The bad news is... you can never defeat it, you can only embrace it and make it weaker and weaker, you can only fight it, you can never get rid of it permanently in your life. The only way to handle it is to accept that you will feel it no matter what. No matter how strong, fierce or great you are... you can never defeat fear, you will always feel it every now and then but the good news is... it can never kill you. You can also overpower it but you will still feel it somehow, it's your duty to train yourself to focus on taking actions despite of fear, focus on your goals despite of anxiety and doubts. You will never feel good forever, emotions come and go, but the good news is you can choose how you think and that's the reason for how you feel right now. If you think positive thoughts then you will feel happier, if you think negative thoughts then you will always feel scared and insecure. Your thoughts creates your body language and feelings, your thoughts attracts your reality.
BE AWARE IF YOU ARE SCARED
Most people are not even aware that they are scared that's why they get scared even more. They're panicking, they just go with the flow of fear and make irrational decisions, they're letting their emotions get the best of them. But if you are aware that you are scared, if you know that you can neutralize it a little bit then you will practice your own philosophy, make better decisions, stay calmer and avoid being controlled by the situation. If you are aware that you are scared you will be in the moment and see things, you will be able to use all of your sensations and not get played by circumstances. Be aware if you are scared, look inside of you instead of looking outside. Feeling fear is normal, you should be scared even more if you're not feeling it anymore. Nervousness, anxiety, hesitation is a sign that you are normal and there is nothing wrong with you. You have to embrace your fear whenever you are feeling it and never hate it.
HOW FAST YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR SITUATION
You can change your situation very fast, all you need to do is trust yourself. Even if you are scared and losing confidence, you can still change your life in an instant. Just keep on moving forward and never give up, that's it, there's no special talent needed here. You can live a better life if you will just face your fears and do what you are suppose to do. Stop feeling entitled, you are here to hustle, you are here to struggle and fight. You will never have a good life if you keep on being lazy and acting like you're in control even if you're not exerting any effort at all. Be scared, embrace your fears and always pick the best option available, create your own opportunity if you need to. So don't feel sorry for yourself, anything is possible if you face your fears and do what is needed.
NEVER CARE IF YOU LOOK CHEAP
Fake shoes, low quality website, cheap logo, cheap car, small house, wrong words, cheap school, old clothes, inexpensive things. Never care if you look cheap, focus on your philosophy and you will feel powerful. You are scared because you are afraid of getting judged. So what? people already judged you before you start pleasing them, you don't need to be like others who are faking their lives just to impress other people that they don't even like. The only people you need to impress is your partner and family and of course number one is yourself. And if you can't impress those people so be it, just keep on trying to impress yourself by giving your best and living your life according to your belief. You will love yourself even more and you will feel more confident if you are working hard and doing whatever it takes to win in life. If you go inside then you will become powerful, the power is within and not on the outside, many people get weaker and weaker everyday because they let their lives be controlled by other people's opinions. If you let go of what they think of you then you will become very powerful and resilient, your mind will become bulletproof of other people's comments.
NOTHING CAN STOP YOU
If you decide to just do it then you can do it, nothing can stop you, nobody can take you down. It's just a matter of being bold and decisive, it's just a matter of pushing yourself and not minding what's going to happen next. You can go further as much as you want for as long as you want, you are free, remember that and you will gain strength. The only way to defeat fear is to crush it with your willpower and mindfulness. Feel it and move anyway, always remind yourself that it is normal to get scared every once in a while. Just go all the way and that's it, never care if you win or lose, just do what you need to do. The only person that can stop you is you and nobody else. Remind yourself how powerful you are by applying the philosophy of just doing it, just give your best and never care if you're doing well or not. Something will click in the end, it's simply about taking gigantic actions and nothing else. Hard work pays off, if you are pushing yourself to the limits then there is nothing else to worry about. If your intention is right then you will get it right. Have faith in yourself and abilities, you are here to do something great regardless of what circumstances are.
DISCIPLINE CREATES OPPORTUNITIES
The more undisciplined you are the the more fear you will fear. You're doing a lot of things that are making you weak, slow, rusty and ineffective. You are degrading yourself, you are downgrading yourself with stupid activities that doesn't even matter at all. Why will you open a stupid instagram post instead of applying for a job? why will you eat that unhealthy ice cream instead of exercising for just 5 minutes? why will you gossip for nonsense subjects instead of reading a book about money? it's on you, you are making yourself broke, time means opportunities. It's what you do with your time that will determine your future. You're spending too much energy with people that's not helping you to grow. You are scared because you are not prepared, you are scared because you didn't work hard, as simple as that. Look at the most confident people in the world... they know what to do with any kind of pressure situation because they work so hard and they prepare for so long.
KNOW YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT
Knowing yourself will diminish your fear. You will be scared every once in a while but if you know yourself then you will be able to tame your fears in any kind of pressure situation. Knowing that you can overcome anything, knowing that all you need to do is be still and you will find a way, knowing that you have the power to survive any kin of situation, knowing that you can weather any kind of storm. Just hang in there, stick to the process no matter what, believe a little bit and never let that small faith of yours die. Having a little bit of belief in yourself will make you go very far. You don't need to feel superior at all, just having that tiny belief in yourself that you can win and can survive anything will make you hard to beat.
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