Apr 15, 2022

IT'S NOT HARD WORK THAT IS DRAINING YOU

Are you always tired? do you feel really exhausted even if you're just starting? do you feel you can't finish anymore? are you lacking the will to push and do more? the main reason of this is because you're not focused. There are so many things going on with your life. Your mind is crowded, your energy is scattered, you don't have a proper direction. You're simply following what your mind is telling you even if it's not helping your journey at all. The number one thing that's draining you is minding other people's business, you were so concerned about what people are doing and thinking, you're so concerned about other people's lives and that's making you weak and slow, that's making you stressed a lot, it's taking away a lot of your energy, you should mind your own business only if you want to have more energy. You get jealous when other people are succeeding, you're angry when the person you hate is thriving, it's giving you an emotion that is not making you productive. And that's why you don't have the energy to finish the day stronger. You've got to make a stand to focus on your life only if you want to get a different result, you have to discipline your mind to just mind your own business so that you will progress faster. It's your attitude that will determine your altitude, you're miserable right now because of not focusing on your own life. 

YOU ALWAYS DISRESPECT YOURSELF

You disrespect yourself every time you waste your time for people and subjects that will not even make you better. Every second is an opportunity to get better. So stop hating on social media, stop wasting time gossiping about people that will never help you to improve, stop talking about nonsense subjects that will never make you a positive person. You have to maintain a positive vibe, stay disciplined and solid, stay focused on your goals only and never mind what other people are doing. It is what it is, your life will get boring, you will have lesser friends, you will have a few knowledge about celebrities and other popular people but you will dramatically improve, you will gain more knowledge that will help you to succeed, your work ethic will become stronger, you will attract better opportunities, you will be able to get rid of your bad habits, you will have more time for yourself and your efficiency will be doubled. Stop disrespecting yourself by getting interested with other people's lives because the time you spent by doing that can be use for improving yourself. You better focus on honing your craft, focus on improving your skills, focus on developing a character that will make you successful in the future. Invest more to yourself rather than investing on other people. Stop concerning yourself about what other people think of you, focus on your goal and keep moving forward all the time. No need to compare yourself to others, that is a weak move, no need to worry about who is succeeding and who is losing, worry about what you are doing at the moment because that will have a domino effect in the future. What you are doing now will create an impact in the future, so if you are doing stupid things now then you will attract a stupid life in the future, as simple as that. Work as hard as you can and never stop improving, never stop grooming yourself with knowledge and improvement.

KEEP GROWING EVERYDAY

Growing and evolving can be achieved by simply not doing stupid things. Stop wasting your time today and you already evolved, focus on your goals today and you already evolved, as simple as that. You don't need to become a genius to become a winner, you just need to do the things that are working and never stop until you're done. Keep going no matter what, keep looking for steps that will bring you further, you have to be faster than yesterday, you have to stay focused and committed. Never let a stupid subject about celebrities or other people destroy your focus, you have to go all in for your dream, you have to stay hungry and focused, have a killer mindset, once you set a goal... go for it no matter what, kick all the obstacles, defeat all the challenges, always remember that you are the one who is creating your life. Every world you say, every action you do, every thought you think will create a new you. You are molding yourself every day to destruction or to evolution, you have the power to change your make your life worse, it's all in your hands. So stop complaining if your life is not doing well, it's all because of you, it's because you are slow and not dedicated, it's because you're more interested with other people's business then your own business, you're too affected with what's going on outside of you. If you will just use all of your time for yourself then you will become a different animal, you will go to a different level. 

STOP TRYING TO LOOK GOOD TO OTHER PEOPLE

This is dangerous, trying to impress other people, this attitude will make you weak and miserable. Al of your actions should not be based on what other people might think, this kind of behavior will make you a loser. Stop thinking what other people are thinking, you don't need to look good and perfect to their eyes, you just need to look good to yourself, you need to impress yourself and you can only do that by focusing on your own thoughts and actions. Be yourself, don't change or do something just because they will love you. Your self love is enough, if you love yourself enough then you're already a winner in life. Try to look good because you love looking good, work hard for yourself and not for others. Don't work hard for your boss, don't work hard for your neighbors or classmates, don't work hard for your office mates, work hard for yourself, remind yourself that you are doing it because you want to have a better life. Because at the end of the day your only true ally is yourself, why not reward yourself of being true to yourself? why not do something because you really love it? why not live for your life and not for the life of others? you hold your true happiness, you can never get real happiness from other people. Screw them, you have to focus on living your life your way and forget about what are they thinking and feeling. If they feel bad about you so be it, don't ever let them run your life, don't take suggestions that you don't like, don't listen to advices that only makes you feel bad. 

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