REAL CONFIDENCE COME FROM FAILURE AND PAIN

IT'S NOT FROM WINNING, IT's not from looking good and being appreciated by others... it comes from pain that you survive, it comes from humiliation that you were able to endure. It's from the pain of the process, the endless work and still failing but you still come back again and do whatever you can to still improve or win next time. You have to keep focusing on the small action that gives you a momentum and a little bit of power. Confidence doesn't come from the beginning, you will never feel it, you will have it when you worked hard, give your effort, take risks, fail and never give up. Confidence is not an easy giveaway, it doesn't choose anybody, the person who works for it will have it. The person who takes the risk and bet his identity is the one who will have it. And make no mistake, it won't stay forever, you have to be relentless to make it stay. Confidence comes from failure and pain of working harder. Focus on finishing an important task, never get yourself distracted, chase a goal that is very impossible to achieve and fail and try again, never stop, become relentless, ignore what people say, let them doubt you, let them laugh at you, let them think that you're a crazy person for trying so hard. That is what it is all about, fighting doubts and fears, putting your name on the line and not caring if the whole world hates you. You don't need to look for permission, you don't need to look for a guarantee. Look at yourself, do you feel confident or not? if not then there is a work and sacrifice that must be done, there is a pain that you need to overcome, you need to expose yourself with failure, risks and embarrassment if you really want to become confident. Stop hiding, stop playing safe, stop taking it slowly, stop stopping, stop being lazy and just do the work because it is the only way to feel more confident. The more you feel the pain and fear the more you get confident, stop hiding, stop distracting yourself with shortcuts or pleasures and just face what is infront of you. If you wanted to win and you don't have confidence it simply means you need to take the risk and outwork the fear that is holding you back. Stop looking for praises and shortcuts, start looking for urgency and work, start making yourself better with sacrifices and delayed gratification. The more you make sacrifices, the more you endure boredom... the more your confidence goes higher. Once you promise yourself that you're going to do something... do it without hesitation, do it without feeling guilty... take it, start now, create a momentum, steal the power, steal the show and never apologize for giving yourself a chance to become big. They won't understand you, they won't know what's inside of your heart, you're the only person who knows what's going on you so just hang on there and never give up. 

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