People though that in order to win one must be confident enough and believe in himself to the fullest but this is not real. Sometimes some people were really not born with confidence. What if you're not confident at all? what if no matter how hard you work or how hard you try to condition your mind you still have no confidence? I have a good news for you, there is a thing called philosophy, it is your core value, it is the only idea you remember when things are not going well. This is not about being confident anymore, if your philosophy is to keep trying and trying even if you don't feel good then you will win. This is just a matter of number, the more you try the bigger the chance of winning. Because at the end of the day you can never lose forever, you can never stay at the bottom if you're really trying and giving your all. Just give your best, win or lose.. just give your all and never care about what people say. Keep on moving forward, if they can't stop you then that's their big problem. If you want to create a new life then you better keep pushing through no matter what. If you want to make a progress get ready to embarrass yourself, fail your way to succeed. Keep failing, keep feeling the pain until you get there because that's the price of being great and successful... it's not about emotions, it's not about feeling good... it's about regulating and neutralizing your emotion. Once you feel bad, it's sign that you must move. Once you feel lazy and weak... that's a sign to keep pushing forward and stop being dramatic. It's easy to become successful nowadays because most people are weak. Most people can't adapt to embarrassment or pain, most people can't accept that it is hard and you have to feel it and deal with it or else you will feel worse. It is what it is, you need to stop up your mental game or else you will lose. You don't need to rush here, you just need to be patient while taking it one step at a time. This is not about confidence or belief anymore, it's ok if you don't believe in yourself, it's ok if you are doubting but don't ever forget your philosophy and that is to keep trying and never give up. Stop pampering your emotions, stop trying to be liked or accepted and just live your life. Just do what you need to do, just do it and never wait for the right timing. Never wait for the right time because it will never come, the right time is now, the best time to get better is now, not tomorrow nor later, it's always been now. So pull thee trigger and just deal with what is infront of you. Stop being so soft, nice and careful, It's time to get risky, aggressive and cold.. Always stay calm even if you are afraid and always remember that nothing can harm you other than yourself.
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