YOU SHOULD REACH FOR IT, AS CLOSE AS YOU CAN

What is your dream? what is your goal? are you having a hard time trying to get it? are you having a difficulty in trying to know the steps to get it? the answer to your problem is very simple, reach for it. Get near from it as close as you can. You can't get it because you are never putting yourself close to it, you want it but you are millions times apart from it.

Achieving goals is very simple, all you have to do is do everything you can to have it. It means all of your actions, thoughts and decisions must be related to your goal. That means you have to have a laser focus, you should not blink and not think about other things other than your goal.

Everyone can talk about his goal but the question is execution. It is very hard to execute especially if you are doubting yourself. Doubting yourself is normal, you will have times when you wanted to quit and go back home living a normal life but there is something in your heart that tells you to keep going. There is a silent voice inside of you that tells you not to quit. If you can listen to that tiny voice and believe it and also pair it with actions then you are on the right direction.

All you have to do is be closer to your goal, be closer as much as you can. The distance between you and your goal should only have a maximum of an inch. You should never be far away form your goal because you will get lost. You might be driven to a different direction and you might get something that you don't really want.

It means your mind should be focused on your goals. It should be thinking about the things how to get it. You shouldn't be thinking about negative things because it will only make things harder. You should have a clear mind as clear as crystal. Delete all the negativity and replace it with positivity.

Have the right mindset, do anything that will make you one step closer to your goal, you should reach for it and force something to make it happen. Because if you will just relax and wait for opportunities.., you will never get it. Opportunities will only come if the universe sense that you are hungry and you really want it. Opportunities will never come if you are half hearted and it is ok for you to fail because you are thinking that there are more chances in the future.

Reach for it even if it seems like nothing is happening, do something, go hard and never stop. That is the way how to get your goals, that is they way how to do it.

If you want a million dollars and you don't know how to get it, just do something that will make you earn money, even if the earning is just little. Well at least you are reaching for it. The right ideas will come in the end if you keep on reaching for your dreams. There will be adjustments that will be done automatically as you find ways how to get that one million.

It is hard but it is possible, all you've got to do is think about it everyday, do something to make you one step closer and then take as many actions as you can, People can't get what they want because they don't want it bad, they focus on why they can't get it instead of what to do to get it.

IF YOU WANTED TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL, FIND WHAT MAJORITY DOES AND STOP DOING IT

It is true that you have to become unique in order to become successful, it means you need to be more of yourself and not following the crowd but what if you cannot find you're uniqueness? It is very simple, find what majority does and do the opposite thing. Look at the world today, almost everyone has identical results. People are working at the companies, they go back home, they eat and then they sleep and then tomorrow they will engage in the same rat race again, the vicious circle never ends.

People have the same cars, same TVs, same jobs, same houses, same bills, almost all of them are similar. It is simply because their habits and mindsets are the same. If it has difference, it is very little. Their lifestyle are very similar to each other, you can't even distinguish who's the real rich and who's not.

So what is the majority doing that makes them get the same results?

1. They work for companies. They spend most of their lives working for companies. Yeah it is giving them enough money to satisfy their needs but most of the time, people who work in the companies feel unsatisfied with their career. They were always looking for something that they cannot even explain. It is because they don't love what they are doing. They work for the money and not for their passion. They get frustrated for so many years but they cannot leave their job.

2. They complain. 70% percent of the world's population always complain. They were focus on the negatives that is why they can't become successful. They love complaining more than taking actions and producing results that is why almost all of them live a miserable life. They complain about the traffic, they complain about the government, they complain about the economy. It seems like they can't find positive in their life. They complain and complain, that is why they get the same results over and over again. Successful people never complain, they were very good in making adjustments to their environment. They can adapt so fast and take actions faster than lightning. They never stick on a negative thought for so long, they just do it right away regardless of the condition of their environment.

3. They spend most of their time on social media. Social media is the number one addiction of most people nowadays, I am not saying that don't use social media ever, there is nothing wrong in using it but what makes it wrong is people spend 5 hours or 8 hours and they never notice it. It takes away a lot of their time, it becomes their habit to waste a lot of hours everyday which could have been use for other productive activities. They make excuses that they don't have time to develop a skill or small business but they spend a lot of hours in social media.

4. They play it safe. Where the crowd goes, that is where majority goes. They don't want to experiment, they go for the safe job, they go for the path that is easier and will never put their social status in jeopardy. What they don't know is the more they play it safe, the more they kill their dreams. Even if some kind of an idea pops out from their brain, they will not even try to at least give it a try. For them, playing safe is the best way how to handle life.

5. They never want to establish their own business or way of earning money. They love fixed income so much, they never look for possibilities. They want sure money that is why the can't leave their job. The funny thing this they always complain but they never do something about it. Successful people can create money anytime they want, it is an automatic thing for them. They give birth to their ideas and turn them into reality. They never hesitate to jump in and go all out. For them, taking risk and trying to make it happen is already considered as success. If you want to become successful you should look for ways to make money on your own, this is not about making money but building trust in yourself that you can survive and thrive in your own way.

6. They were afraid of risks. Majority doesn't want to take risks because it is too scary, sometimes they think that taking risks is stupidity. They don't see the reward rather they see the danger and ugly effects of taking risks. If you want to change your quality of life, sometimes taking risks is the only way. If you will not face your fear now then you will become scared forever. You will be scared of winning, you will be scared of taking chances. Be scared now so you won't be scared anymore later, face the discomfort now so you will become comfortable later.

7. They don't believe in themselves. Majority of people doesn't believe in themselves rather they believe in their leader. I don't know why but they can't even speak up for themselves, they just follow what is ordered for them to do. They never ask, they just follow the script written by the wolves or people higher than them. They never give themselves a chance to be in a higher position. Believing is the number one key to become successful, if you will not believe then you will not move, as simple as that.

8. They quit so fast. Most people quit so fast after taking a few hits. They will quit when the going gets hard, they will quit and go back to their safe and secured job. Yeah they will take risks but they will never stick to it until the end. I don't know if they really give their best or they are just making excuses when they say "I've do everything I can, it's just not for me". If you say you give everything then you should give your whole life for it.

9. They don't want to get criticized. This is the main reason why people never try... they don't want to get criticized. They want praises, they want validation, they want appreciation, all they want is good feelings. They want likes, thumbs up, smiles, they never wanted the feeling of being hated. In this world, if you are pursuing big things you cannot live a life without some people hating you, especially if your idea is one of a kind. They will pull you down, say ugly things to you. That is part of the design, you should accept that critics will never go away. Most people get weak once they learned that some people are criticizing them, if you can learn how to laugh at your critics then you're already different from them, treat critics as nonsense bullshits.

10. They never save money. Once they earned something, they will spend it right away. They have a lot of credit cards, loans, pending payments and installments. They love instant gratification, they were addicted to instant pleasures. They never save money that is why they can't upgrade their life. If there is an emergency that hits them, they don't know what to do, they will beg for someone's help. This life is full of randomness and if you're not ready for any adversity... goodluck to you, you will become poor and your life will become full of depression. Because it is very hard to comeback if you owe someone because there is a tendency that you will be controlled by him, you need to give back even if you don't want to. You also need to help him even if you are so busy, you need to give time even if you want to use your time for yourself.

11. They set goals but never stick with the process. Don't be a dreamer instead be a doer. A lot of people were setting goals, posting it on social media, talking about it then the year is over and they haven't achieved their goals yet. What they do is they just plan, they may take some actions but they never stick with the process for so long. I think their just taking actions to impress people and make people believe that they were goal getters but in the end, they will leave their goal like an old toy without use anymore. This is what majority does, they keep on setting goals and let it die when they face a little adversity.

12. They don't set their own standards. Whatever comes to their life, they will accept it. Whatever money is presented, they will get it, they will never ask for more. They don't have the belief to choose the life that they want. They accept their bum life and accept that they cannot change it anymore. They will never try to at least look for something better. They were very comfortable living less and they were making themselves believe that they were very happy even though they wanted something else.

If you wanted to succeed, you should set your own standards, a standard that is better than your present lifestyle. You should at least feel that it is harder to get your new standard because feeling that way means it is better than what you have for the moment.

13. They were very concerned about other people. Every action they take, they were thinking if people were judging them. They were so insecure, they were so cautious and that is why they cannot be themselves. They think that everything they do, they need to have an approval from other people. And that is why they can't make their own judgement. They don't have an authority for themselves because they think that all eyes were on them.

There are still many things that majority does, so if you wanted to become successful and stand out... stop doing things that they do, most people were alike that is why they are getting the same results. If you want to become different, you should think different, talk different and behave different. That is how to get things done.

YOU ARE WORKING FOR NOTHING

Are you really working? working for what? working for yourself or working for others? You should be able to know if you are working for yourself because in the end, if you can't work anymore you will say to yourself "why the hell did I do that?" If you were already old and cannot do anything anymore other than rocking on your rocking chair, you will feel like you've been cheated. Don't laugh now because this is true, a lot of old balding guys' regret is not pursuing their own path because they work for someone else, they did not realized their dreams. They wanted to go back when they were still young and re-arranged their life but time machine was not invented yet, so all they can do is wait for their death, what a sad story.

If you are working for money by the command from other people then you are just working for nothing, you should stop working right away because you are just wasting time tiring yourself and in the end you won't get anything. It is ok if you are working from someone but make sure that you won't work in that place forever. The minimum is only 5 years, you should be able to save money for five years and then start hunting your own goals. Because if you're still in the company for five years and you don't like what is going on with your career but you have no choice but to stay in that company then you are in trouble my friend.

If you are working for someone's goals and you don't have any goals on your own, you will regret it in the end, you will feel like you've wasted your precious life, remember that you only have one life and you must be serious in making importance for that thought. Because once you became a grandpa or grandma that is the time when you will regret all the time you've wasted in your life working for someone who's not worth it.

You can earn money for a moment, you think you're not wasting time but the reality is you are. Because I know in the deepest place of your heart, you wanted to become big, you wanted to become someone but you are just afraid that is why you are playing it safe.

This article is just a reminder, if you are really happy with your life working for a company or for someone who is not treating you right, if you think you are ok with it and you are not complaining then it is fine. You don't have to worry about everything that you read, but if this article somehow touches you and you think I am right in some ways then you better make a decision. My advise is to work for yourself and never work for someone else.

Because whether you like it or not, whether you accept it or not, you've been used by other people for their own agenda. If they don't need your service anymore then they will just dump you like a garbage, they will throw you anywhere and there is nothing you can do about it anymore. It is what it is, you're already old, you're already weak, you cannot fight back anymore, do you want it?

So while you still have time, while you still can dream, do something about it, do something about your situation. It is never too late, all you have to do is believe in yourself and work for yourself.

ASK THEM ONCE

Sometimes in life, you don't need to ask twice, you only need to ask once. Because asking too much will make you less valuable, people will take you for granted, people will see you as a needy individual that needs your wish to be granted so you will become happy. Asking too much is like begging, look at those beggars who asks too much when they knock on the window of your car, you already said no but they still keep on asking for money, they were unattractive right? They were irritating and you feel like they don't deserve to be given some amount of money, not even coins.

Asking friends to go out. Just ask them once, not twice and not even thrice. If they say no then allow them to say it. Don't persuade them, don't convince them. Don't ever explain things on why they should go with you. If they don't want to go so let them be. And even if they say they'll think about it, still don't expect that they will go with you. Consider "thinking about it" as an answer that is NO. Because you will only feel bad in the end if they don't go with you, you will expect but what you get is disrespect. And besides, you can have fun if only few friends will hang out with you, you can even have fun going out with yourself. Never put your happiness from others because you will feel very sad in the end.

Asking for help. If you ask help from someone because you really needed it and they say NO then move on right away and find for another solution. Don't think about it, don't feel bad about it, just accept it. Because if you will ask them repeatedly it means you are weak and your success purely relies on them. The person being asked several times will play hard to get, he will even play with you. If you can avoid asking for help then much better. Because if you ask help from someone, they will have power over you. You will become under their control and there is nothing you can do about it. You will lose your power and you have no choice to follow their orders.

Inviting them to your party. Some people are really playing "hard to get" when you invite them. They will say "I'm not sure", "I'm busy but I will try", "I will try to make up next time", "If my boss let me out early then I will go", "Oh! we have a reunion, I will decide later". So much excuses from other people will only make you feel bad so it is better not to expect anything from people who were not sure. When they say "I'm not sure" or if their answer were hesitant then consider it as NO. As simple as that, you will only accept a YES or NO answer. There is no between, there is no clouded answer.

The idea here is to stop looking needy and powerless. If you let people feel that you need them very much then they will feel they have the authority to become a star in your life. Stop longing for people's attention or help so much that your PRIDE is already being destroyed. If they want to help you then fine if they don't want then much better. The point here is you are taking care of yourself and happiness, you being independent from others and you letting the world know that you can stand for yourself.

This is not about being arrogant or something, it is about valuing yourself and believing in yourself. You can live without their help or attention, you can become happy by just being you and not begging for someone's attention. Because people love someone who is so independent. They don't want someone who is bossy, needy and dependent.

So if you have to ask someone, ask him without letting him feel that you want him so bad. Ask him without feelings. Ask him like you are ready to walk away and move on so fast if the answer is no. Never act like a beggar, just ask once and never care if the answer is yes or no. This is a good strategy in life, it will make people impressed with you. Never look like you're desperate, ever.

Having the ability to walk away is a good trait, people will see that you are powerful and you don't care if they rejected you. It is like having strong confidence even though you are the one who is asking for a favor. But also keep in mind that you should really believe that better things will show on your way, you should really believe it and that should be your focus. It should not be walking away from something or someone because you are bitter and you got angry.

I've encountered a beggar who is begging like a boss. He will ask for your money and when you say no, he will go away immediately, he will not stay longer to convince you. I am impressed because the beggar is so confident. I know he has the mindset that even a particular person rejected him, he will still find another person who will give him some money. I am impressed and I am applying it in my life, I just walk away from someone who rejected me, no hurt feelings, no bad blood. The beggar doesn't care because he always knew there will always be someone along the way who will give him some alms, he has an abundance mindset even though he is only begging.

And one more thing, always say thank you if someone rejected you or refuses to help you. It is a way of saying thank you to the universe and a sign that you are ok with life. It is a sign that you are living in abundance and you appreciate life no matter what. Always saying thank you means you are confident and better things are ahead of you.

YOUR ONLY WAY TO SUCCEED IF YOU THINK YOU'RE NOT TALENTED

OUTWORK EVERYONE. This is your only way to succeed if you think you're not talented nor skilled. You can do it, you just need to move fast, grind harder, stay longer in the process and find that little progress everyday, as simple as that. No need for complicated calculations and speculations, all you need to do is outwork everyone.

And when I say outwork them, you don't need to watch what they are doing because you will only waste a lot of your time by doing that, you don't need to compare, you just need to work super super hard and do what you think will make your position better. Just trust your work, trust that everything will work in the end.

Because talent and skills will build in your system once you work really hard. You will be able to discover things that you don't know before. The things, knowledge and movements that you need to learn before will be naturally installed in your life. You don't need to force anything here, just work hard and all you need will fall into your hands as the time goes by. You will be on your way, even if you feel like you're somehow lost, you will still find your way.

It will be a roller coaster ride but if your faith is very strong and you knew you can do it then you will be able to do it. Pair hardwork with faith and nothing will be impossible for you. For as long as you keep on taking actions then you will be alright, there is no need to worry because everything will go on your way. There will be challenges but it is normal.

Champions and millionaires doesn't mind getting very tired, they always knew that they have to outwork everyone to become successful. They knew that the competition is very tight and they need to have an extra edge. Their mindset is to keep gong until they reach the top, their mind is always on, it never goes off. They don't need motivation at all because they will find their motivation through actions, they more they move the more their motivation gets stronger.

It is simply finishing your day and giving everything you've got, you know it in yourself if you didn't give your best. You can't cheat yourself because you are only wasting your time by doing it. All of your efforts will sum up and it will create an outstanding result in the end, again all you need to do is trust the process and never give up even if it is really difficult.

So forget about being less talented, just focus on making yourself better and doing things that you know will somehow contribute to your goals. Find that smallest thing and do it right away, may it be some pushups, some calls for clients, some drills to make you stronger, some articles to read to make you informed, anything that is related to your goal and will make you one step closer... do it.

Because while others are watching TV, eating, busy in talking about gossips, celebrities etc.... you are working, you are making yourself better. The more you work really hard, the more you become different from them. You will start to make a difference, you will start to become a new person while everyone remains the same.

FOCUS ON ONE AREA

If you are trying to become good at something whether it is about sports, music, business or if you are pursuing any kind of goal, the best thing to do is to just focus on one area first. Be good at it, give it a lot of time and then master any other area if you want to or if you needed to.

For example in basketball, if you are trying to become a great player then just focus on one area first before trying to become good at other things. Choose what is the skill that you love to do everyday and you can repeat as many as you can. You can focus on dribbling first, dribble a lot, practice a lot of dribbling drills before choosing another skill to develop. By doing this, you will not be confused, you will have a direction and your confidence will soar faster than you expected. After you mastered one skill then you can master shooting or defending. The key here is to practice in just one area at a time so the feeling of improvement is really fast. Because after all, what you feel is what matters most, even if you are practicing all different type of skills, if you feel that you are not improving then that is useless.

Because if you are very good in one area you will become very confident, you will standout and you will have a sense of pride that you are the best in that area. It will give you a feel of invincibility especially if you can utilize it in any given situation.

If you are an amateur boxer and you want to become really good, if you don't know what to do then just practice punching hard as fast as you can, practice it until you become very good at it. Practice it everyday, practice it until you become the strongest puncher in the world. A lot of boxers were focusing on their footwork, defense etc. so they don't focus on their punching power a lot.  If you can become the strongest puncher and you really believe in it then you have something they don't have. They will feel your power as much as you feel it, they will become scared at your hands even if you are not a complete boxer.

This style can be applied on any field, it can be on business, work, studies, arts etc. If you can become very good at one thing then you will catch attention, you will leave a mark that is very hard to forget. For example in business, if your business is food, find one area that you can become very good at. It can be the fastest service, the cleanest service or serving the most delicious food. Choose one and master it. For sure people will notice it and you will be able to impress them.

If you're only a student and you want to have good grades, this technique can be applied too. you can be the fastest one to do assignment. I am very sure a lot of your classmates are goofing around when they arrived at home. If you are the fastest to do your assignment then you will feel that you are somehow good, it will create a discipline in your system that will give you a huge advantage from others. Even if you are not sure with your answers, just do it anyway. The idea here is you are fast in making decisions and finishing tasks, you will benefit with it in the future. I have a classmate before, he is not smart, he is doesn't work hard but he is the earliest in the classroom and he is the most perfect in attendance, I never seen him late or absent, he graduated with no failing grade, he even find a job earlier than students who were smarter than him. It is simply because he has something that others don't have and that is consistency and always being early.

If you can become very good in one very small thing then you can produce big results. It may not be very evident but it is very effective. For sure you will become successful and you can stand out form others in your own unique way. And after mastering one area, you can even pick another area where you can be very good at, you can choose other things which you think you will stand out. It is like you put pieces one at a time to your system until you become the best in everything.

HOW TO STOP BEING OUT OF PLACE

I know it happens to you where you've been out of place and you suck at the party or any kind of event, I know how it feels like. It feels embarrassing right? it feels weak and you want to go home if you can but of course you still want to greet the host of the party, you want to talk to him for a while and greet him but there are some instances when the host of the party is so busy and you can't even talk to him so your suffering got even worse. Sometimes he is with another group so you will wait for a long time just to talk to him.

There are also cases where you don't know anyone in an event and you can't talk to someone because your confidence has broken down already. Sweat in your palms and face, you feel like your're going to have a heart attack but you can't go home because you will look more stupid. It really sucks when you're out of place and you don't have anyone to talk to. You feel low, you feel weak but there are things you can do to avoid being out of place, here are they:

1. Know your purpose for going to an event. You must know well what is your purpose, if it is just greeting the celebrant or you also wanted to finish the event. If you just wanted to greet the celebrant then just greet him, stay for a little while then go home immediately. If you wanted to finish the event but you don't know anyone else then some of the list below will work for you.

2. Have a game plan. Before going to an event make a list of actions that you will do once a particular situation happens. I know you've been out of place before so you know how it feels like to suck so you should have a list of what to do next time if something makes you uncomfortable. It is like studying a script. Make a list of reactions that you will execute once a particular situation makes you feel bad. For example, if you're assigned to sit on a table that you don't know anyone, what will you do? Before going to the event, make a list of worst scenarios that may happen and assigned a solution for each of it.

3. Never go to an event if you don't have a friend that will also go. Never go to a war without an ally especially if you are not confident enough or else you will like a lone loser. Call some people that you know and ask them if they will also go.

4. Know the the timing of the event. Know the order or sequence of the event and go only to the time that you feel comfortable the most. You can even go late so you don't have a lot of time goofing around. Decide what is the most important part of the even or which one do you like the most and go only withing that time frame.

5. Never go to an event if you are not close to the celebrant. I don't know why some people go to an even without even knowing the host or the celebrant that is why they end up looking like a douche bag in the end. If you are not close to the host of the event then don't go there, chances are you don't know anyone and people will wonder who you are. The host will not entertain you, you will look like a gatecrasher.

6. Bring a companion if you are allowed to. If you wanted to make sure that you will not be out of place then bring someone that is talkative and can carry himself confidently with poise. Don't bring someone who will even make your confidence go down. Bring someone who is presentable and can help you to become comfortable at any given moment.

7. Bring something to play. If you are alone and you can't find someone to talk to then it is time to bring your gadgets out, bring out your cellphone and then play some games so your focus will be on the game and not on the people. This will give you time to become comfortable in the place. This will give you time to relax your mind and be east at the moment. Play super mario if you needed to, a boring game can become very enjoying because you needed something to divert your attention.

8. Pretend that you are busy. Call someone in your cellphone, text a lot. Do something that will not make you look stupid and doesn't know what to do. This will make the time fast, it will make you look still and comfortable with your surrounding. It will make you look you are alright being alone and doesn't mind people around you.

9. Be fully attentive if there is someone speaking on stage. This will divert your attention from being out of place to someone who belong. Be attentive to the speaker. Clap your hands if you needed to, laugh at the speaker's corny jokes, cheer him and say something to look like you're fully engage with the event.

10. Be natural. This is simple but very effective. Just go with the flow, you don't need to talk to anyone, all you need to do is feel good. Just enjoy the moment and be thankful that you are invited to an event. Appreciate the food, appreciate the program, just appreciate everything and you will feel good immediately.

11. Be hilarious. Do this if you are confident enough to crack a joke. If you are not confident in yourself then just wait for the proper timing. If you can make people laugh then you don't need to worry about anything anymore, people will like you, they will even agree to what you are saying.

12. Be cheerful.  Smile at anyone, don't be a snub. Smiling a lot will make people not intimidated at you, it is welcoming a conversation. It is like opening up and starting a topic. Smiling often will also make you feel good, it will give you confidence. Even if some people don't smile back, don't stop doing it. The night is long someone will smile back at you and you will find someone to talk to.

13. Be cooperative. Make your presence felt. If they ask you to participate in a game or something then participate. If everyone is clapping their hands then clap your hands too. Be present and be one with the event. Don't be a kill joy type of person, be ok with being in a spotlight because that will make you look confident.

14. Don't sit in a corner. Always go to a position where you can be seen. Sitting in a corner will make you feel that you don't belong. Go to a place where an opportunity to talk to someone is possible. Never go to a spot that will make you look like a shy person. The secret here is you must have a thick face, explore the possibilities, never be afraid of rejection.

Actually, you don't need these lists if you are confident enough and you can play around but what if not? it is better to be prepared than to look like a puppy lost in a big park. Going to a party means socializing with different types of people, never be afraid of embarrassment because that is part of personal growth. Never try hard to fit in but also try to jell with other people. Always be natural and show them the best you without trying so hard and changing your real personality, in other words don't wear mask and never tell lies.

CHANGE THE MINDSET NOT THE LOOKS, BUILD THE HABIT NOT THE SWAGGER

Some people thought that if they get a tattoo then they will become more motivated and more successful in life, they thought that it will give them extra push so that they can achieve what they want but it is wrong. I came from the same place. I also put some piercings into the different parts of my body but it didn't help at all. I believed before that if I get a piercing then I will look bad ass and people will like me even more. But I was wrong, It didn't help at all, I'm they same type of guy before getting pierced.

Some people put tattoos on their bodies such as favorite quotes, skulls, beliefs etc etc. They thought that it will change their lives and they will turn into something "invincible". There is nothing wrong with getting tattooed, don't get me wrong, I am a big fan of it. My point here is to let you know that it won't change your life, if you think that tomorrow better things will happen by doing it then you are hallucinating. How come will those tattoos gonna change your life? Ink has now power, it can't give you something to change your life.

If your purpose for changing a little bit of your appearance is to look more fiery, brave or cool then you will end up looking like a helpless pussy cat trying to fit in. Because you really don't like it, you just wanted to look tough, you are faking something. You are not genuine, you are borrowing confidence from external things.

Build the habits for winning, not the looks to intimidate because at the end of the day, people will see the real you. You can never hide the truth. Hardwork is what will make you more confident, stronger and better. Change your attitude and you will be able to change your life. Some people believes in swag so much, anyone can become arrogant but at the end of the day, if you can't prove something then you are nothing.

The secret recipe for success and improvement is change the inside and not the outside. Look for yourself, do something to make yourself better, develop some skills. Never impress anyone because it will only take away your power. The real power is showing who you are, using what you have and not doing anything because you are trying to make an impression. Just always give your best and surpass your boundaries. Never compare and never copy. Just follow what your heart says, make decisions based on your instincts. Always stay on your grind and never believe an idea that is making you weak. Be realistic but try to do the impossible things.

Always focus on your strength and improving your strength, there is no other way around. Your mindset is what will determine your future. You can all have the tattoos in the world, you can color your hair with red, you can pierce your nipple but at the end of the day... if your content is full of bullshits then you will still fail.

You can fool people by trying to look tough and intimidating but if you are not really tough then they will just laugh at you in the end. They will compare you to a scare crow, a scary thing but can't do anything.

SUCCESS DOESN'T CARE

Everyone wants success, everybody cares for success but the reality is success doesn't even care for you. It is true, success will never care if you're super tired or not, if you're super gassed out or not. It only cares about if you are still moving and taking actions to become successful.

You're hungry? you're sick? so what! success will never wait for you, it will never give you any consideration. It will look for another people to bless, someone who is tougher and more committed than you. Someone who is not making excuses, someone who will do whatever it takes to win. Sorry to you if you can't stick with the grind, just go back to your home and cry on the shoulders of your mama, it will be alright, there is nothing to be ashamed of. You can try again next time, if there is still a next time.

You can smell success if you are really working hard and if you come to the point where you really wanted to give up because you can't take the stress anymore. Success is very elusive, it is always playing hard to get, you have to chase it, you have to go for it and move fast because if you are moving slow... chances are you might not catch it. It is moving in a very fast pace and if you can't match its speed... you will be left behind, the gap will be very big. It will laugh at you and bring you to your knees saying "come and get me!"

It is slippery, sometimes you think that it is already in your hands but it will slip through your fingers and run again, and of course you will go after it again. It is very frustrating because you thought you already have it but it is gone again. It's very frustrating but what can you do? success doesn't care for you. If success is kind then everyone else is successful even if they are not doing anything. Success is mean, it is vicious, it will make you bleed until you deserve it. It will make you feel the strongest pain but the good thing is... you will feel so alive. You will feel that your life has a meaning and direction. It is a weird feeling that you will only get by chasing success.

Maybe it will give you a little bit of attention if you are doing something that others can't do. But don't be so arrogant, it might be deceiving you, it may show itself to you for a short period of time then tadahhhh! it's gone again. Success is playful, it doesn't care if you got mad or not, all it knows is you have to deserve it, you have to make an effort that you almost die before you achieve it. It is the saddest thing about success.... it is really hard. It will make you cry to the point where you don't have any tears anymore, your eyes will become dry because of crying everytime you fail.

TRUE INTENTIONS

When you are doing something what is your true intention behind it? A lot of people were doing something but their intentions were not true. What do I mean by this? they were doing the jobs or tasks that they don't really like, or maybe they really like it but there is another agenda behind it. Sometimes they just wanted to impress or look cool.

Some guys were forming a band not because they love to play music or they were really passionate in making awesome songs, they just did it for the sake of having a lot of chicks around them. They tried to look like a real rockstar but the reality is they just do it to flirt with girls. They will only play music that women wants even though they don't like those kinds of music. So the conclusion is they were not really musicians, they were lover boys because they love girls. Their intention is to get chicks so we can even call them chicks hunters. The were fake musicians, they don't really like it, they just use it for their dark agendas.

If you are working in a government but your objective is to just make money and not to provide public service then it means you are not a public servant instead you're a businessman. You've been corrupting money from the public, you don't care if your service is good, you will not work unless there is no money involve. So you really are a businessman and not a public servant, you should take business management as your course when you were just in college. You've just wasted your time taking civil service exam because you have a disgusting attitude. Your intention is to make money so there is no reason to call you a public servant.

If you're a manager but you are not managing your people very well, instead you are just investing in your people so you can earn money from them in the future then it means you're not a true manager, you're an investor. You don't care about the people you handle, you don't treat them as your own family, you are just good when you are earning something from them. You're a fake manager, you should invest in some networking scams instead. You don't deserve to handle people because you don't really care.

If you are making friends with people but your intention is to just get something from them then you're not a true friend, you're a USER. That is how they should call you... a USER. You're only good if you have a problem, you only show up if you need to borrow some money, you are only kind and being friendly if you need some help then it means you're not really a friend. We can also call you  SUCKER, you're like a parasite who sucks energy. You never get satisfied, you're always needy.

If you're working at church and pretending that you are religious and sacred but in the end you will collect money from the people and use it for yourself then you are not holy, you are greedy. Stop using spirituality for your own good. Reveal your true colors, reveal your true intentions. Because at the end of the day, people will feel it if you are only using them, you better watch out because they will make fun of you in the end. They will call you names that you will not like such as "holy shit" or "holy cow".

Pretending something you are not just to get something is an act of foolishness. You are just fooling yourself and other people. They will see your true colors in the end and no one will ever trust you anymore. They will stay away from you because you're such a fraud. People hates fake, people love genuine and authentic.

If your intention is to get something then go for it directly, stop pretending and using other people for your own good. Trust yourself that you can do it even if you don't have to manipulate people.