Power is just a feeling, you become powerful when you're free, you're not free when you're trying to get their validation and approval. When you're not pleasing people, when you're doing it your way and not letting other people affect your mentality... that's how you become powerful. When you can detach from a mistake, if you can just move forward without thinking about the past, if you can power though and ignore the emotions that are tying you up then you're powerful already. People become weak because they do what most people are doing, they follow commands from people that are no better than them.
DISCIPLINE CREATES POWER
If you stop lusting, stop eating stupid foods, stop wasting time then you will become powerful. The reason why you're so weak is because you're drowning yourself with instant gratification that is pulling you down and making you powerless. Stop enjoying wasting time because you will not enjoy it later, you have to focus on trying to get better and it will only happen if you're taking care of your time and not squandering any second for stupid entertainment, you have to focus on doing something that will give you an edge. Being so free is not freedom, it's a false freedom because there is something you need to do but you're not doing it and in the end it backfires at you.
Looking for validation makes you weak, it will make you indecisive and doubtful, you will doubt your own capabilities, you will always have hesitation in your decisions. You will lose your power, you will lose your identity. The satisfaction of your soul lies within doing it your way and not kneeling for somebody. What makes you weak is wasting a lot of time for activities, people and habits that are not making you better. You need to start learning how to reject people, stop wasting time for something that will never give you anything back just to please other people. Don't strive to be liked by everyone because a lot of people will still hate you even if you are good, kind and generous. You need to start saying no, stay learning how to cut ties and commitments that doesn't serve you at all. You only have one life, why will you be scared of them? why will you be scared of rejecting something that will only give pain to you? it is your life, you are the owner of it, you got to choose what to let in or let out, at the end of the day you will only become weak and powerless, do you want that? the key is to move forward all the time and take action that are related to your goal, that means you will reject anything that is not serving you and eating your time for nothing. Stop desiring to be likeable because it will only make you weak.
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