You're not afraid of failing, critics, mistakes, what the people say, consequences, punishments or heartbreaks, you are afraid of the feeling you will get after experiencing those things. So if you're not afraid of the feeling then you will become fearless or maybe your fear will diminished by 90% and that is a very good bargain. So if you're thinking that something is scary think again, you're not afraid of anything you just don't want to feel uncomfortable, fear is discomfort, it is something you don't want to feel that is why it's hard to become a hard worker and successful because most people are thinking that it is painful and difficult that is why they don't even dare to try. Your emotions is the only thing that is stopping you and nothing else, if you will realize that everything is just an emotion and it couldn't kill you then you will become free, you will become powerful. If you don't need anything from anybody like help, love, appreciation, respect then you will become powerful, you will never feel bad once that person didn't treat you right. The most powerful person in the world doesn't need anything while the weakest one needs everything. Always control what you can control, keep moving forward and that's it. Rely on yourself.. that's how to build real confidence. This is not about being fearless, this is about knowing that your emotions is the only thing that makes you scared, you don't want to feel it but what if you are ok feeling it? what if you know that it's just an emotion and not the people or situation you are scared of? what if you can judge yourself based on what you think and not on what is really happening? that is real freedom, that is power. Anything that is pressuring you is not pressuring you, you are pressured because you don't want to feel that way, what if you are not scared to become scared? what if you are not scared to become tired? what if you are ok being sad? what if you are ok failing yet still fighting? don't you think that is very liberating? what if nothing can harm you unless you permit it? what if you know that you are the only one who can hurt yourself because you're not seeing what is really happening and you are giving them access to your thoughts. You are not afraid of a ghost, you are just afraid of the feeling that the ghost can give you. But if you will take a closer look at the ghost and see it for what it is then you will discover that it can never hurt you. Being present and not trying to escape from anything will make you invincible. Accept that it's just a feeling, it's nothing but an emotion that will come and go and for the record no emotion can kill you, it can only scare you and make you look like a fool.
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