THE REAL SUCCESSFUL REVENGE...

The real successful revenge is not thinking about the people who hurt you anymore. It's setting yourself free from pain and trauma, it's treating them like nothing, like they didn't exist in your life... that's the real revenge. Forget everything that you don't want to remember. You don't need to forgive them, you don't need a closure, you don't need to explain or defend yourself... just treat them like they don't exist and you will free yourself from pain. They're getting more powerful because you're still thinking about them, don't think about them, don't speak about them and you will regain your power back. If they can no longer control nor make you feel something then they are nothing anymore. Consider them nothing and you will feel much better. You don't need to hurt them or make them know that they are wrong, you just need to ignore them and you will be the one who will gain control. This is self mastery, this is giving yourself a pace of mind. Ignore that person, don't hate him, don't laugh at his jokes, don't fight him, just treat him like a transparent plant. The more you are hating the more you will hurt yourself, as simple as that. If you want revenge, detach from the person you are hating, you may talk to him, you may join the same room as him if you have no choice but don't ever feel anything from him, don't give any emotion... that is how to win in life, you own your mind, if you are hating someone then it means you don't own your mind anymore. Nothing should affect your thinking because that is weakness, if you want to become strong... invest in your mind and you will only make it stronger by thinking about thoughts that will serve you not that will make you feel burning because of hate and anger. If someone angers you he owns you, if you want to feel in control... ignore the people that doesn't deserve your attention. Be mature enough to know what really matters in life. Move forward, you will not be able to do it when you're emotionally attached with something or someone, let it go and you will feel much better. The hate is a useless feeling, it will only make you old and weak, you have to focus on what really matters into your life and that is your mentality and goals, the people that you really love and your dreams too. Just do what you want in life and never let anyone run inside of your head the whole day, forget that person and you will feel so powerful, you will become more productive and you will have more time to do the things that really matters. You are only slowing down everytime you want a revenge, that is stupid, that is hurting yourself. The real revenge is not reacting, not feeling anything, not wanting to hurt back. If you really love yourself the best revenge is to stop thinking about the people you hate. 

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