June 12, 2017

YOU'RE NOT THE HOTTEST GUY IN THE WORLD

Don't get mad or feel sorry for yourself if a girl dumps you or rejected you... you're not the hottest guy in the world so don't ever feel that you're entitled to be love by any kind of woman in the world. You're just an ordinary guy that is aspiring to bang some chicks. Are you an artist? are you a millionaire? Don't ever feel bad if you've been rejected because that is normal. Don't lose your confidence, it is life... you will be rejected and you will also reject somebody.

Rejection is normal, there is nothing wrong with it. Even the hottest guy in the world has been rejected. Even Tom Cruise has been rejected from the past. What is the big deal about it? did you lost some money after getting rejected? did your nose got bigger? your life remain the same right? So why are you making rejection a big deal? why are you crying like a baby?

Rejection can only create emotion, and that emotion of course is negative. Yeah, it hurts but what can you do? You can never change an answer from anyone because it's their choice to reject you. Don't focus on what you can't control, focus on what you can control and that is your emotions and perspectives. Don't feel so bad if you've been rejected, don't dwell on it so much, stop acting like a diva that needs to be pampered. It is what it is, if they don't like you so be it.

HOW TO AVOID REJECTION?
You can't avoid rejection even if you're the most handsome guy or richest man in the world. The only thing you can do is treat it like it is nothing. If you can just laugh at being rejected then you will feel that you're not rejected. It is the emotion towards rejection that makes it look bad. Just give yourself a compliment that they let a big fish escape by not choosing you, just think that way so you will still feel good about yourself.

NEVER LET A REJECTION DESTROY YOUR CONFIDENCE
A lot of people suffers a depression after getting rejected. This is a weak kind of approach, you should never feel depressed after being rejected because it means that is not for you, it means something better is waiting for you and all you need to do is try again. Keep taking risks, keep asking for what you want and one day maybe next week or next month... you will become successful at anything that you ask for.

THE MORE YOU GET REJECTED THE MORE YOU WILL BECOME CONFIDENT
It is really true, it is all about the numbers. The more you get rejected, the more you will understand that it is not a big deal, sometimes you will even make it a game. If you get good at it... you will never be afraid to ask for what you want or need anymore, getting rejected will not bother you anymore. Rejection will make you stronger and tougher if you keep absorbing it.

A lot of people were shy before, a lot of people can't express themselves before but the power of rejection makes them tough, it makes them a better and confident person because they keep on experiencing it.

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