THERE IS NO REASON FOR PANICKING IF LIFE IS NOT ON THE LINE

Why are you panicking? why are you in a hurry? why are you so tense? Is there a life in danger? Was that so important? are you going to create a fortune if you force it?

People were so worried in different things that really doesn't mean anything. They want to hurry because they thought that time is running out but in reality the world still stays the same, the world isn't melting so what is it to worry about?

Take your time and be in the moment. You will feel that you live longer if you are in the moment, just focus on what is infront of you, just do what you can do, talk slowly, breathe deeply, realize that everything is under control and there is nothing to worry about. Know that panicking will not help you, it will make the situation even worse. Being in the moment and staying in your pace will make you appreciate life even more, you can enjoy any situation even if there is no occasion.

If no one will die then there is no reason to panic. Life is the most precious thing on earth so if something that makes you worry has nothing to do with life then don't take it so hard. Just take it easy, stay cool and practice having a calm mind.

Be thankful if you are still breathing because living is the only thing that you can't control. You can become rich, you can become powerful, you can become successful but you can't tell how long will you live. At any given moment the world can explode or accident can happen so be appreciative if you are still breathing.

There is no reason to worry for money, there is no reason to worry for work because those things cannot be carried with you once you are dead. Everything in this world will stay in this world, you can never bring something on the other life, not even a single penny.

So never let yourself be caught into arguments that are useless. Free yourself from any situations that can only make you feel bad. Just focus on the people that are precious to you. Never let work, deadlines, bills or any kind of desire stress you so much.

But I a not saying that you don't have to work hard and take some things seriously, my point here is don't panic, don't let something bother you if your life is not on the line.

The only things that you have to focus is how to become happy, how to make others happy and how to make your life well spent.

If you fail at something, don't take it seriously because you already have failed, failing is already painful so thinking about it will just double the pain. Just move on and try again next time.

If you want to have a happy and effective life then don't rush nor panic, just take it one step at a time, give your best and live with the results.

CHECK YOUR FEELINGS

How many times do I have to say this, "It's all about how you feel". We tend to do things because of the feeling that it gives to us. Things doesn't matter, what matters is the feeling that a thing can give. That is why children were very easy to please and their happiness is not so deep. Just give them a toy and they will be happy, it doesn't matter if the toy is expensive or not, branded or not, it can still give happiness to children regardless of how much it cost.

You love a girl not because of how she looks or how pretty she was but because of the feeling you felt when she is around. And it is true, that is why celebrities change their partners every now and then, they were just attracted to the looks of their partners, they don't give too much importance on how they feel. Or maybe they thought that they were truly in love because they prioritized beauty and the looks of their partners is tricking their brains, but later they will learn that they don't really feel anything to their partners, especially if their partners doesn't look gorgeous to them anymore.

If you are in the middle of your task and you were always making mistakes, check your feelings, are you worried? in a hurry? in doubt? scared? If you are constantly feeling negative emotions then you will really make a lot of mistakes. That is why sometimes you need to take a break, analyze what is going on, breathe deeply. You need to somehow rest your mind and stop the mental warfare going on inside of your head. You need to bring back your emotion to default and that is being calm and carefree.

Emotions can either make you or break you. You should be aware of how you feel every now and then so you can control the situation. That is why some people who exploded right away and exhibited rage didn't know what they are doing anymore. They make violent actions without controlling themselves and when their anger stops... they were full of regrets and they also don't know how come they commit such unacceptable behaviors. They were very shy of what they've done because that was not their true selves, emotions got the best of them.

Your feelings will control you if you don't guard it, sometimes you are not the same person anymore if your feelings get the best of you. You do stupid things that are out of control, you say hurtful words that you don't really meant. You hurt people and you make decisions that you don't even think about first. You only think of letting people know that you are angry and want some revenge, you are not being you.

But when you are happy and you feel positive, everything goes well, everything flows smoothly and it seems like you can't even make a mistake, you are in the zone and everything you need falls in its designated place.

Positive feelings will give you positive results, negative feelings will give you misery and shame. You can still feel positive even if you are suffering, once you mastered this... there is no challenge that you can overcome, you can control the situation rather than the situation controls you.

Choose to feel good or just think positive whenever things aren't going well, sooner or later the negative feeling you have will change to positive. Guard your emotions every now and then, your emotions will be your ticket to success and happiness.

UNDERESTIMATE YOUR OPPONENT AND YOU WILL SERVE A SEVERE PUNISHMENT

UNDERESTIMATE YOUR OPPONENT AND YOU WILL SERVE A SEVERE PUNISHMENT

7 BEST WAYS TO APPRECIATE YOUR LIFE EVEN MORE

Appreciation is the best way to have an easier life. Appreciation is peace, it is satisfaction and knowing that you are blessed. Most people cannot appreciate the goodness in their lives that is why they live in misery even though they have a lot of things. Appreciation is good for your health, even if you are experiencing a lot of stress, if you are very appreciative then your problems will be overwritten by the joy that you are experiencing from appreciating simple things in life.

There are some people who can appreciate the small things in life and there are also some people who cannot even appreciate the big things in their lives, their endless pursue of bigger things never ends, they always compare themselves to others that is why they cannot become happy. Appreciation is very simple, it is just looking around and feeling the goodness of your life. You just need to think simpler and let go of your ego.

• Look for people who were less fortunate than you. Look around, there are lot of streetchildren, people who have no house, no food, no clothes and basically almost have nothing. Look at them closely and study their lives, you will find out that you are still very lucky because you can still pay a pile of bills, you can still eat in a clean restaurant, you have a house where you can sleep at night without having to worry about your safety or if it will rain very strong. You have clothes that you don't appreciate because of not being branded. You have all the basic needs in life, all you need to do is make your life prosperous if you want more. If you have all the basic needs in life then it means you are still very lucky and rich and there is nothing you should complain about.

• Appreciate the completeness of your body. You are very lucky if your body is complete especially if healthy. Some people were born with their body incomplete yet they still do good in life and strive to become successful. If no part of your body is missing then you can do everything. You have no excuses not to succeed because if you will look at other people who were incomplete... they were so motivated to become great and literally they are becoming great everyday. It will be easy for you to achieve success if your body is complete so be happy and appreciate it.

• Appreciate every moment, even the bad moments. Every moment of your life is still a part of your life, even if you are having bad moments today, appreciate it still. Bad moments is just a part of your life and your life will not function completely without those bad moments. Appreciating every moment will give you a better feeling rather than shaming bad moments. Bad moments has a purpose and it will still give you something to learn if you will just think positively.

• Always strive for greatness. Striving for greatness will show you how good you can be. Even if you didn't become the greatest, you will still appreciate life because you will see that it has a lot to offer. Striving for greatness will make you appreciate life even more because it will show you the best side of you. It will give you a lot of feelings that cannot be felt by just sitting and watching television. Striving for greatness will make you appreciate the little things in life because you will experience a lot of pain by doing it, you will experience a lot of hardship and it will open your eyes to being happy with just having some water to drink and air to breathe.

• Learn that life is very short. This will make you appreciate life even more, learning that life is very short will put pressure on yourself to see the goodness in life by just being alive. Some people just live for months or even days, some people died earlier than they expected. If you can see that any given day you can die then you will give your best every single day, you will love stronger everyday. You will not take any second for granted, you will take every opportunity that was presented to you and you will not become angry at very little things because you will just focus on other things that will make you happy, you knew that being angry at little things will just waste your time and energy and it is not worth it. Learning that life is very short will make you feel you need to do more and experience more. You will become very patient and you want to see yourself  and the people around you very happy.

• Appreciate the things that were attached to your body right now. If you have an old watch, appreciate it. If you have an old clothes, shoes, cap, underwear just appreciate it. You will feel that you are very rich because you have those things unlike people who live in a very poor country, they don't even have slippers to use. All they have is some piece of cloth wrapped around their bodies. They look like they live in 10,000 BC. Look how lucky you are and yet you are still complaining. If those people can afford to smile then you don't have the right to frown everyday.

• Remember when you were just a baby. When you were just a baby you have nothing, you have no clothes, you have no money, you don't have anything. And now you've come so far, maybe you are not that rich but you really gained a lot. You experienced going to school, falling in love, going to different places, eating a lot of food. You already experienced a lot and that is something to be happy. You don't have anything when you were born in this world so you really don't miss anything.

NO SYSTEM IS PERFECT

One of the biggest problem that our world is facing today is people always look for a system that is perfect. I am going to expose a reality and disappoint the people whose looking for a system that is perfect, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT SYSTEM.

People blame the government if they see some irregularities even if it is very little. They tend to criticize and make the issue bigger, even if the issue is just about a computer that is malfunctioning. They will brag, they will shoutout to the world that they found some issues, they will act like they were perfect and they need some perfect service.

You must accept that flaws is everywhere, imperfectness cannot be cured because no matter how hard you try, no matter how do you want the world to become perfect... you will not see it, especially if you are so judgemental and you cannot appreciate the real beauty in life.

Even if you just belong to a small group, you will see that the system there is not perfect. There will be some irregularities, little mistakes, shortcomings and any other things that makes your group imperfect. What you need to do is either correct it or  just ignore it. If it is not making any damage then just let it be. And even if you correct a simple mistake, you will still find another fault in other areas. The imperfectness will never end, you need to accept it. You can make things better but don't expect that problems will never show again in the future.

Even if you go to the richest country in this world, even if you associate yourself to the most educated people... you will still see some flaws and sometimes it will even disappoint you because you are expecting too much. You can only find a better place but it doesn't mean you will no longer see any problems.

Learn to adapt and accept. If you can't change something then just accept it, stop focusing on it because it will only get bigger. Problems become big because people tend to make it bigger. Learn to adopt because it is the only way how to make your life easier. Accept that your environment has some problems and there is nothing you can do about it. If you can change it then go but if you cannot then just forget it and place your focus on other things that are more pleasant.

Finding a perfect system exists only in dreams. People always say "this is the perfect place for me", "that is the perfect job for me", "this is what I've been looking for for a very long time" and when they see some faults...they will feel bad and look for immediate replacement.

You should not adjust your environment, you should learn how to adjust to your environment. Life is very easy if you can adapt and stop complaining. All you can do is find a better place if you wanted to move, but as the time goes by, you will still see some ugliness around you. It is because people cannot be satisfied on what they have, they always look for some better things and when they found it... they will still look for another that is better than the previous one. The cycle will never end, if you have this kind of mindset then you will be in a rat race forever.

THE WORLD IS JUST REPEATING

The world is just repeating, what you have seen from the past, you will see it again in the future or even today. Success will be repeated, mistakes will be repeated, there might be a slight difference but everything is still similar in some ways.

That is why winners keep on winning and losers keep on losing, rich people continue to become more rich and poor people becomes poorer. It is simply because they just repeat what they do everyday. Repetition is powerful, some people don't want to give importance to it because sometimes repeating too much doesn't give any excitement anymore, sometimes it becomes so very boring so it is very hard to repeat again.

The trick is this... find one thing that works in your life and repeat it over and over again. If you can enjoy repeating your success then you will go further than what you expected. Repetition is genius, nobody in this world becomes a genius without repeating his work for a thousand times and spending a lot of hours. The term "the chosen one" is just a myth, everyone can choose himself to become the chosen one if he wants to. Only if he put the work and commitment to his chosen path.

Now, if you can repeat what the successful people did then you can also become victorious. Repeat their thoughts, repeat their work ethics, repeat their attitude, just completely copy their lifestyle and you can also repeat their success. You don't need to do special things just repeat and you will have a feat. The already show the layout, you don't need to change anything, just trust the process and find your way to success.

Come to think of it... the history is really repeating itself. After a very good athlete retires, there will always be someone who will fill the place. Before, the world were so afraid of losing Michael Jordan because they think that basketball will never be the same without him, the world thought nobody can replace him but there goes Kobe Bryant who almost do everything what Michael does. He copy Michael's work ethic, mindset, dedication and approach to the game. He accomplished what Michael accomplished, there might be a slight difference but he also became very successful.

In any given field, once the great ones were already done, there will be people to replace them. The world is just repeating, it is because the replacements also does what the greats does, they just repeat the hardwork and they have the same attitude and also the mindset.

So it is up to you what it is that you wanted to repeat. What are you doing now can be done by someone else before, so if you wanted to see how your future looks like, find someone who already have results, study their work ethic and their past and if it is similar as yours then you already knew where you are heading to.

That is why children who have bad parents were having hard time to change their lives, it is because they copy what their parents does. Have you seen a child who have separated parents? when he grew up he almost copied the same path of his parents, he has a broken relationship too. I am not saying that if you came from a broken family then you will have a hard time building your own family too. I am just citing some examples and cases because people tends to copy the people on his environment.

So if you want to have a good life, be careful on what do you wanted to repeat. You can repeat any kind of success in the world, if you will just repeat the process of what it takes to become successful.

IF YOU'VE TASTED A SERIES OF DEFEAT YOUR VICTORY WILL BECOME VERY SWEET

IF YOU'VE TASTED A SERIES OF DEFEAT YOUR VICTORY WILL BECOME VERY SWEET

5 THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT CONFIDENCE

Well confidence is really what is missing to those people who wanted to become great but cannot. Even if they try so hard, practice so hard and kill themselves doing a lot of things, there is still something missing in them. Sometimes working hard is very frustrating especially if you can't see any result.

Now, if you knew in yourself that you really work super super hard and you already paid your dues... what you need to do next is train your mental strength. The skills were already there, the physical strength is already there, what you need to do is level up your mental toughness or improve your confidence.

For many, they thought that confidence is something that was given during birth. They thought that it was genetically distributed and if you didn't get enough of it, sorry to you. The truth is confidence is moldable, it can be taken to different heights, it depends on how big do you want it to grow, you can choose to become confident or not, it is up to you. There are some things that people should know about confidence, here they are:

1. Your confidence is not permanent. Sometimes your confidence is high and sometimes it is very low. It depends on what is happening into your life. Of course your confidence will go higher if you are winning and thriving and it will go low if you are losing and being beaten in different ways. The good news is once you reach some level of confidence and it goes down because of some tragic event... you can bring it back and make it even higher than it's highest position from the past. So never get discouraged if your confidence is lost or if you have no confidence at all, you can always build confidence whenever you want to, you just need to make an effort and use a lot of patience. Never get frustrated because you have no confidence now, just remember that one day you can become confident too like other people if you give time for yourself and do the necessary work to attain it.

2. Confidence can be build through repeated failure. Just because you are failing repeatedly doesn't mean you are a failure and it also doesn't mean you must let your confidence go down. If you can see the bright side of failing then you can build a lot of confidence from it. Failing a lot means gaining a lot of experiences, it will also somehow put your mind into a "nothing to lose" mentality. Because you were so familiar with failing, everytime you try again, it feels nothing anymore, the pressure is gone and it seems like it is just another normal day. You don't care if you fail anymore because there is no more emotional attachment with it. You already experienced the pain for failing a lot of times so you are not scared to fail anymore, you are so much loose and you are not afraid to express yourself anymore. Some people even put themselves into situations where knew they will fail, they do it on purpose so they will know how to react next time and what to do next time, their main purpose is not win but to get feedbacks.

3. Confidence can be faked. If you don't feel confident at all, fake it. Look for a person who is so confident, look at your idol, watch all of his movements, physique and body language. Imitate what he does, imitate how he carries himself and soon you will see that you are gaining some confidence in yourself. If you can't find someone whom you can imitate then just completely fake it. Act like you are confident, hide your fears, speak like you are confident, just play with it. Make a list of how a confident person acts or behaves then do the same even if you are a little bit scared.

4. You can find your own way how to become confident. A lot of books, ebooks, DVDs, tutorials and seminars were available in the market that promises you they will teach you how to become confident. While some of them were true, you are still the one who can teach yourself the best on how to become confident. You can find your own technique through experiencing a lot and guarding your emotions, study yourself, find the roots of your confidence and what makes you feel good about yourself. Find your fears and continuously try to conquer them. Look for the things that makes you confident and important. You are free to use your own technique on how to become confident, you are free to try anything. Even if your method is hard and will make you very uncomfortable do it.

5. Confidence can be felt exactly when you need it. Don't be worry if you feel so nervous before your game, fight, exam, speech, performance or anything that you need your confidence. The good thing about confidence is it can appear anytime. Just take your time, feel the moment and soon you will see that your confidence is slowly building up. You can never be confident in the beginning but you can become confident as the time goes by. Just be yourself and always relax, you don't need to feel confident right away, you can never force it, it will enter your body once you are ok being uncomfortable in any situation and you are still moving.

EXPOSE ALL YOUR IDEAS NOW!

If you were so shy to expose your ideas because you were so afraid that you might be judged or nobody will like it... Stop thinking that way, JUST EXPOSE IT. Expose every little details of it, tell the world how it works, explain it very carefully and watch it inspire a lot of people.

It doesn't matter if nobody will like it, what matters is you expose it. And the truth is... someone might be needing or waiting for your idea because every idea has a designated receiver. Your ideas can be used by different people even if you thought that it is useless. Some people might laugh at it, some people might love it, some people might be touched by it so never ever keep your ideas in a box where no one can use it.

Every idea is useful for as long as it is positive and its pure intention is to help people. There are thousands of ideas that were kept because of fear, those ideas could have helped people who were in need, those ideas could have saved lives, those ideas could have changed the world.

If you keep you ideas, you will forever regret it especially if you see someone who has the same idea as yours and succeeding because he is never afraid to spread his idea.

So expose your ideas now, spread it to the world, be proud of it before it's too late and those ideas were no longer needed. It doesn't matter if nobody wants to appreciate it, what matters is you share something to the world, you take your chance and you give the world something new, you give them something to think about and something new that they can test for themselves.

And even if your idea now didn't bring success into your life, don't be sad because what matters is you exposed it and you see that it didn't succeed, the good thing here is you will come up with another new idea because you unleashed the old ones. You give another space to your brain to summoned another idea. Who knows your new idea will become successful this time?

Never be afraid to express yourself, never be afraid to spread your intentions, every great person in this world is never shy to share his knowledge to the world. And even if no one cares to listen to you, you still succeed because the fearlessness to express yourself is being developed. You will also get a feedback and you will know what to do next time. You will become smarter and sharper, you will have a bigger chance of succeeding next time.

Another good thing about expressing your idea is even if it fails, someone might tweak it a little bit, correct the mistakes and make it successful. It doesn't matter if you didn't get the credit, what matters is you become the stepping stone of someone's success. If he acknowledge you or not, at least you knew in yourself you become a good contributor.

THERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT ARE WORKING

In life, we often focus on the things that weren't working. I don't know why people keep on doing that. Maybe it is because the negative things has a larger impact on our lives or it is causing more attention because it gives us feelings that we don't want and as the saying goes "what we resist persists". Negative things are making your brain more alive because it senses danger and irregularities. The brain is waking up because negative things can harm you. For example you are sleeping at night and you were awake by a loud noise... you will not check if your family is alright instead you will know what the noise is all about. You will get your flashlight and then you will keep on looking what made you go up then once you find nothing you will check if your family is still alive.

Another example is if you are alone in a jungle and you see two animals, one is a gazelle and another is a lion, you will focus more on the lion because it may harm you even though you are not so sure if it will harm you. Some lions can be afraid of humans too if they know how to drive them away. You were so focused on not wanting to get hurt that is why you are over assuming things even though some things were not really dangerous.

The reason why life is so hard is because you focus on the negative things, you focus on what is not working, you focus on what is giving chaos. It is easy to blame your teammate if your team is not winning instead of finding things that are working. It is easy to point fingers to others instead of appreciating what they can do.

If you are struggling, just find the things that are working. Even if you are having a difficulty in life, for sure there are still some things that will work for you. For example in studying how to play a musical instrument, it is very difficult in the beginning but for sure there are steps that are very easy for you to do, continue repeating those steps until you find a momentum to learn another step.

Example is learning how to play a guitar, there are some chords that are very hard to do because of the positioning of the fingers is really hard but for sure there are also some chords that are very easy to do, just focus on the easier chords first, master it until you are ready to do the harder chords. Never rush, never focus on what you can't do because it will only give you depression that will result to stopping how to learn.

If you are having a difficulty in finding money, again focus on the things that are working. Those steps may not give you money right away but those steps are working to give you a little bit of progress. If you were always being called for a job interview but you are not being hired after the interview, that thing is still working, it is working because it is making you closer to getting a job. Keep on attending job interviews even if there is no assurance that you will get hired, that thing is working and if you keep on doing it, sooner or later you will land a job.

If you have a business but no one is buying your product yet there are still some people that were asking you how much is your product... never close your business even if the money is not coming in because those inquiries from people is working, it is making you one step closer from making a sale. Just focus on the positive things because even though it is not giving you the result that you want, it is still working and it is giving you some momentum, it is giving you a little bit of hope.

In any kind of difficulty, there are some things that are still working, never forget that. It is up to you how to find it and make it work even better. Remember when you were just a kid trying to learn how to bike? You can't balance the bike and you keep on falling, but some times you can manage to pedal for a few times, and that thing is working. You keep on repeating the pedaling because there is a hope that you can pedal without stopping. And that day will come, you will learn how to ride a bike and having the perfect balance, it is simply because you keep on focusing on what is working and doing it repeatedly.

You'll just have to do what is working repeatedly until you become successful. No need to complicate things, even if that thing that works is very little, you need to trust it and keep doing it. Those little things that were repeatedly done will become big in the end.