Every time you are scared, consider it as a sign to keep pushing forward and not to move backward and overthink things. You're already scared, you have nothing to lose anymore, you're already losing and you will lose even more if you don't take actions now. When you're scared it means something is calling you, it means you need to do something for yourself, you have to decide now or else you will never get anything, you will fund yourself on a worse spot if you don't take matters into your own hands. It's scary for now but it feels much better when you face your fears right? Your fear is an indication that you need to grow, you need to face it or else the opportunity will fly away from the window. Execute, pull the trigger, never care if you're right or wrong and just do it. You can do whatever you want and need to do, it's just a matter of deciding to do it.
YOU CAN COMPLAIN OR YOU CAN MOVE
You can make excuses, you can look at things the hard way, you can act like a weak chicken or you can move despite of fear, the choice is yours and will always be yours. You have to move fast when you're scared so that fear will never catch you. Don't look for winnings, don't look for changes or results, don't look for a better situation and look for the next push. Push yourself to take actions no matter what, if you can take gigantic actions despite of fear then that's the only time when the results will come. You cannot finish something because you're too lazy and focusing on your fears, you're worried about the future too much. Focus on the moment and just give your very best. You can complain or you can move, it's really up to you. The choice is yours, you can decide to become strong or you can decide to become weak forever. Never let life just push you like a useless weakling puppy. Your power lies in your next move, the fuel is your thoughts so you better check what you are thinking and doing. If you're doing weak and stupid things then your life will get weak, if you're doing what is right and entertaining healthy and positive thoughts then your life will get better, as simple as that. It's like investing, you get what you put in.
IF IT IS HARD SO BE IT
Never care if it is hard, never care if it is easy... just do it and never stop. Never back down to any challenge, never let laziness or any obstacle stop you, that's how you become powerful, if it's uncomfortable so be it. Don't be afraid of any punishment, don't be afraid of any struggle, you get stronger every time you face a difficulty, you get better every time you face what you are scared of. Never care about perfection and it's going to be easy, focus on being fast and giving your best, that's it, it's too simple. If you can take the shot then take the shot, never care if it's risky or not, if you can move now then what the hell are you waiting for? moving and doing something is better than overthinking and stressing yourself out about what's going to happen next. If you lose you lose so be it, just don't take the opportunity for granted, always do whatever it takes to get a little bit better than yesterday. You can fix anything, improve anything, it all depends on your way of thinking.
Create your own path, if you can't see a trail then create your own path, do it your way. It's ok to become weird a little bit, it's ok to be different, for as long as your intention is right... you are good. Hardship, difficulty and struggle is part of your life, without it there will be no room for growth. It's ok if you're having a hard time, learn to enjoy it and you will never feel struggling anymore. It's all about how you appreciate what's going on with your life. Treat your time like the most precious gift you can ever have, never squander any second, never waste your energy for useless drama that will never even make you better.
Use fear as a driving force, it's a signal to move. Be afraid to get broke, be afraid to get fat, be afraid to get left behind, be afraid to lose. Just move and work as hard as you can even if it's not your day. Focus on the effort not on the outcome because once you're moving you will get it going, you will be able to create a momentum. Be scared when you're losing because you're not moving.
DON'T FOCUS ON TRYING TO LOOK BETTER
Trying to change the past because you did a lot of stupid mistakes, trying to become perfect for the future, you're always trying to look cute that's why you couldn't even move. That's why you're too lazy and weak, you're afraid to look bad, you're afraid to lose. Stop trying to look flawless and do it the rugged way, if you don't know what to do just move a little bit, take one small action and then follow through, follow your intention if you don't have a game plan, just push yourself to get a little bit closer to what you're trying to accomplish and that's it.
HERE'S NO HACK IN LIFE
If there's hack in life then why the hell is everyone looking for it? why everyone can't find it? because there is none. Stop fooling yourself that there is an easy way. Stop looking for an easy way out and just find a way, there are no shortcuts in life, it is a journey. If it is hard so be it, if it is easy so be it. Instead of thinking why not move? you can move now, you can do something now. Make yourself a doer and your whole life will change, as simple as that.