It is like "ok, everyone of you go that way but I will go my own way. I will create my own path and it doesn't matter if I get lost".
If you have a made up mind then there is nothing else to worry about. Even if your present situation is bad, you can make it good. Even if things were not going on your way, you can make it go on your way. You have this mindset that no matter what, you will be alright.
You have this one thing on your mind that you will do whatever it takes to make it happen. Even if it is recession, even if the crime rate is high, even if companies were closing, even if your coach is making it hard for you... you don't care, you just don't. Even if they shake you, manipulate you or deceive you, you will still find your way back to your goal and make it happen.
This one thing on your mind cannot be erased, you already made a decision and that decision will never go wrong. If even if they are right you can make them wrong. Even if you are wrong, you can make yourself right. You have this unbreakable will that will never quit and will endure until the end.
So what is it that you want? what is it that you are willing to die for? go for it. Make your mind and start now. Create a belief that will protect you from critics, create a belief that will make you win in the end. Made up your mind and never look back.
Of course it won't be easy, there will be a lot of challenges, eyebrows raising, trashtalking or what ever it is that will put you down on you knees. But you will find your faith back because you have a made up mind.
So don't look for solutions, instead look for progressions. Look for momentum not for referendum. Your journey is so long, you better move fast, start now... make up your mind.