Everybody wants to win, everybody wants to look great and feel good, everybody wants a piece of cake but they don't know that they will never win unless they have a concept to follow. You can hope to win, you can wish for more money, you can act like a hustler, you can fake your social media posts that you are winning in life, you can pretend to be successful but if you're not following any concept then those fakery means nothing at all. A concept is something like a blue print, an energy, a culture, a style, a discipline or a technique that you really believe and will use from the beginning to the end. The concept of trying, law averages, hard work, not giving up, doing whatever it takes to win, facing your fears, being early, just doing it.... these are all good concepts that if you just follow will give you a better life. It will make you happier and will give you more progress. If you're simply focused on winning then you will never win, because you don't know what to do when things are hard. You must imprint in your mind the concept that you must follow and believe it when things are really difficult.
NO RISK NO REWARD
Without risk progress is not possible at all. You need to take risks and do whatever it takes to win, as simple as that. Stop following the norm, stop following what people say and just do it your way. If you want to get something different then you better try even if it's dangerous and too risky. At the end of the day you really have nothing in this world so you really don't have anything to gain, life is just a game. You were born with nothing you will die with nothing, why not play the game of risk and risk everything to see what you are made of. At the end of the day everyday is a risk, time is fleeting and you don't know what's going to happen next, why not risk it all? why not bet on yourself? You are here to do something great, you are here to see what you are capable of, why not risk it all? why not give everything you've got?
IF YOU'RE AFRAID TO LOSE PEOPLE WILL CONTROL YOU
This is the reality that you haven't found out yet that's why you're not free at all. If you're afraid to miss the shot, your teammates and coach will control you, the opponents will control you. If you're afraid to ask for a raise your boss will control you, the company will control you. If you're afraid of making a stand, the people you don't like will control you. If you're afraid to stand alone and be alone because of your own beliefs... the wrong people will control you. If you're afraid to lose your job, the manager will abuse you. The key here it to take risks as much as you can and never regret if you fail, failing is nothing... it's just a perspective, you really didn't fail if you try, you will feel much better when you try, trying is the best reward you can give to yourself.
SPEED IS A CONCEPT TOO
Speed is a wonderful concept that you can use. Being fast is a very strong attribute that you can have. Having the habit of being fast will change your life very fast. Be fast in starting, be fast in doing something, be fast in replying, be fast in finishing, be fast in moving on, be fast in trying again, be fast in everything. If you are fast people will like you especially your boss. Success loves speed, speed is the name of the game. You don't need to become talented if you are fast, just do it without any form of attachment and you will get amazing results. Be fast in thinking, be fast in making a decision, be fast in forgetting what happen. Choose speed over being slow, always choose speed because speed kills. Speed can make an impact right away. An ordinary person who can make decisions fast is better than a genius who can't make a decision because of overthinking. If you want to become fast then you better train yourself to become fast, drop all the negative and useless habits and use all of your energy and time for trying to accomplish something. Be fast in changing a thought, when you're sad choose to become happy, when you're depressed force yourself to feel motivated and excited. It's all in the mind, it's all in the quality of your thoughts. Stop dwelling with the past and start living in the moment, you will become faster than ever by doing that. Being in the past will slow you down, it will never give you good feelings and motivation, it will never give you what you want. Being in the moment means possibilities, it means you are here to experience something great.
When you have doubts just take actions, just do what you nee to do and your fear will be overridden.
THERE'S NOTHING WRONG ABOUT LOSING
Losing is just another part of your life, why will you afraid of it? it's just another day of your life, it will pass anytime soon. Never be afraid of losing because is is the path to winning, winning and losing has no difference, it's just the perspective of people. If you want to reward yourself then make sure you lose every single day, it means you are trying, it means you are using all of your skills and energy.
ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE AFRAID
Attack your fears, allow yourself to become scared, that is what life is all about. There's no reward for ducking challenges, you will be the same person or even worse, you will feel so weak and unsatisfied. Fear is not there to stop you, it's just testing you. It's a signal to take actions and go against with it, you need to force yourself to move even if you are scared because that is where breakthrough is. Always be ready to move despite of what you feel. Your emotions are nothing but nothing, it's not even helpful, it's just a hindrance, even if you're feeling good... always ignore your emotions because sometimes happiness is making you too comfortable. Allow yourself to feel your fears, don't rush anything, don't hope for anything, don't look for comfort and be one with your emotions. Don't wish for another place, don't wish for security, always accept what is going on and never wish for a better situation, embrace the challenge, love your fears and never back down to any challenge. And even if you are afraid... you can still believe in yourself a little bit, just try to stay calm, focus on your breathing, relax and take actions, pull the trigger and never give up on yourself, bet on yourself and never let anyone or anything make you do something without your consent. Never let anything stop you, to become unstoppable you need to take actions and push yourself even if the odds were against you.
THE MOST ACHIEVABLE GOAL
I'm pretty sure you are setting a goal and wanted to achieve it but you don't know what to do how to achieve it, you're completely lost and depressed because you can't make a progress. The most achievable goal is your effort, every single day just make sure your effort is extraordinary and you will happier than achieving something, the reason you feel so weak is because you're not giving your best. But if you will make hard work as your goal then it is a win win situation for you, you don't need to wait for results anymore because you already feel like a winner, the results will come on the right time, you don't need to look for it and get needy of it.
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