never engage in a mindless scrolling on social media, stop itching to open your phone and waste your whole day there. Move faster, work harder and never give up. You are building yourself every now and then, it is either you get better or get worse, there is no in between. Don't give up, don't slow down and keep moving forward. If you want a new life then study yourself, watch yourself all the time and never engage in activities that will make your life harder. If you're doing what is easy then your life will be hard but if you're doing what is hard then your life will get easier in just a matter of time. Just stick with the process and don't look for shortcuts, you need to embrace the difficulty because it is the only path that will make you stronger. Easy times creates weak men and hard times creates warriors, if you want to survive then you need to force yourself to do the right thing every now and then and stop wasting your time for nothing, don't just burn your time on activities that will never give you any leverage, make sure you are doing something that is setting you up for a better life. This is not going to be easy but it's worth trying, you want to change right? then what the hell are you waiting for? do something that will make you proud of yourself, don't be lazy like others, chase something, push yourself to the limits and do whatever it takes to get to the next level.
Oct 22, 2024
MORE IDEAS IF YOU'RE NOT THINKING
The more you think the more you become stupid. Stop thinking and start doing, this is the only way to get more ideas. Execution, making a lot of mistakes, not being afraid to fail.. that is the best and fastest way to learn. Most people can't learn because they're so afraid of failing and making a simple mistakes. They thought it's a sin to commit some errors, that's why they can't express themselves, that's why they are so sad and stuck in life. If you want to make a progress then start now, stop thinking and just do what you can, as simple as that. If you will not do it then nobody will do it for you, it will be stuck in your head and you will think about it all day long that will result to more stress and suffering. You have to focus on doing so that your mind will have a breathing room. Because your mind will keep on thinking every time you postpone a work, your mind will feel the pain and the cycle will never end. Start taking actions now, even if you are losing... take actions. Even if you keep on struggling, take actions. Even if nothing is working at all... choose taking actions over procrastination and wasting time. Just do it now and never hold yourself back, it doesn't matter if you're right or wrong, what matters is you pull the trigger and you do what you need to do, do what you can do and that is enough, just give your best and never overthink again. You can find a way if you will do it your way. So stop wasting time thinking about what you need to do, just take the first step and more ideas will come, take action and you will become more creative. You have the ability to adjust, you can adapt to any kind of situation or problem so don't worry if things go wrong.
So just do it and never judge yourself, never judge your actions, it doesn't matter if the outcome is perfect or not, what matters is you follow the philosophy, you follow the concept of just doing it and you keep moving forward, that's all you need to do. If you are afraid to fail then you will never take action, if you don't take action then you're going to fail, it's not about the game plan, it's not about the details.. it's about the execution. You can have the finest details, plan and blueprint but if you're not willing to force yourself to move then you're never going to get anywhere, you will become stuck forever, so start now and just do it, keep moving forward until something shows on you way. Something will click, trust me your willpower can bend your reality, your hard work and vision can create a different type of experience, something that is much better and satisfying. You have to start now and stop wasting time overthinking, thinking is for the losers, you don't have to think if you wanted to win, you just need to take the first step and follow through. Be in the moment, be present and enjoy the ride, all you have to do is embrace any kind of experience no matter how bad or good it is. It's ok to fail, it's ok to feel the pain, it will make you grow, it will make you a better person, you have nothing to lose if you try, you have everything to gai. So stop feeling special, stop protecting yourself from failure and mistakes and just do it, you're just a human being, you ware allowed to make errors, you will never grow and learn if you're always trying to be perfect.
Oct 19, 2024
STOP TRYING TO KNOW WHAT THEY THINK
The reason why you're always stuck and depressed is because you're always trying to know what they think. You care too much, you want to know what they think and feel. You are wasting your energy and time trying to know what they think, they have their own minds, you can never control it, the only thing you can control is your thoughts, think the right way, use your mind the right way to gain some advantage in life. Stay in the present moment, thinking about what they're thinking is only making you weak, it's thinking about the future because you are worrying, you are losing your strength every time you worry, worrying is for losers, why worry if you can be happy. Choose to be happy, choose to be positive, choose to get stronger each day by fortifying your mind and protecting it from harmful thoughts and wrong way of thinking, the best way to think is to think for yourself, think about what you're thinking, is it making you better or worse? Stop trying to know what they think because you can never control them ever, you can never force them to like you, you can never force them to stop thinking wrong about you. Focus on yourself and you will become happier and stronger, you will only get weaker every time you think about other people. What they think of you is none of your business, you can never control nor stop them, all you can do is move forward because that is the best choice, that's the best thing to do.
ENJOY MOVING ENJOY MAKING A SMALL PROGRESS
The power of small actions is real, if it is towards your goal you will feel much better and stronger. Small progress is still a progress, whenever you are moving you're already making a progress even if you can't see it yet. Just like in lifting a weights, you're already making our muscles bigger even if you can't see it yet, just keep doing it everyday and you will see results in just a matter of time. Be patient and never rush, this is not a race, this is a marathon, stay consistent and you will win, you don't need a special formula here, you just need to force yourself to do it even if you don't like it.
THE BIGGEST LESSON AFTER AN EMBARRASSMENT
The biggest lesson after an embarrassment, after failing to please people or after failing in front of other people is not caring about what people say, it's learning to accept yourself despite of what the result maybe, it's becoming true to yourself no matter what and still giving your best, it's trying again and showing up. At the end of the day the most important thing is to become free and feel free, you will never achieve freedom if your actions were always based on what people say.
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