This is one of the biggest mistakes that most people does, when they see people around them growing stronger and becoming successful they started to become afraid that they are being left behind. They started to panic. They focus on the people around them that are growing, watching them, thinking about them, thinking what are they doing to become successful. They were so insecure and wanted to match the people that are growing but they aren't doing anything.
Don't be afraid if your competitors, opponents, frenemies are growing stronger and becoming successful. Be afraid if you remain the same. You can also grow, you can also become stronger. All you need to do is be committed to growth and focus mainly on yourself. Never get jealous if someone is succeeding because only weak people do that. If you see someone who is growing and becoming successful be happy for him, if you can't be happy then just keep quiet and don't do anything to put him down.
I repeat the only thing that you should be afraid of is when you remain the same. If you are not improving, if you are not doing something to improve yourself then that is the thing that you should be scared of. You hold your life, you are responsible for your growth. You have the full command on things that are happening in your life. You can decide if you want to grow or just remain the same.
