Don't ever think that you are special, don't ever think that you need to win but still work as hard as you can and give your best. That's the best way to feel lesser pressure. You're giving yourself too much pressure because you think you need to look perfect and clean, you think you need to become great and having that kind of mentality stops you from taking risk, you're avoiding your hands to get dirty, you're not giving your all, you are playing it safe and you don't want to make mistakes. You don't want to get judged, you don't want to look like a fool. If you will just avoid the trying to look perfect mentality then you will be able to do more, you will feel free and you will become very creative. Stop putting too much pressure on yourself and just do what you need to do, as simple as that. Stop wasting time overthinking, stop wasting energy thinking about what people are going to say and just be yourself. At the end of the day they will never feed you or give you anything so why worry about what they say? you need to correct your perspective, learn how to condition your mind to become a doer and not an overthinker. Pressure is only in the mind, you put it to yourself because you want to look great, you want easy ways and when you can't find it... you're panicking like a chicken. You have to learn to take it easy and let go while pushing yourself to the limits, it's going to be hard but accept it. Pressure can never kill you, once you felt the fear... let it go and keep moving forward, don't fold under difficult and uncomfortable situations, it is what it is, this is life, it is full of challenges but so what? If you will just move forward and stop thinking about the results then everything will feel easier. Focus on taking actions, focus on your mind, never focus on the outside and focus on the inside, real power s within. Focus on what you can control and avoid letting the outside noises come in, it's all in your head, you have to be aware of what you're thinking and never think that anything is too important, the only important thing here is your journey and your life. So what if you lose? so what if you can't make it? so what if you come up short? so what if they're laughing at you? you can still feel invincible even if the world is against you. You can still feel better even if you're struggling so bad. The feeling is your command, you can create the state from within, it all depends on how you handle your thoughts. Try to manipulate your thoughts to your advantage, never let negative thoughts control you. Always choose actions that will give you an edge or advantage, nothing is so hard if you will just relax and do it. Stop wasting time over analyzing things, you're not a scientist. Just stick with the basics and keep pushing forward no matter what. It's on you if you will let the distractions, noises, critics, problems affect you, it's on you if you will think that it is too painful and scary. The reality is it's only in your mind, nothing is scary if you will just look at it and feel it.
Jul 4, 2024
HOW TO FEEL LESSER PRESSURE
WHO ARE YOU TO COMPLAIN?
You are not special kid, you haven't done anything special yet so who do you think you are? who are you to complain. Everyone is struggling, everyone is having a hard time with their lives. You are getting depressed after learning that your mom can't afford to buy you a new pair of sneakers? who the hell are you? someone is suffering from war right now and yet they still manage to smile and be positive about life. Life is no that hard, it will get easier if you stop complaining and making dramas on social media. Just shut your mouth and do the work, make yourself better and keep pushing yourself to the top.
EVERYBODY DOESN'T WANT TO PUT IN THE WORK ANYMORE
Everyone is so lazy that is why it is very easy to become successful nowadays. Everyone is holding themselves back, everyone is trying to look like their struggling even though they're not doing anything, they're making dramas to get some sympathy and leverage. Everyone is lazy that is why if you can make yourself a savage and really work super hard you will succeed in life and get to the next level. So if you can be the hardest worker in the world then you can get a lot, you will be rewarded, you will experience things that not everybody can experience.
ANYTHING CAN CHANGE
Anything can change in just a short period of time. Just a few months of hard work and focusing on trying to improve yourself can make a huge difference. If you can't see any results yet then don't worry because you already have a momentum. Believe that it is possible for you to get stronger, smarter, faster and richer. Time is fast, in just a blink of an eye you can make your life better. All it takes is building a momentum and forcing yourself to do the work that you refuse to do. Don't wait for anything to happen before you change, force yourself to change now, all it takes is removing the old bad habits and replacing them with new ones that are helping you to develop and evolve. Anything is possible, you just need to believe in yourself, you just need to trust the process and give everything you've got, as simple as that.
YOU'RE STARTING TO BELIEVE AGAIN
If you put in the work and give your full maximum effort then you will start to believe in yourself again. Just go and start something, nothing can stop you. You will start to feel positive again and gain your confidence back if you're giving full maximum effort and doing whatever it takes to have a better life. It is hard, it's a hard path but not doing anything and complaining a lot is 20x harder. You've got to choose which hard will you live, are you going to live a hard life being lazy and not getting anything or are you going to live a life full of hard work but will make you happier in the end? the choice is always yours, you're in control here you can decide whichever path to take.
THIS VICE IS KILLING YOU
This vice is the one that you must get rid of your system if you want to succeed, it's a bad habit that is making you unproductive, slow, weak and useless. It's called "checking everything", you love to check everything. You're checking your cellphone, messenger, email even if there is nothing to check about, even if you're not waiting for anything that is important like business or transaction with a client. You're checking the results all the time, you're checking your subscribers, number of likes, you're checking if your muscles got bigger already even though you only lifted 2 kilogram of weights for 3 days. You're checking if the item you bought online is on its way to your house, you're checking if there is sale item online, you're checking if your crush likes your post. You're checking a lot of things that will not even contribute to your growth. And it's eating a lot of your time, it's making you busy for nothing, it's draining a lot of your energy and it is the reason why you're making an excuse that you don't have the time and energy anymore but the truth is you wasted at least 8 hours everyday for nonsense things like social media and chatting with people about nonsense topics. This is the reason why you are broke, weak, sick, slow and losing. You need to stop checking all the time, stop checking things that doesn't need your attention. You better get your life right before it's too late. You're checking a lot of useless topics and subjects that's why you're not advancing in life, if you will just stop this habit then you will improve a lot. Stop checking your neighbor's new car, stop checking your president's health he will not even give you money or help when you're the one who get sick, stop checking about your opponent's success, stop checking if your enemy is doing good or not, stop checking the posts in social media that are pure garbage and toxic. A lot of useless information is trying to poison your mind and it will be game over for you if you do not discipline yourself. You will miss a lot of opportunities if you waste your time like a savage animal who doesn't care about the days passing. Never take this day for granted because of wasting time for different news or trends that will not even help your mind to grow. You will evolve not by learning but unlearning and disciplining yourself, unlearn the social media, unlearn the procrastination and start making yourself a beast through hard work and chasing goals. Have no time for useless activities that will make you weak and slow, if you really wanted to become great then you need to check yourself all the time. You will improve everyday if you will just practice delayed gratification and avoiding garbage actions.
FOCUS IS THE MISSING INGREDIENT FOR YOUR SUCCESS
mastering your focus means attracting greatness and success. Work hard for 8 straight solid hours and you will feel great, you will feel really good. Focus on one thing only and never let any distraction stop you from finishing the task that you are suppose to do. Create a sense of urgency and never stop until you're done. Stop wasting time because you're only making your life harder by doing that. Focus means progress, it means success. If you're not going any further in life then it means you're distracted and busy doing a lot of nonsense activities that are pulling you down.
BET EVERYTHING YOU HAVE NOW
If you really believe in yourself then you better bet everything you have on yourself now. Stop playing it safe and leave everything on the line. Bet on yourself, believe that you can make it. No matter how hard the goal is... just keep fighting and never let any doubts poison your mind. You have to keep pushing and never stop, find a way out of no way, take a deep breathe and go all in. At the end of the day you will believe in something, why not believe in yourself. Every second you are believing in something, even if you are scared you are believing too, you are believing in your fears. It's either you believe in yourself or you believe in your fears. If you can't believe in yourself then believe in the power of taking risks. take actions, relax and just use your skills, let your subconscious mind take over. Life is a very exciting thing, you can experience a lot of greatness if you will just take the risk and never care if you fail or succeed. If they can do it you can do it too. They're just humans like you, all you need is the ability to persevere no matter what and face all the challenges infront of you. You will only have confidence in yourself if you will take the risk and face all the pressures even if the stakes are high. Feel the heat, feel the fire, it's a good good feeling.
IF IT WON'T MAKE YOU BETTER
If it won't make you better then why the hell are you doing it? why the hell will you do it? and in the end you will ask yourself why are you not making any progress at all. If you want to see greatness then be intentional, all of your actions and decisions should improve you a little bit, if not then why the hell even bother doing it? it will take a toll on you in the end. Instant gratification will backfire at you in the end. All the partying, drinking, gossiping, useless actions and fun times will weaken your soul and mentality. If you want to become resilient and tough then trust the process, do what is hard and make it your habit, make it your culture, make it your way of life. Self mastery means self control, it means you have a very strong discipline and you're focused only on activities that will upgrade your thinking and way of life. A strong character was built in fire not in flash, if you want to get on top of the mountain then keep climbing and never count your efforts and sacrifices, make it a normal thing, don't look for rewards immediately and grind as hard as you can. Face hell, laugh at your demons and just move forward towards your goals. Never let anything control your mind, bulletproof it with your vision, never let doubts and fears penetrate your mind. Trust yourself because it is the best thing you can give to yourself. Trusting yourself doesn't mean you need to feel comfortable and good all the time, it means you will take the risk, you will show up and take full responsibility for the outcome of your life.
HARDWORK WILL GIVE YOU A PEACE OF MIND
If you are worried, if you are anxious, if you are threatened, there is only one thing you need to do and that is to work hard, it will give you a peace of mind, it will give you confidence and bravery. Students are afraid to go to the day of exam because they didn't study. An unemployed person looking for a job is afraid of an interview because he is not prepared, he didn't research the company, he didn't ask for the direction of the company building, he didn't iron his clothes, he didn't review his lessons and that is why he is so hesitant to go to the interview. A man who impregnated his girlfriend was so afraid to marry his girl because he knew he can't raise a family, he is so lazy and he doesn't want to make sacrifices that is why he was so scared and wanted to hide from his pregnant girlfriend. A fat man was so scared to go out on a date because he is fat, he is so lazy to go to the gym, he is so allergic to a small run or walk and now he is losing his confidence because he wanted to eat more than to sweat. An aspiring basketball player was so afraid for a tryout because he knew he didn't prepare for the last few weeks, all he does is play video games and scroll on facebook. And when the tryouts was done and he was not selected he will make himself believe that the coach didn't like him even though he was loaded with talent.
If you want a peace of mind, if you want to stay calmer and more confident... work hard, focus on trying to improve yourself a little bit. Believe in something, believe that you can win, believe that preparation will put you on top and nothing else. Believe that hard work and doing what is needed is the only formula to success. Most people will try to act like there is a shortcut or magic pill or something to avoid the grind and that is why they struggle forever. This is not about how talented you are, it's how bad do you want it. The question is do you want it bad enough? or are you pretending like you want it just for the sake of trying to feel good better about yourself? stop pretending that you're grinding if you're just working for 2 hours a day, you need to stay busy, trust the process and never give up. Keep going like a bull, never stop until you get the job done. It is what it is, it's going to get harder and harder each day but you will make it if you persevere from the beginning to the end. It's easy to get better, all it takes is focus and making sacrifices.
IT'S OK IF YOU FAIL
Some people are so afraid to work hard and give it a try because they're so afraid of failing. They're so afraid of pushing themselves to the limits because they don't want their efforts to get wasted. They don't know that they already grow once they exert a very strong effort. You are getting mentally and physically better every time you go all in so you have nothing to lose. Keep pushing and never give up, do what it takes to make yourself better and always focus on the grind itself. Never focus on the results because it will come naturally if you are not cheating on your work. It's ok to fail, keep repeating the process until success can no longer run away from you.
LOCKED IN LIKE A MANIAC
You're not being serious about it that's why you're getting small results or no results at all. You're playing the weak game, you're not focused, you're not pushing yourself to the limits. Don't give your energy to weakness, don't do useless stuffs and activities that will only make you dumber and slower. You can do better than that, you can transform yourself in just a year or even lesser than that. Destroy what makes you weak, remove what makes you slow because this is simply being focused and fast. You're simply not locked in that's why you can't win in life, you're not giving your all, you're being a chicken all the time. Locked in like a maniac and you will be surprised with what you will get in life. You're doing a lot of stupidity that is blocking your progress.
FIND A WAY HOW TO GET BETTER
This is a simple technique that will help you to advance in life... find a way how to get better. Just improve every single day. This is very simple, just work hard and give your best every single day and you will improve, you don't need a tutor here or a life coach. Discipline is all you need, drop all the things that are useless and give everything you've got for your goal. Be intentional, find a way how to get better every single day, you should make a commitment to push yourself to the limits and never give up. It's all about hard work, being fast and staying consistent. That's it, if you will just keep these things in mind and make it your philosophy then your life will drastically improve. There are millions of ways to get better the most effective step is to force yourself to do what you don't want to do but will develop your character. Be a doer, never wait, never look for validation, never look for permission and just do what you can right now. All you need to have is the hunger and drive for greatness. You need to stop doing what most people do because all of them are going down little by little, they don't know what greatness means, all they know is they need to play it safe. The time is now, you need to pull the trigger or else you will be the one who will get killed by laziness and defeats. It's up to you, what will you do now to put yourself on a better position to succeed?
YOU'RE LOOKING FOR COMFORT AGAIN
you're looking for easy times again, you're looking for comfort again and that is why you are slow, unfocused and struggling. You keep on losing and getting worse every time you look for food, video clips on you tube, gossips. video games, cigarettes, sleep every time you're feeling uncomfortable. Stop looking for a stress reliever and stay locked in with your goals and tasks. Comfort is the number one vice of losers, they want to feel good all the time, they love pleasures that is why they can't improve and force themselves to get better.
Stay locked in like a maniac, never give attention to anything or anyone that is not pushing you to get better. Focus is the key, focus on steps that will improve you a little bit and get addicted to it.
YOU ONLY FINISH TASKS WHEN YOU DO IT UNCOMFORTABLY
There is only one way to get things done, there is only one way to make a progress and that is to face discomfort. When you're uncomfortable it means you will make a breakthrough, it means an improvement is about to take place. When you're feeling good, easy and comfortable then it means you're procrastinating, you're not leveling up, you're downgrading your abilities. If you want to become a massive doer then you need to feel uncomfortable. You need to push when you are feeling lazy, you need to start even if you have the luxury to do it later. Because doing it later will only make things worse, you will attract problems when you're lazy, you will become stressed even more because you are doing something that is not important. Your mind will go crazy because you are relaxing but on the other side of your mind you're thinking about what you need to do first. If you want to get better then face discomfort and pain, force yourself to do something now, take the first step and never stop until you're done. Dissect the tasks, don't shortcut it, don't look forward to finish fast, divide it into different parts and work on it one by one. If you're always looking for easy times then you will never be able to accomplish greater things, you will even have a hard time doing simple an easy tasks. You will only be able to finish something if you will forget how you feel and do it anyway. Strength of the mind comes from facing the difficulties and pushing forward no matter what. Look at yourself, guard yourself, what are you doing now? if you're really trying to make it to the next level then quit talking, quit acting like a clown and finish what you are suppose to finish. Start fast and follow through until it is done. Stop resting when you're tired a little bit, just rest when the job is over. Feelings will make you soft, never get too emotional, never prioritize how you feel and start prioritizing the tasks that you need to finish. Because if you're always pampering how you feel then you will become a bum. Never get addicted to comfort because it is making you weak and slow, it is pulling you down, it's crippling you.
DO IT YOUR WAY DO IT NOW
You don't need to look for any validation or special treatment before you start, you don't need any permission at all. Do it your way, do it even if you don't know how to do it, just find a way. You will find clues if you will execute now and never wait. Stop looking for pleasures to numb the pain and just face the pain. IT's really not that painful, it's not hard, you're just bored. But if you will learn how to enjoy any process then your life gets easier. You don't need to feel happy all the time, stop looking for enjoyment and just do the work. Free yourself from laziness and overthinking, whatever you can do now.. do it without any from of hesitation, be like an assassin... just shoot it and go to the next job fast. You will never evolve if you're always holding yourself back, you will never get better if you're always waiting and looking for something to save your sorry ass. The time to become a beast is now, you want a different type of experience right? so be the best that you can be, strive to get better and never let laziness control your life. If you want to finish a lot of task, if you want your life to improve then stay uncomfortable and keep moving forward all the time.
ONLY LOSERS DREAM
Visualization is a process, it's reshaping your mind and programming your subconscious. It is a preparation, it is not dreaming. Dreaming is hoping, it is wishing for results without taking any action, you hope to become a winner, you daydream about how good you look once you hold that trophy, you're dreaming about getting it without having to work hard for it. Wake up and open your eyes, you will never get to where you wan to be if you keep acting the same way, stop acting like a bum and do whatever it takes to improve. Little by little get closer and closer from your dreams.
YOU HAVE THE LOSER'S ATTITUDE
you're always doing what losers do, you're acting like a clown, you're always playing around, you love pleasures and instant gratification, all of your actions were based on doing something that makes you weak. You are very focus on pleasures and easy times that's why you are having a hard time when the challenge is there, you fold easily, you don't have that resiliency in you. Stop being a loser, it's time to become a winner now. Do whatever it takes to get to the next level. Stop doing what the masses do, they're all losers, they're all lazy and acting like entitled to win something. Stop talking, stop daydreaming and start pushing yourself to the limits. Break your boundaries, never believe that you are limited.
only losers wait
Winners never wait, they never hope, they never wish for things to get better and they force their own reality. You have the ability to move now, stay aggressive and attack your dreams. be bold, do what you can and repeat it a million times. be a doer, be an action taker, take risks now and never care about failing. Only losers wait, you have to be fast. Think fast and execute fast, be like a machine, be like a hunter, keep chasing greatness until it can no longer run away from you. Look at yourself, what are you doing now? are you waiting for luck? are you trying to get lucky by simply thinking and making dramas? you know better than than, start moving now and force yourself to become very productive.
DOUBT YOURSELF BUT NOT YOUR ABILITY TO TAKE ACTION
Doubt yourself, be scared, worry a lot but never your ability to take action. You can improve a lot if you're just all about taking actions, making a plan and executing it. Focus on yourself, focus on improving something in you and you will gain your confidence back. The reason why you're not confident at all is because you're too consumed with different useless thoughts that are not helping you to have an edge in life. Make yourself an experiment, try to work as hard as you can and attract results. Remember to take risks, remember to take the challenge. You can grow everyday because you can work on yourself instead of focusing on other people's lives. Never care about what they say and do, don't react and just focus on trying to get better day by day. There is a chance, you can become something if you will just make a stand on what you believe. Fears will go away if you are moving and taking yourself seriously. Because you have a lot of potential, execute all of your ideas and never dream like others. Be a doer not a dream, people will dream about greatness, success or change but they are not doing something about it. To create a new reality you need a new personality.
YOU DON'T NEED ANY ADVICE AT ALL
Everything you do is useless and is harming your future, that is why your life is going down. You don't need any advice at all, you just need to live your life and be better each day. Make basic better decisions, look forward to grow and that's it. You don't need to become a billionaire, you don't need to become popular and powerful, all you need to do is live your life. At the end of the day this is your life, you can make your own decisions, you don't need to be told, for as long as you're doing the right thing and not hurting anybody... you're right, you don't need to be perfect, you just need to do something and make a stand for it. You just need to make yourself better everyday and keep learning something new. Learn about yourself, study yourself, experience different things and find a way how to grow. You don't need any advice from fake gurus that doesn't even know what to do with their lives too. You don't need to follow any psychologist that gets a lot of your money. You just need to follow your heart and force yourself to work hard. Focus on something, focus on your goals, focus on trying to reach your full potential. You are free to decide, nothing can stop you. It's now or never, you have to choose between greatness and mediocrity. One thing is for sure, laziness breeds mediocrity and hard work creates greatness. Choose now, choose a lifestyle now, become better or get worse. It's really up to you. If you will just promise to yourself to work as hard as you can then you don't need any advice at all. Embrace failures and disappointments, embrace hardship and difficulties, embrace all the struggles and pain, you can make it through if you will just learn to weather the storm. Enjoy being wet while pushing through the rain, make your hands dirty and experience a lot of things. Don't be afraid to take the blame, don't be afraid to get ridiculed.
ALWAYS BE ON THE ATTACK MODE
Always look forward to finish, always move, always do something that will put you on a better place. Be like a shark, you keep moving forward, you die when you don't move. If you're not attacking then you're the one who is being attacked, you will be attacked with future problems because you're not ready. Stay busy on something, make it big, make yourself big, you can become something else by simply working as hard as you can and not giving up. There are only two kinds of person in this world, one is the predator and the other one is a prey. The question is which person are you? Start now and keep attacking, keep pushing and never give up, the world is yours, you have a chance, you can make it if you really want it. The time for being soft is over, create a new you, build a new identity and live with it. See yourself trying to outwork everyone, see yourself winning and improving day by day. If you will not start now then you will never start forever, as simple as that. So never waste this day, it's an opportunity to get better. Just do it, start it and never give up. Keep grinding your way to the top, keep pushing and always go hard when it matters the most. Never care about your feelings, never care if you are struggling to make a progress. Always believe in yourself, the fear will always be there, just ignore it and take it one step at a time.
Jul 1, 2024
TRUSTING YOUR WILLPOWER
If you don't know what to do anymore, if you're lost and doubting yourself simply use your willpower, your sheer willpower will make you thrive. Your willpower will put you on top, it will attract different opportunities, it will show you how tough you are. Your will will find a way. Just keep going no matter what, just keep trying and never give up, you will make it if you really want it. Willpower is everything, you can develop it by simply trying again and again, you can become invincible if you don't have plans of giving up anytime soon.
JUST DON'T GIVE UP, trust yourself.
keep trying Because you will never win if you stop. Stop getting jealous with other people who are making it fast. If you will trust something why not trust yourself? Keep moving forward and break your limits, that is what it is all about. Because you're the only one who can help yourself, you're the only one who can change your life. Trust yourself no matter what, trust your decisions, trust your mistakes, trust all of your actions. At the end of the day you will trust something, you will believe in something, why not believe in yourself? If you can just believe in yourself then you will have the energy to keep going, just keep believing, always visualize greatness, always visualize yourself winning. If you will give up you already lost, as simple as that. If you still wanted to win then keep going, trust your willpower and never stop when the going gets tough. Persevere until the end.
PUT AN END TO LAZINESS
you have to push yourself like a real serious mad man, you have to stop wasting time and start digging deeply. Go to the extreme, extreme hard work, extreme focus and dedication, you don't waste your energy doing something stupid that will not even help you to have a better life. If you will change yourself then you will change your reality, as simple as that. Laziness is the key to failure, if you're failing then it means you're lazy like a turtle, you're too lazy to push yourself to the limits, you're too lazy to try. Laziness will kill you, it will make you miserable and broke so use all of your willpower to work harder and move every single day. Don't waste any single second, don't waste energy for useless activities that will drain you and make you unproductive.
FEAR OF FAILURE
the reason why you're not working is because you're so afraid to fail. You're so afraid to look bad. You're so perfectionist, you're so in love with your identity. So what if you fail? keep failing again and again, fail your way to success. Everybody fail, even the most successful ones fail, one thing is for sure... you will become a loser forever if you don't try. Trying is free, abuse it, try as much as you can and never stop. If you wanted to win then don't be afraid to lose, as simple as that.
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