Jan 22, 2017
DON'T SAY I WILL, SAY "I AM ALREADY DOING IT"
If you are constantly saying "I will" then you will never do it, that phrase is bullshit and was widely used by people who are just trying to make an impression that they will really do it. A doer will never say "I will". What they constantly say is "I am already doing it".
How many times did you say "I will" and how many times did you break it? I bet a million times right? You say you will cut weight and follow your new year's resolution but what did happen? You say you will change your life and pursue your ambition but what did happen? You say you will stop smoking but what happen? you say you will try to become a better person but what happen?
Don't say you will, just do it, stop broadcasting to everyone what you are going to do because people don't need promises, the world don't need hype, they need results and evidences.
If you say you will but you will do it later then chances are you will not do it anymore. It's a 100 percent guarantee that you will postpone what you promise to do. The worst is you will just forget it and do something else.
So do it now, stop talking, stop promising... just do it. All you need to do is move and sustain your movement, what is difficult about it?
Doers never talk, they just produce results, they never give hope rather they give assurance.
So which side do you belong? is it the talker's side or the doer's side? if you will just make excuses then you're already on the talker's side. You need to pull the trigger if you're on the doer's side. You need to smell blood and have a sense of urgency. It is like forcing yourself to do it even if you don't want to do it. Slap your face if you can't move, call yourself a bitch if you can't take actions. Make yourself angry, learn to summon a motivation that will keep you moving.
Having a habit of always saying "I am already doing it" will make you transform from talker to doer. You will just start fast, make momentum and finish strong. You will hate people who always say "I will do it" because you no longer belong to their group. You're a different animal now, you already have a killer instinct, you hate talking and you love doing.
What is the point of saying "I will" if you will just think about something else after saying it, if you will just postpone doing it and do something else that is easier. Your are just making yourself low, you are turning into a fraud who can't keep his promise.
So never say "I will", just make a bold decision on your mind of doing it once you have a chance. If you really want to change then start as fast as you can. Don't hesitate, just look for the first step and execute it right away.
USING EVERYDAY IS VERY POWERFUL
Using every single day as a capital for success is very effective. You don't need money, you don't need any talents or knowledge, just use every single day to change your present situation. You can make dramatic improvement or disaster to your life because just like I said you are constantly improving everyday even if you notice it or not.
For example if you keep hating people everyday, you are becoming a very good hater. You can turn positive into a negative, you can't appreciate a good situation. And even if something is really good, you still able to find flaws and imperfections. You will be very good in hating if you keep on hating everyday, all you will see is negative, you are constantly improving but the sad thing is it is about hating. You will hate the people who are succeeding and even the ones who are failing, you just hate everything about life because you do it everyday and it becomes your natural attitude, it is not a habit anymore, it is already natural in your life.
Another example is a construction worker, don't belittle those workers because they can do something that you can't. They were very good in doing construction tasks and whether you admit it or not, you will admire some of them who can really do complicated tasks. It is because they are improving everyday, they do that job everyday so they learned a lot. Sometimes they just don't know that there is growth in their job because they are not proud if it. But the truth is the are still growing and they are also improving. They are getting stronger, they hammer stronger, they mix the cement faster, they build buildings faster and nicer.
You can use every single day to become better, it is very powerful yet a lot of people underestimate it. Time is powerful, it can build you or destroy you.
Look at yourself and see what you are doing everyday, that will become your future. So if you keep on complaining everyday then maybe you will become a rallyist or an activist one day. You will become very good in complaining and disagreeing, you will see a lot of mistakes in every situation, you will become an expert in criticizing and complaining, that is what you will become.
Even if you are not good at something, let's say your drawing skills sucks but you keep on doing it everyday and you love doing it then you will become a very skilled artist one day. There is a big chance that you can become a national artist, granted that you don't stop making arts and you consistently draw everyday. Time can make you great, time can make you something, it can mold you, it can define your future.
A lot of people can't become great because they don't know that the secret ingredient is just time and patience. You will just pick one hobby and do it everyday even if it is raining, snowing or the world is melting. You just do it no matter what, keep your streak alive and let time handle the business.
WEAKNESS IS NOT WEAKNESS, IT'S JUST NOT PART OF WHO YOU ARE
If you are weak in math just like what your teacher told you, it doesn't mean you are really weak and stupid. You just don't like that subject and you have something else that you want to study. It's just not part of who you are that is why you cannot resonate with it. There is a designate subject for your personality and it is your job to find that subject. That is why there are some students who just love the subject science or english, they don't want anything else because some subjects are not part of their personality.
But that doesn't mean that you don't need to study the subjects that you don't like anymore, there are some process that you have to undergo to achieve a certain goal. Sometimes you have no choice but to do something. But the point here is don't believe other people that are telling you that you are weak in this or weak in that, never believe them. You are not weak, you just don't like it. You have strengths, it just happens that it is not needed for the moment.
There are some things that you really can't do, or let's just say you can do but you are not interested with it that is why you are producing mediocre results. You cannot do everything, you have to accept it, but you can do something about it.
But if you are confident enough that you can just do what you want and study what you want but still being successful then go ahead and do it. Just make sure that you can prove to everyone that your decision is right and you will never go back. You must stand up for your decision and never change it when everything is not going well.
Some people are successful because they know their strengths, they were so focused on where they are good at and they never do anything else. Look at Michael Jordan, he knew his strength and that is in basketball, look at him when he play baseball and other sports... he sucks. It is not that he is weak in some other things, it just happens that those are not his things.
Don't be hard on yourself if you can't do things well, maybe it's just not part of who you are. You need to relax and know what you really want. You need to decide what path you want to travel.
So if you are struggling in making something work, know yourself first if you really want it or not. If you want it then go ahead and struggle, you will eventually make it work in the end. But if you don't feel good while struggling then you have to decide if you still want to continue or not. Because a struggle without love will never produce any good results.
The key here is to know your strengths and focus on those strengths, never focus on something or do something just because everyone else is doing it. You don't need to copy success, you can make success on your own by believing in yourself and trusting your skills. You have gifts still left unopened, make sure you have the tools and knowledge for opening it.
JUST BE GOOD IN MOVING AND RECOVERING
You don't need a specific skills to become successful, you don't need to be a genius or something. You don't even need to worry if you master these two skills... it is called MOVING AND RECOVERING.
Just be good in moving, be fast in taking actions and you will be able to reach some heights that hasn't been navigated yet. It's forever movement that will never stop until you reach your goal. You will climb a mountain and you will keep on climbing and climbing until you reach the top. And when you become successful in some level... find another goal and pursue it relentlessly again. That is how to live life. Goals will give you directions, it will give you happiness, challenge and a purpose in life. You will never be lost because you know you are doing something that is giving you life.
You need to start right away, no thinking, no doubting, no more ceremonies. Just start and make momentum, forget about being tired or feeling something. Remember that you are mastering movement and your focus is to make a move every now and then regardless of the circumstances.
Just let go of your body and thoughts. Make your system work and don't worry about anything else. The next step will always be revealed if you are taking actions consistently. A lot of people have all the skills, talents and support but they can't move for whatever reasons, they were thinking too much and they were very poor in making decisions. The logic here is if you can just move right away and enjoy the moment then it means you are in the right place, you have the right thought process and you are on the right path. Because you can never go wrong if you are taking positive actions in life, you are always right if you are taking steps to satisfy your needs.
But it also doesn't mean that if you can always move then everything will be alright. Of course you will experience some rejections, failures, heartaches and defeats. But if you can recover fast, if you can heal your wounds and forget the bad memories from the past then you can pretty easily go back on track and try again. You have to take very steps seriously but don't take defeat seriously. Look at defeat as another day in your life, it is nothing special so don't give too much attention to it.
Master recovering fast. Heal your wounds like it is just some kind of a scratch. Recovering fast will make you accept the lesson easily. A lot of people, after experiencing some serious obstacles in life will keep on making dramas everyday that is why they can't learn the lesson from that experience.
Recover fast so you can move fast again and go back to your journey. Make a run again, make your life better again and always try improve as an individual. It is very basic, just move and recover, mover and recover, don't forget to learn the lesson, always strive to improve.
Jan 21, 2017
WHAT IS THE USE OF IT?
You have 3 running shoes on your shoe rack but why are you not using any of them? did you just bought it because it was sale or the brand is popular and you want to look good? What is the use of it if you will not use it? Go and run lazy human being! wear your shoes and destroy it by running a lot. Don't waste your money for buying those running shoes, use its purpose, make yourself fit by it. Don't wit for it to become old and unusable before you touch it. Wear it on your work so your mind will be programmed that you have to use it. Wear it on your work so you can run when you go back home and you don't have to remove it on your feet anymore.
You have a treadmill in your room but who the heck is using it? it is becoming rusty and old because no one is touching it. You buy it for a couple of hundred dollars because you thought that it is the one that will make your belly gone. But what happened? you're too excited before you buy it, you think that you can use it everyday, you tell yourself "this machine is going to make my body sexier". But what happened? What is the use of that treadmill if you will not run on it? was it just a display? or maybe you are conserving it so it will become an antic and you can sell it for higher price one day?
What is the use of your smart phone if you will not use it for smart activities? You use it for gossips, bullshits and any other useless information on the internet. If you can't use your smartphone for creating money then it is not a smartphone, it is a dumbphone. It's so expensive so you should take the money back you spent for that phone by working on it, there are millions of ways how to make money using smartphone so never make an excuse.
What is the use of your skill if you will not use it to become happy or make a living. You are good in singing then why are you not singing for a living? or at least take it to another level by joining competitions or make an album. Don't wast your skill because not everyone has skills like yours. Make the best out of it and try to reach your highest level.
What is the use of your feet and hands if you will not use it to do any kind of work? you use your hands for pressing the remote control of the television and how does that help you to make a living? You use your feet to kick your dog when your angry instead of using it to look for a job. You are using your resources the wrong way that is why you are having a bum life for a very long time.
You have a brain but you are thinking the wrong way, you always make poor decisions that you know from the start will not do you any good. It is better if you will just give your brain to a dog so the dog will become more useful and tricky.
You have eyes with clear vision yet you only use it to read useless articles that won't even make your situation better. You use it for watching movies that will never even inspire your life. What if you use it to watch tutorials that will improve your knowledge and skills, what do you think will be the difference that it can bring into your life?
FAITH AND CONFIDENCE WAS BUILD THROUGH HARDWORK
If you are experiencing some problems about your confidence, if you want to something but you think you can't get it because you think you are not deserving then there is only one thing you should do... work very hard.
You can only become very confident if you put in a lot of work and grind everyday. There is no other way around. You can become cocky but your colors will be revealed in the end once you see yourself not capable of doing something. People will see that you are not really confident, you are just pretending so that they will believe in you.
There are lot of cocky, arrogant people who thinks that the can do this or do that but once they felt that the task is really difficult... their confidence will go down, they will quit and will make a lot of excuses. The reason why their confidence go down is because they don't have track records from the past that they work hard. Their minds cannot see a pattern of achieving something from the past and bringing back that memory to the present. They cannot find any references that they are really confident and has the skills to do something.
If you want to have a lot of faith then you have to work really really hard. You have to know the meaning of hardwork. You can fake them that you work in the past but you know in yourself if you are for real or not. So don't fool yourself and fool other people, you are just making life difficult. If you really don't have the confidence then work for it, don't fake it nor fabricate it.
Champions before don't have any confidence in themselves too. They were so scared, they were lacking the killer instinct. But they change themselves by working really hard and committing to self improvement everyday. They work tirelessly and they never stop until they achieved that confidence that they are wearing now. And the funnier thing is they never get satisfied, they want to become better and better everyday that is why their confidence is soaring high, they never stop growing.
Some people who have confidence before already lost their confidence because they are not working hard anymore. That is why there are some fallen champs, they lost their confidence because they are overconfident that they can win anytime they want. They begin to develop bad habits, their heads becomes bigger, they literally think they were invincible. That is why they fail, they thought that confidence is permanent. Confidence will only stay in you if you never stop working and that is the reality, you have to work forever for it.
The formula is very simple, have a goal, work very hard for it and then your confidence will soar high. Of course you cannot see the results right away. Confidence will gradually improve as you work harder and harder each day. You have to keep improving, you have to keep working.
A TOUGH MIND IS BETTER THAN A BRILLIANT MIND
Mental toughness is the best weapon, asset and attribute that you can ever have. It is connected to willpower and motivation. If you are mentally tough... you can be anything you want, you can have anything you want. A brilliant mind can only go too far.
A tough mind is better than a brilliant mind because it can withstand anything, it can power through, push through and keep operating until the end. It can endure any tough challenges and still make your body move and operate at its best. A brilliant mind can have a lot of knowledge stocked in it but when it gets stunned... it will never operate at its best, it will panic and entertain a lot of negative thoughts that will make the situation worse.
A brilliant mind can be easily overwhelmed because it never experienced any though challenges from the past. Yeah, it can be creative sometimes and manage to pull some unique ideas but when the going gets tough... it crumbles and gets anxious that will put the owner of it on a very bad spot.
So if you have to choose what kind of mind you can have, always choose the tough mind because it can survive any situation, it can push until the end and thrive even if the situation is very uncomfortable. It can operate at its best and use its full capacity. Unlike a brilliant mind, it is only good when everything is running smooth. It is only good if it has a momentum but when a sudden unexpected event happened... it will be useless, it will shutdown or even break down.
A tough mind can dream everything and pursue it while a brilliant mind can only see what is possible and rational, it will never go outside of its comfort zone. It is always playing safe and looking for fast solutions. It is so scared of taking risk and going all out, it can only go to the places that it already knew from the start.
If you have a tough mind then you will never quit no matter what, you will keep taking actions until you are done. A brilliant mind is always full of hype but known for quitting, it is only good in the beginning, it doesn't have any killer instinct, it can't go any further once it is stressed.
A brilliant mind is full of ideas, plans and ambitions hut it never take actions, it is even having a hard time starting while a tough mind will just do it, it doesn't need to to get loud, it doesn't need any exposure, it will just execute and endure the process.
How to have a tough mind:
1. Pursue a goal and never stop until you have it.
2. Exercise everyday, run for a minimum of one hour without drinking water or taking a rest.
3. Never ask for help, if you can do it alone then do it, even if it takes a lot of time finishing it.
4. Watch a lot of motivational videos.
5. Never watch any news, never entertain any negativity in your head.
6. Learn to love pain.
7. Meditate.
YOU WILL BE PLAYED BY THE GREATS IF YOU'RE NOT READY
If you think that courage and swagger alone can save you or make you win... you better think again. We are living in a very competitive world now. Your connections or basic skills won't save you if you face a great competition. If you're not skilled enough or not ready then don't hope to get lucky because for sure you will be played by the greats. The great ones are the very experienced people who knows their craft very well and can easily play around if they saw that their opponent is just a rookie or simply trying to get lucky.
So if you will try something either about business, sports or arts then you should be very skilled so that you can also dominate and become successful. It's ok if you're not that great yet but don't ever compete or compare your skills to anybody because that will be the start of your falter.
So don't ever compete if you're not ready yet because the sharks will eat you alive. You will look like a milk fish that cannot even fight back. You need to prepare a lot and make dramatic improvement everyday so that you will gain a lot of confidence and trust in yourself.
You can start if you're not ready but don't aim too high very fast, you can aim high but yo have to get it gradually and slowly. You will get there, you just need to be patient and take your time building the necessary skills and knowledge to win the big prize. Because if you will try to get lucky and aim high quickly... you will fall down very hard and sometimes you cannot even stand up because of the brutal hit that you get.
Because you can become great too one day, you just need to wait, take your time and work consistently everyday. You will feel it if you are improving so don't worry about anything else. Just keep moving, keep grinding and make your way to the top.
You can't purely rely on luck and expect good things to happen even if you're not doing something. Luck is for lazy people, it is for someone who doesn't want to think and use his energy. The more you think about being lucky, the more you will become unlucky. Luck is very elusive to people who doesn't want to move.
Preparation and desire is what will bring luck into your life. You don't have to wait for it nor expect it. It will come if you are deserving and you put in the work to become successful.
Just dedicate your time to become a little bit better everyday. You will arrive at your destination if you will not stop. Stop thinking about anything else. Just set a a goal and pursue it no matter what.
Great people can never play you again if you are great too, you can compete with them and fight back. You can win games, win business, win anything in life if you are so much ready and willing to claim what you think is yours.
Jan 20, 2017
PHYSICAL APPEARANCE IS A BAD INVESTMENT
Being beautiful and wanting to become beautiful is widely recognized nowadays. A lot of people wants to become beautiful because they think it has a lot of advantage. Yes it is true that it has an advantage but it won't last for a very long time.
A lot of gold diggers will try their very best to become very sexy and beautiful. They will undergo a lot of operation just to change their appearance. They want to become very beautiful because their goal is to find a rich man that will marry them so they don't have to work anymore. That has been their game plan for a very long time and they really believe that they will succeed. Only few gold diggers succeed, do you think that a rich man will take a bitch seriously? of course a rich man will also look for a rich woman with class and well educated. Why would a rich man invest in someone that will only make him poor?
If you are investing with your appearance because you are looking for a job that requires beautiful woman, well at least you are looking for a job and you are not thinking about living well without doing anything. But the downside of this investment is you will only have a job while you are still beautiful and young. When times comes that you look old and not beautiful anymore, the company will dump you like a garbage. What a sad ending.
There is nothing wrong in trying to look gorgeous or handsome but the point here is if you will purely rely on your looks then you will not become successful. Look at those pit babes in a car race, they were treated like a bitch by many. Look at those sexy dancers in the nba, their job is not so stable, they can only keep their job while they are still young and beautiful.
The best investment is to develop a skill that will last forever. Because even if you grow old, you will still earn money because people will still be needing your skill. The more you grow old, the sharper your skills will become. Unlike the appearance, the more you grow old, the more you become ugly. Even a very expensive operation won't save you.
QUICK FIXES LEADS TO PERMANENT DAMAGE
If you are looking for quick fixes then you better be careful, you might be doing the wrong thing that will lead to permanent damage. You can fix everything but sometimes you need time, you have to be patient and carefully examine what will really work. Be meticulous and don't let some fake news fool you.
If you are trying to fix your body never trust liposuction. Some doctors are not good and will not give you a perfect operation, some people died in that kind of operation. They want a quick fix so they get a permanent damage. Sometimes shortcuts will lead you to nowhere, it will lead you to darkness and you can never go out.
If you are fixing your life you must not aim to get rich right away. Because there is no such thing as overnight success. Some poor people will try to gamble their money because they want it to multiply, this kind of method makes them even poorer because no one ever gets rich through the process of gambling. They lost and lost until they were completely in huge debt. Some people will even try investment funds that promises huge interest for just a few months only to find out that it is only a scam. They were so lazy to work so they invest their money into an unproven company that will never give their money back. The result is double poverty, double suffering. Their laziness and impatience lead them to a terrible position. They want to fix their problem right away without having to undergo a long process so the result is permanent damage.
Some people are dependent of sleeping pills because they are having sleeping problems. They don't know that sometimes it is really difficult to sleep especially if you are thinking about a lot of things, it is normal to not be able to sleep right away, there is nothing wrong with that. And because they want a fast solution, they drink sleeping pills that is never helpful in many ways. If you got addicted to it, it will no longer have an effect in you, sometimes it will lead to psychosis. The best solution to fall into sleep is through reading or making yourself very tired. So it is better to do exercise as much as you can until you become tired and you fall asleep. Not only you make your body better, you also fell asleep without using medicines that has a lot of side effects in the end. It is a natural process and for sure it has no side effects, other than that you will also have a healthy body.
Some students will try to fix their failing grades by cheating in exam. It is good if you are not caught but the bad thing about this is you will not learn anything. When you graduated in college you don't have confidence to apply for a good position because you know in yourself you are not good and you know nothing but to cheat. You fix your grades quickly but the damage is in the end. That shit damages your confidence and self reliance.
So be patient if you wanted to fix something in your life. Everything can be fixed but you need some time, you need to undergo some process, you still need to put an effort.
Money cannot fix everything. It can give you a temporary solution but it will only last for a very short period of time. It is better to travel a long road that will lead you to true happiness rather than taking shortcuts that will only give you a temporary pleasure.
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