It's not about being successful, it's not about can you make it or not, it's not about if you are good or not, it's about trying. That is the best lesson you can ever learn... you need to push the situation, push yourself and fight until the end or else you will have regrets in the end. It's ok to fail, it's ok to get embarrassed or criticized by people, it's ok if you're too late, it's ok if you keep on failing again and again, what's not ok is you didn't even exert an effort. Now you know that being slow will make you weaker even more, now you know that you have to make yourself strong so that you won't question the result. Because you're always thinking what could have happen if you gave your all and acted stronger. The good news is you can change anytime you want, you can change now. It's just a matter of looking at yourself closely and watch what you are doing and thinking. This requires nothing, you just need to use your willpower and discipline yourself to do only the things that will get you ahead in life.
IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT THEY THINK
You can't move not because you don't have the power, you have the power but you're not using it, you become powerless because you're always thinking about what people say, you think they're judging you, you think you're always wrong, you're judging yourself, you're not giving yourself the authority to just do what you need to do. It doesn't matter what they think about you, what matters is what you think about yourself. Are you going to feel good about yourself, are you going to feel really better an appreciate your own life and own way of living and thinking? or are you going to let them disturb you? the truth is they don't even care about you, you're not special, stop thinking that you're entitled of respect all the time. What matters is what you think of yourself, what matters is how you handle your life, you don't need to please everyone, you just need to be yourself and live the life you wanted to live, that's the most important thing.
LIFE IS NOT REALLY THAT HARD
It gets harder because you're acting like a chicken. Avoid all the dramas and just keep on pushing, life is hard but you're making it even harder for your chickenship and cowardice, you need to man up and just show up for every challenge that is in front of you, don't shy away, don't hide, show up and do something about it. Survive and just keep going, life will get easier if you're enforcing your will and not letting anything get on your way, you have to have that raging bull attitude... keep pushing forward even if it is hard so that you will have more control and leverage to anything you do. In life, he who can move despite obstacles will win. You can find a way, life will get easier if you're focus on actions and solutions and not on complains and excuses. Focus on the push, this way your life will get easier, life gets harder because you're too focused on the outcome instead of improving yourself. Don't wish for an easy life, the more you wish for it the harder it get, just keep going and give your all every single day. Life will become easy if you will just accept that problems are all part of your life, it will never go away, sometimes you don't have a problem but just wait and another problem will come. Don't treat it as a problem, treat it as an opportunity to rise and get better and you will find more power.
IT'S OK IF YOU'RE NOT PREPARED
Just do it, it's ok if you're not prepared, just do it and never stop, keep going until you become successful, as simple as that. Take it one step at a time and follow through as much as you can, you have to believe, it's simply about trying and taking actions, there's nothing special about this. Embrace everything in your life, it doesn't matter if you're prepared or not... just embrace it and never stop pushing, never stop giving your all, face every adversity one by one and always think that you can survive anything, you are stronger than you thought, it's just a matter of giving yourself a chance to win and giving everything you've got. You can make it if you really want it, just go hard and never back down to any challenge. Now is the time to act, accept yourself, accept your life and never judge yourself just even for once. Always think that you are right because you are working hard and giving your all. Never quit, just keep going and you will find a way.
FOCUS ON BEING SPEEDY AND THAT'S IT
Be fast in taking actions, be fast in moving on every time you fail, be fast in finishing a task, just pull the trigger no matter how bad you feel. Because the truth is you will never feel better at all, you will always feel bad and anxious or overwhelmed every time you're trying to make a move. Your feelings will stop you but your actions will never, just focus on doing it and you will feel much better and confident, the truth is you feel bad because you're not moving, you feel so terrible because you're not allowing yourself to do what is needed. You need to move now, there is no such thing as right timing, you have to allow yourself to become a doer and not a waiter. Transform yourself into a beast, do everything you can to get your goal and never stop until you finally win. Time is fleeting, never delay anything, you have to go all in no matter what.
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