5 TIPS ON HOW T GAIN YOUR CONFIDENCE BACK

1. Cry. Think about what happened, assess the past, cry and feel the pain, have peace with it, understand that it's just an emotion and it will never stay in your system forever. Tell it to the closest person in your life, someone whom you can trust, tell it to him, cry, just express yourself, you need to release it so that you won't be holding it forever. Cry, there is nothing wrong with it, all humans cry. If you're not crying then you're not normal, people who are bragging that they don't even cry are fake people. Don't be afraid to show your emotions, don't be afraid to deal with it.

2. Detach from it. Always think that life is just a game, you win some, you lose some. Even if you lose something valuable to your life... you should still learn to detach from it, always remember that you really don't have anything in life since you were born, you only borrow everything, you can never retain something forever, you can never hold it forever, enjoy it while it's still yours.

3. Try harder. Try harder this time, you have to outwork everyone, you have to do those small things that you think will not matter. If you want to gain your confidence back then you need to prepare, you need to do the things that not all people can do, you have to be one of a kind, your effort should stand out.

4. Prepare yourself for failure. If you are prepared to fail and you have a mindset of nothing to lose then you will become more confident, you will become relaxed, loose and creative. You should be prepared for the worst case scenario so that you will never worry about losing. It's like you don't care whether you win or lose you will just give you best no matter what and have fun with what's going on.

5. Go back to your goal. If you have a goal then you will become more confident, you don't care about anything else, you know your priorities and you will go for it, you will never give time for things that doesn't matter into your life.