EVERYONE CAME FROM NOTHING BUT EVERYONE THINKS THEY HAVE SOMETHING

All of us came from nothing, we were born naked without holding anything in our hands. We don't have house, clothes, jewelries, cars, money or food. That is why we all came from nothing and there is nothing to hold on to.

But when you grow up and started to learn some new tricks... you become possessive. You started to worry about money, things, bills, insurance, school, reputation, success etc. Do you really think that what you have is really yours? you only borrow those things, you cannot have it with you when you die, you cannot bring it with you to the other world. You came from nothing so you really don't have anything.

You should not feel pressure to lose something because you will still lose it in the future. Don't care too much for your properties because it is never permanent. It is just there to give you a little happiness, the real happiness is living life the way you wanted to live it without attaching yourself to anything or anyone. Don't feel too much pressure if you can't pay your car and the bank is about to get it from you, don't think too much about it because it is not yours, nobody owns it, even the bank doesn't own it.

If you will only understand that money, properties and reputation will never stay forever then you will have lesser pressure in your life.

If you feel no pressure maintaining your car then you can pay it easily, don't think about losing it so you will never lose it. Just relax and do your best, don't think about anything that will make your life difficult. Be open to losing it because you will never be able to keep it forever, it is  just a thing, it is only temporary. Being open to losing it will make you breathe easier, you will attract more opportunities in life because the pressure is not there anymore. Just have the mindset of nothing to lose so things will be easier to you.

If you have no pressure losing your money then you will have more money. Putting no value into something will make you easier to multiply it. That is the trick, don't be afraid to lose it so you can have it easily or even multiply it. Because the worrying is not there anymore, you will be able to make good decisions and take actions.

Don't feel bad about something if you lost it because you will still lose it in the future. You cannot keep anything or anyone forever, nothing is permanent in this world.

CHANGE CAN BE DONE IN JUST TWO WEEKS

If you want to change then make a commitment for just two weeks. Swear to yourself that you will never break your commitment and you will endure all the difficulty of keeping it.

If you want to make your fat ass thin then you should commit to exercising and eating clean and healthy foods for just two weeks, it is not that long, once you passed the two weeks then you already changed. The results may not be there yet but the habits were already built and all you need to do is keep eating healthy foods and doing some sweaty activities.

Two weeks is all you need, it is the most difficult part but once you overcome the uncomfortable feelings in two weeks and you manage to not break your streak then you're already a different person. Congratulations to you because you did a good job, you're a different animal now.

Once you did something for two straight weeks, it is very difficult to break that habit, it has already a strong foundation in your system. Let's say you are jogging everyday for 2 straight weeks... you will feel different and weird if you're not yet jogging today, your body will search for that sweaty feeling and you will only feel good once you are done jogging.

So if you want to change from being a bum to a smart person then just read useful books for 2 straight weeks, you will see a big transformation in your life. Some of your bad habits will be replaced by good ones, habits that will contribute to your growth. It is very easy, 2 weeks is all you need so you better star counting now.

Your life can only change by building new habits that will make you a better person, all you need is two weeks to build a good habit and of course you have to maintain it. Maintaining is very easy because on those two weeks of enduring and disciplining yourself... your mind will start to record a new habit that you need to do, the habit that you build for two weeks will be automatic. You will do things without feeling heavy, it will be very easy for you to execute.

So count now, make today as your day one. Start a new habit that will change your life and do it for two straight weeks. Anyone can change, change is possible and easy.

FOCUSING ON THE RIGHT THINGS

One trait that you must learn in order to live a happier and lighter life is to focus on the right things. if you will focus on the right things then your life will become better, easier and more fun. A lot of people focus on the wrong things because they think that it is fun, yeah maybe it is fun in the beginning but wait for a few more days or weeks and it is not fun anymore. Some people will focus on eating a lot, they thought that it is fun. Yeah it is fun while you are eating but wait for a few more weeks or months and you will see that it is not fun anymore, you will see your tummy getting bigger and your physique looking lazier and uglier. Now tell me, was that really fun? if you just focus on doing an exercise instead of eating a lot then you will be happier. You know what is right but you are not doing it.

Focusing on the right things is a little bit boring, wrong things are more fun but the reality is... wrong things has no benefits in the future. Yeah, it is fun to absent than to go to classes, it is fun to go home early than to do an overtime, it is fun to just watch DVD than to do your homework but focusing on wrong activities will make your life harder in the future. It is not hard now because you are still having fun but wait until your punishment was serve to you.

Focus on earning money instead of borrowing money from other people. A  lot of people were able to survive by just borrowing and not returning the money back. They will borrow from different people until they become buried in debts. Yeah, it is easy but the point here is it is not making their life better. They should focus more on the right thing which is looking for a source of income, it can be a job or just a simple business.

Instead of focusing your thoughts on worries, jealousy or envy why not focus it on love, appreciation and hope? You will see a big difference if you do it. Everyone knows what is right, the only missing is implementing it.

ENJOYING THE LAW OF AVERAGES

In anything that you are doing, you will become successful if you will use the law of averages. If you are pursuing a big goal, you can become successful if you will just use the law of averages and stick with it for a very long time, stick with it until you become successful. It is the law that is sure to work and will give you everything you want.

It is the only law that you need to use, it is the simplest but somehow difficult law. You only need perseverance, will and a clear vision to make it work. You don't need talents, connections, knowledge or any overrated things. Just make the process simple, fall in love with trying as much as you can until you become successful.

If you will choose to use it then you have nothing to worry about, all you gonna do is bang the door until opens, hammer it til the bitter ends. This law is applicable to anything, the more you try, the more you take chances... the more you are getting near in becoming successful. You don't need to be perfect while trying, you don't need to be smart while making decisions. Just keep on letting your numbers grow, just keep on trying and trying again, as simple as that.

An example is a salesman, if he will only call one hundred people a day or knock on 100 doors a day to promote his product then for sure he will able to make a deal. An ordinary and weak salesman will quit for a couple of tries but a superb salesman will never quit until he make a sale. Very simple yet people don't want to do it because they were too lazy and hopeless, they lost their motivation once they were rejected a couple of times. They don't know that the more they try, the more they become closer to making a sale.

Just simply count, always produce 100 or try 100, it is the minimum number of tries, if you can increase it then much better.

Be happy when someone rejected you, any rejection is counted, it is part of the execution so it means you are not wasting time. It means you are getting closer to what you want.

If you can appreciate every rejection then you will become successful for sure, your excitement on the first try should remain and must never diminished even if you already faced a lot of rejections. You must remain hopeful, motivated and strong. Using the law of averages requires a lot of patience, you can become angry or mad but how will it help you? To make the law of averages work, just simply be happy failing over and over again.

SIMPLE EQUATION IN MONEY TO BECOME RICH

Getting rich is very simple, a lot of people can't become rich because they are making it complicated. being rich is all about how you feel, it is all about enjoying the feeling of having a financial security and providing your family their basic needs. Everything else is just additional.

The equation is this: THE MONEY THAT IS COMING IN SHOULD BE GREATER THAN WHAT IS COMING OUT. 

Very basic and very simple, if you want to become rich then you should not spend more than what you can earn. You should be focused on saving money and trying to make it grow every now and then. You don't need a major degree for this, you don't need to have a master's degree. All you need is a simple logic and the discipline to save money as much as you can. You don't even need to have a very strong business or a passive income that will give you a lot of money. All you need is having the commitment to grow your money and enjoying the process of doing it.

Once the mindset of growing your money is there, once the love for making your financial status always stronger then you will be alright. You are on your way to becoming rich because you're already rich. Once you have a mindset of a rich person then you're already rich even though the money is not yet there. You will find more ways how to grow your money little by little, you will have a lot of fun seeing your bank accounts multiplied as the years go by. It is a slow but sure process.

It doesn't matter if your salary is only small, the most important thing here is following the equation, the money that is coming in should be greater than what is coming out. Poor people, once they received their monthly salary, they will immediately consume a lot of things that they don't even need. There are no excuses here, you can budget your money and follow the equation if you really want to become rich.

If you were able to save $30,000 you should not buy a $15,000 car or even a $10,000 car. Remember that your objective is to make your money grow and not to spend it. You can only buy luxury things if you feel that your financial status will never be affected by doing that.

It's all about how you feel, you should be addicted in saving money and making it grow rather than having a habit of spending it all once you have some.

Be humble and don't be flashy, people who are in debts loves to buy things that will make them look rich, only to find out that they don't need to buy those things. They will only learn that their decision is bad once they don't have anymore money to spend.

My mother and father were my idols, they were not in a hurry to become rich, they just save and save money as much as they can and when they have enough money... they use it to build apartments. They were not business moguls, they don't know anything how to become rich. They only do the basic stuffs and look at them now... they were financially stable and they don't have any debts. They can relax all they long without having to worry about money.

If you are only smart to handle your money and stop buying useless things then you will become rich one day. It is not a one night process, but it is a sure process that will give you a financial freedom. No excuses here, if you need to endure a lot of things, if you need to be a little bit hungry because of saving then do it.

All you need to do is be happy with the little growth that you are having in your money savings and always follow the equation...  you should keep more than you can spend. Everything else will follow, riches will be attracted to you. And also, stop being envy with other people who are buying what they want, those people are broke deep inside, you are not one of them, you are rich because you are in the right path.

YOU STILL HAVE TO KEEP WORKING EVEN IF THE RESULTS ARE NOT COMING

A lot of people will only work if the results were guaranteed. They will not exert an effort if they don't have any assurance that they will get something in return. This kind of mindset is a mindset of a broke individual that feels he is entitled of something. A lot of people will never work unless they are sure that money will flow, a lot of people will not even go to a job interview unless they are sure that the job will be given to them.

But life and success doesn't work that way. You still have to work and make an effort even if money is not guaranteed, especially if you don't have anything. You will only have the right to become picky or choosy if you have a lot of money in your bank but if not... then you have to work regardless if money is not guaranteed. Because what you are building here is momentum and character. You have to build a habit of working everyday and finding opportunities everyday so that you will not be stuck in a mud.

If you are an aspiring athlete, if you wanted to become professional, what you need to do is you have to practice everyday, you have to be stronger everyday even if there are no offers yet or there are no contract signing yet. You have to work because your effort will server as an attraction for the opportunity. You have to have a constant improvement because when an opportunity comes and you're not ready.. you will not get it. Always being ready and prepared physically and mentally will guarantee you a spot.

Some people who already got the job thinks they don't have to work anymore, they think that they can afford to become lazy and take it easy, the result is they lost their work. The conclusion is you still have to work and improve if you want to remain on top because anything can be taken away from you if you start to build lazy habits. Even the richest people are still working hard, even the millionaires grind all day long.

Be patient and always try to improve everyday so your skills will continue to grow and you will not become rusty. Always look for opportunity because it is the only way that will keep you in the right rhythm. Never stop killing your momentum because at any given time, the biggest opportunity may knock on your door.

THERE ARE MILLIONS OF THOUGHTS THAT YOU CAN ENTERTAIN

Thoughts are what controls a man. a man's thought is his life, future and condition. So if your life sucks now it means you have a troubled thought, you have a disorganized pattern of thinking and you must act right away if you want to save your life.

There are millions of thoughts that you can entertain but you can only entertain one at a time. You can't be thinking about winning and losing at the same time, you will only go crazy by doing that. You only have one brain, it can only process one information at a time.

But the good thing is... you can choose you thoughts if you are mindful about it. You must be aware if you are processing negative and useless thoughts and replace them with a more positive one. It is possible to filter a thought that is only making you weak and sick, You just need time and practice.

Rather than thinking about losing, you can think about winning isn't it? Even if you are down with a large margin, even if it looks like impossible to comeback, you can still think about winning right? it may sounds irrational but you can still think positive even if the situation is negative.

So be picky when choosing what thoughts to let in. Thoughts are very powerful and if you will not be aware of what thoughts are running inside of your head... you're in big trouble. Situations and people can control you, you will be played, you will not be able to make good decisions and execute right actions. In other words... you're not being yourself.

Always entertain thoughts that will make you feel better and think clearer. You can choose your thoughts, you can control your mind, don't let it control you.

You have a lot of options but you are not using it. If you cannot control the thoughts that are entering your brain, prepare a back up thought that you can use later to overpower the negative thoughts.

THE GREATEST REWARDS OF HARDWORK

The greatest reward of hardwork is the person you become. It is not the money, it is not the fame or flashiest things but the personality that you developed by simply working hard. You become a better person, you will value time so much and you will know its greatest importance. The money, success, fame or expensive things are just extra bonus. The greatest reward of hardwork is you became the best version of yourself.

With hardwork you will have more time for yourself. A lot of people thinks that working hard will give them less time for themselves which is completely wrong. You will have a lot of time for yourself because you are so focus on doing your own thing. You will refuse to go to parties, you will refuse to watch TV, you will refuse to look for other people's lives because you are so focused on your own stuff.

You will know yourself even more. You will know how good you are, you will know how strong you are and that you are capable of producing great things. You will become very good in your field, you will see greatness in you.

You will gain more confidence. If you know that you work harder than your competitors then you can easily dethrone them. You know that success will be on your side and will always be on your side because success always favors the people who works really hard.

Your confidence will go higher and higher as you work harder. Sometimes you will even feel invincible because your knowledge, skills and strength keeps on leveling up. Working hard will never make you feel that you are less, you will always feel more and abundant. You know you work hard and you know you will be rewarded more.

REMEMBER THE WORST THING THAT HAPPENED TO YOU

If you want to arrange your life, if you want to have a right direction then remember the worst thing that happened to you. Remember the bad fortune that you get for making a very bad and immature decision.

So if you are feeling lazy now, try to remember what is the worst thing that happened to you when you become lazy. Based on my experience, what happen when I become lazy is I was burned by a huge debt. I have debts from my family members, banks etc. But I am so glad that I was able to recover and I pay all of them. Up to now, I am still working hard and I can't forget the lesson that I got from being lazy. You can do it too, once you are feeling lazy, try to remember the worst thing that happened to you. I am sure you will take actions because you wouldn't want that to happen again.

If your friend is inviting you to a party and you are having a hard time resisting because you are thinking of having fun but you have an important appointment tomorrow, here is what you need to do again, remember the worst thing that happened to you when you drink but you have an important meeting on the next day. It could be you're late, your client go away, your boss get mad at you, you didn't perform well because your body is still invaded by alcohol etc.

Once you remember the worst thing that happened to you by making such a bad decision then for sure you will do the right thing. It is all about remembering the lesson and remembering the feeling of failing. Your fast failure will let you know what is the move to do to put your life in a better position.

NUMBER OF TRIES WILL NEVER RAN OUT

Why are you so afraid of failing? why are you so afraid of not making it work? don't you know that you can try again? yes, it's a good news, you can always try, your number of tries will never ran out. You can try as many as you can, you can try fast, you can try again now, you can try again tomorrow. That is the beauty of life, your number of tries will never ran out, you are allowed to try anytime you want. But this game will only be enjoyed by people who are persevering and will never quit until they win.

The losers never knew that they can try again, they will stop immediately once they've tasted a defeat. I don't know why but maybe the reason why they will never try again is because they think they will get the same result. If you fail now and you try again next time... for sure you will get a different result, you may lose again but your performance will become better because you already gained an experience. You already know what to do and you are more confident because you already saw the challenge. You already knew how it feels so that is a very big advantage.

Keep trying because no one can stop you. They can make fun of you and tell you that you are trying hard so much but it is better to try hard than to not try at all.

Immune yourself to failure. Once you try a lot of times and you fail, you will never be scared of failing again, it will never make you feel bad again because you already surpass the depression that you can get from failing. You will not feel bad anymore when you fail, you will be toughen, you will become stronger than before. That is what trying a lot of times can give you... it will give you a thick skin, you will never feel bad even if they call you a failure.

So enjoy trying and trying again, it is a journey. Success has no choice but to submit itself to you once it saw what you are deserving. Success will have a heart and will give you what you want.