Of course you need to enjoy the process if you want to become successful, you need to enjoy it if you want to work on it for a very long time. But not all process is fun, some process are really boring, some process is very stressful and it makes you tired so fast. But what will you do if you need to process the process that is in front of you? All you need to do is dissect the process, divide it into different parts, study it. Once you dissect it and find some parts that you really love then it will be easier for you to do the whole process.
Just like in exercise, for example in running. Running doesn't mean moving the legs alone. You are also doing some other things while running. You are breathing, you are thinking, you are looking at some other things, you are also swaying your hands. If your legs were already hurting and your willpower is already weakening because of pain... look at some other parts of the process that will make you forget the pain. Me, personally, I do not like the running part but I have to do it because I want to stay in shape and competitive. So when I am running and my legs were getting tired, I am focusing on breathing, I am enjoying breathing, I am feeling the air in and out of my lungs and that kind of move makes me forget that my legs were already hurting. Sometimes I am even thinking about some other things while running, I am thinking about the happy thoughts, the happy memories from the past and that also makes me forget the pain in my legs. I didn't even notice that I am already finished. If you are running outside and you want to forget the pain in your legs, just simply look at the people, things, places around you. Just be observant and you will forget the boring process.
Just like in the office, if you hate your job and you are having a hard time dealing with it everyday... just focus on some other parts of your job. Look at the enjoyable parts and focus on it. I was an encoder for more than 4 years, sometimes the job is really boring, what makes the job harder is the salary was very low so you will really lose motivation doing your job. But what makes me stay longer with the job is I am very good in enjoying some parts of it. I was an encoder so I always use the keyboard for typing the data, I begin to enjoy pressing the keyboards, I love the sound of it everytime I press a single button. I enjoy typing fast, I feel like a real professional everytime I am rushing to type a single word. I imagine that I am doing a very important thing, that makes me enjoy my job a little bit. I find a part of the process that thrills me. It may sounds corny or not realistic to others because how come that somebody may enjoy the sound of the keyboard?
But we are different individuals, some people can find the joy in the simplest things and I am one of them. I simply love using my keyboard and that makes me stay longer with my job, that makes me enjoy my job even if it is boring. Sometimes I am even listening to music while typing and that makes me enjoy my job even more. Sometimes I am even competing with my co-workers, I wanted to be the fastest typist so I am practicing my typing skills everyday.
There are little things inside the process that are fun, that will make you finish the whole process. It is your duty to find the fun inside of it and focus on it so the whole process will become easier. Sometimes all you need to do is be with the moment, enjoy every second and the process will become easier than it was. So if you are having a hard time doing the process... just look for some parts of it that are enjoyable and focus on it... that will make your life easier.
Jun 9, 2017
7 WAYS TO BUILD YOUR NEW SELF
1. Prepare to become uncomfortable. Let's face it, change is really uncomfortable, you will feel irritated, bored and stressed. You cannot change if you are not willing to face stress because you are installing some new habits, thoughts, actions, environment, people into your system. Everything looks new, your body and brain will be shocked because your old habits is being replaced slowly. If you really wanted to build a new you... you must be willing to become uncomfortable and do whatever it takes to forge a momentum that will bring out the better version of you. Don't worry because it is only uncomfortable in just a couple of weeks, if you manage to forced yourself to install the newly desired habits and things into your system... change will take place faster than expected.
2. Have a vision. How do you want to look? what are things that you want to get? what is your true purpose? if you don't have a vision then you will not be able to change. Have a vision so that you will have a guide on how do you want to live your new life. If your vision is blurry then you will not be able to get the results that you want. Imagine yourself winning, imagine yourself getting the things that you want, be bold and specific about it. Don't feel guilty if you're dreaming so big, just see yourself on the place where you want to be and work hard everyday.
3. Start imperfectly. Starting imperfectly will make you want to start right away, some people can't even start or take the first step because they want flawless results right away. It is not about being perfect, it is about taking actions to be at least close to perfect. Never mind if you're starting rough or making a lot of mistakes, you will become great as you repeat what you're doing. If you really want to make a dramatic change in your life... don't strive to become perfect, just start wherever you are and forget about how bad you look while doing your mission.
4. Imitate your idol. If you can't be original and doesn't know what to do... just imitate someone that has a much better life than yours, it can be your idol or simply someone that is doing well in life. Study his actions, copy his actions, habits and the way he handle himself. Copy everything about him and you will be like him. Well, at least you manage to change your life.
5. Expect nothing. If you want to change... don't expect that the change will happen right away. Focus on actions and expect nothing, this kind of mindset will make you change your life so fast. A lot of people can't change because their expectations were too high, sometimes they don't know that their lives has already changed because they are expecting too much. It's ok to dream big and hope for the finest things in life but don't expect too much or else you will only become disappointed once you didn't get what you want right away. Do your very best but don't expect too much.
6. Be ok with a slow pace. Change may not happen so fast so you need to be very patient, accept being in a slow pace if needed. Take it one step at a time, don't rush because it is not needed. Rushing is forcing and you don't need to force change if you want a better and permanent result. Take baby steps, be ok with slow and small progress.
7. Be consistent. Do it even if you don't want to do it, that is how change will happen. Be consistent, do it everyday. Never miss a day or else your fire and momentum will die.
2. Have a vision. How do you want to look? what are things that you want to get? what is your true purpose? if you don't have a vision then you will not be able to change. Have a vision so that you will have a guide on how do you want to live your new life. If your vision is blurry then you will not be able to get the results that you want. Imagine yourself winning, imagine yourself getting the things that you want, be bold and specific about it. Don't feel guilty if you're dreaming so big, just see yourself on the place where you want to be and work hard everyday.
3. Start imperfectly. Starting imperfectly will make you want to start right away, some people can't even start or take the first step because they want flawless results right away. It is not about being perfect, it is about taking actions to be at least close to perfect. Never mind if you're starting rough or making a lot of mistakes, you will become great as you repeat what you're doing. If you really want to make a dramatic change in your life... don't strive to become perfect, just start wherever you are and forget about how bad you look while doing your mission.
4. Imitate your idol. If you can't be original and doesn't know what to do... just imitate someone that has a much better life than yours, it can be your idol or simply someone that is doing well in life. Study his actions, copy his actions, habits and the way he handle himself. Copy everything about him and you will be like him. Well, at least you manage to change your life.
5. Expect nothing. If you want to change... don't expect that the change will happen right away. Focus on actions and expect nothing, this kind of mindset will make you change your life so fast. A lot of people can't change because their expectations were too high, sometimes they don't know that their lives has already changed because they are expecting too much. It's ok to dream big and hope for the finest things in life but don't expect too much or else you will only become disappointed once you didn't get what you want right away. Do your very best but don't expect too much.
6. Be ok with a slow pace. Change may not happen so fast so you need to be very patient, accept being in a slow pace if needed. Take it one step at a time, don't rush because it is not needed. Rushing is forcing and you don't need to force change if you want a better and permanent result. Take baby steps, be ok with slow and small progress.
7. Be consistent. Do it even if you don't want to do it, that is how change will happen. Be consistent, do it everyday. Never miss a day or else your fire and momentum will die.
Jun 8, 2017
YOU MAYBE INTELLIGENT BUT YOUR FOCUS IS WRONG
You can be the most intelligent guy in town, you maybe the smartest, the one who knows a lot and can reach the highest heights as many people say but if your focus is not right then you will never go far. You can be the cum laude of your class, a dean's lister or a promising talent but if your focus is wrong then you will never get what you want. There are millions of teachers, professors, doctors and any other professionals that are not happy because their focus is wrong. Let's admit it, most people just finish a degree just to get a good job and get rich. It means they want money, they want to get rich and wealthy but sometimes their focus is wrong.
Some people were caught up on studying too much only to end up accomplishing nothing, they get frustrated, they get depressed. It is simply because they can't find a little success on what they're doing. It is ok if you're happy just simply studying, reading books and knowing a lot. But if you want a lot of money then you should focus on earning money and not reading books. It doesn't matter how you get it, of course you should still prioritize not being a problem to others but the point here is... if you want money then you should do something to get money, don't focus on other things that will only slow you down.
A lot of people thinks that by knowing a lot then you will be able to get rich fast. It is not the right mindset, if you want to get rich then you should do the very closest activity to get rich. Your focus should be the money, not on the crowded information that will only make you confused. You should be single minded, you should have a focused energy on money. That is why there are some confident people who wanted to become rich never finish their school, they immediately jumped in to their idea and make it successful no matter what.
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that school will not make your rich nor successful. I am just stating a fact that sometimes you are studying too much but at the end of the day all you want is to become rich and wealthy. School is just another medium to become successful and rich but the truth is... not all the smartest students in class became the richest in their batch, they were even beaten by some average students.
There is nothing wrong in studying too much if that is your really focus, but if you are just doing it for the sake of money then stop doing it and jump on the process of creating money right away. You can become rich without studying a lot, all you need to do is know the basics of creating wealth and find the right process for you. This is not short cut or cutting corners, it is about placing your energy and focus on the right thing. You need to make a smart move and go to your goal right away.
Some people were caught up on studying too much only to end up accomplishing nothing, they get frustrated, they get depressed. It is simply because they can't find a little success on what they're doing. It is ok if you're happy just simply studying, reading books and knowing a lot. But if you want a lot of money then you should focus on earning money and not reading books. It doesn't matter how you get it, of course you should still prioritize not being a problem to others but the point here is... if you want money then you should do something to get money, don't focus on other things that will only slow you down.
A lot of people thinks that by knowing a lot then you will be able to get rich fast. It is not the right mindset, if you want to get rich then you should do the very closest activity to get rich. Your focus should be the money, not on the crowded information that will only make you confused. You should be single minded, you should have a focused energy on money. That is why there are some confident people who wanted to become rich never finish their school, they immediately jumped in to their idea and make it successful no matter what.
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that school will not make your rich nor successful. I am just stating a fact that sometimes you are studying too much but at the end of the day all you want is to become rich and wealthy. School is just another medium to become successful and rich but the truth is... not all the smartest students in class became the richest in their batch, they were even beaten by some average students.
There is nothing wrong in studying too much if that is your really focus, but if you are just doing it for the sake of money then stop doing it and jump on the process of creating money right away. You can become rich without studying a lot, all you need to do is know the basics of creating wealth and find the right process for you. This is not short cut or cutting corners, it is about placing your energy and focus on the right thing. You need to make a smart move and go to your goal right away.
Jun 7, 2017
PROCESS THE ADVERSITY
Your life will not become perfect... ever, accept that. Adversities will come, different problems will come. It's not about being negative, it's about accepting the reality and if you will be alright with those problems and treat it as just a challenge then you will be alright. If there is a perfect life then why are there millionaires that has depression problem? why are there rich celebrities who do drugs? why are there successful businessmen who commits suicide?
Some people who get it fast, some people who became successful fast, some people who were not so used to losing and suffering were stunned the moment they experienced a big adversity in their life that is why they freak out, that is why they don't know what to do.
If you got sick, if the illness is severe... no need to panic, you just need to process the adversity. Do everything to make you a little bit better, do everything that makes you stronger than yesterday and that's it. I know it's easier said than done but if you will not face the adversity, if you will not process it then nothing will happen to you, your situation might get even worse.
You only need to face it, talk about it, make a game plan and then stick with it. Don't ever shy away from it, don't ever make excuses for not facing it. If you're not afraid to process any adversity then nothing can ever put you down. You will always thrive, you will survive any storm that may visit your life. It's all about enduring it, doing something for it and waiting for it to pass. Any adversity will end, it will never stay in your life if you're positive enough to do everything in your power to surpass it. The reality is... you can always do something, you can always do something to solve your problem. There is no such thing as impossible. The key here is to face your emotions, don't try to numb it by drinking alcohol, eating unhealthy foods and doing stupid things that may entertain you for a while.
Process the adversity now because it will become bigger the more you postponed facing it. Once you decided that you are going to process it then you will be able to end it, you will come up with solutions that will make your life better.
After you process any kind of adversity... you will feel better, you will feel like a different kind of individual, you will feel that you became better, stronger, smarter and braver. Because all the adversity does is make you a better person. So don't be afraid of it, process it and grow from it.
Strong and successful people will never run away from any adversity, they face it like a real man, they never make excuses, they never blame anyone, they are not looking for an easy way out. The process it until it is done, they do everything in their power to make their situation better again.
Some people who get it fast, some people who became successful fast, some people who were not so used to losing and suffering were stunned the moment they experienced a big adversity in their life that is why they freak out, that is why they don't know what to do.
If you got sick, if the illness is severe... no need to panic, you just need to process the adversity. Do everything to make you a little bit better, do everything that makes you stronger than yesterday and that's it. I know it's easier said than done but if you will not face the adversity, if you will not process it then nothing will happen to you, your situation might get even worse.
You only need to face it, talk about it, make a game plan and then stick with it. Don't ever shy away from it, don't ever make excuses for not facing it. If you're not afraid to process any adversity then nothing can ever put you down. You will always thrive, you will survive any storm that may visit your life. It's all about enduring it, doing something for it and waiting for it to pass. Any adversity will end, it will never stay in your life if you're positive enough to do everything in your power to surpass it. The reality is... you can always do something, you can always do something to solve your problem. There is no such thing as impossible. The key here is to face your emotions, don't try to numb it by drinking alcohol, eating unhealthy foods and doing stupid things that may entertain you for a while.
Process the adversity now because it will become bigger the more you postponed facing it. Once you decided that you are going to process it then you will be able to end it, you will come up with solutions that will make your life better.
After you process any kind of adversity... you will feel better, you will feel like a different kind of individual, you will feel that you became better, stronger, smarter and braver. Because all the adversity does is make you a better person. So don't be afraid of it, process it and grow from it.
Strong and successful people will never run away from any adversity, they face it like a real man, they never make excuses, they never blame anyone, they are not looking for an easy way out. The process it until it is done, they do everything in their power to make their situation better again.
Jun 5, 2017
7 MAIN REASONS WHY YOU CAN'T BEGIN
1. You are always looking for what is missing. You can't begin because you are always looking for what is missing in your life and you make that as an excuse. You want to run but you can't begin because you are telling yourself that you don't have a running shoes. You want to change your life but you are looking for an expensive self development coach before you get started, what if you don't have money to pay that coach? You want to have a strict diet but you want to have a dietitian first to assist you. You want to become rich but you are always looking for a big capital to start a business. You are always looking for what is missing in your life, you feel that you need to have everything before you get started, you want a perfect start.
2. You are focused on people who already made results. And when you see that there are some people who already made it.. you also want to get what they want without working for it, you easily get jealous. You can't get started because you got overwhelmed when you learned that it is hard to get there. You watch other people who made it instead of working for it that is why your time has been wasted for nothing. Instead on working on your on project, you are too busy watching other people's lives.
3. You care too much about your emotions. Just a little headache, toothache, dizziness or whatever discomfort you feel... you are using it as an excuse to not start. When you also feel bad because you and your partner have some misunderstanding... you dwell on that emotion. The moment you feel a little bad because of something... you will not start, you will make dramas, you're acting like you need to feel alright first before you start.
4. You're full of excuses. Excuses such as you're not ready, you're too busy, you're scared, you're waiting for something else, it's not the right time, your skill is not enough and any other out of the world excuses that is avoiding you from making the first move. You can always invent an excuse just to avoid yourself from drawing the first blood. You don't know that the more you make excuses... the more you are wasting time.
5. You prioritize unimportant things first. So when it is time to do the right things... you don't have energy left. You watch tv first, check your social media accounts, chat with your friends etc. until you find yourself already tired and wanted to go to bed. The cycle goes on and on, you don't have the willpower to force yourself to do the important things first, you are so addicted to comfort and temporary pleasures.
6. You are not warming up. Just do a simple warm up even if you feel so heavy. If you are a writer and you can't begin, just simply write ugly paragraphs, revise it later if you still want to. But just do something so that you will gain a little bit of momentum. Warm up, it is ok to slow in the beginning, what you need is momentum and you will only get it by just doing what you can for the moment regardless of how ugly your action is.
7. You get easily distracted. When your brother told you that your favorite sexy star is on TV... you will jump on the TV right away and then watch it, even if your purpose of watching is over... you can't stop it anymore because you were distracted already and you begin to enjoy it. A lot of small things can distract you, your focus is so weak.
2. You are focused on people who already made results. And when you see that there are some people who already made it.. you also want to get what they want without working for it, you easily get jealous. You can't get started because you got overwhelmed when you learned that it is hard to get there. You watch other people who made it instead of working for it that is why your time has been wasted for nothing. Instead on working on your on project, you are too busy watching other people's lives.
3. You care too much about your emotions. Just a little headache, toothache, dizziness or whatever discomfort you feel... you are using it as an excuse to not start. When you also feel bad because you and your partner have some misunderstanding... you dwell on that emotion. The moment you feel a little bad because of something... you will not start, you will make dramas, you're acting like you need to feel alright first before you start.
4. You're full of excuses. Excuses such as you're not ready, you're too busy, you're scared, you're waiting for something else, it's not the right time, your skill is not enough and any other out of the world excuses that is avoiding you from making the first move. You can always invent an excuse just to avoid yourself from drawing the first blood. You don't know that the more you make excuses... the more you are wasting time.
5. You prioritize unimportant things first. So when it is time to do the right things... you don't have energy left. You watch tv first, check your social media accounts, chat with your friends etc. until you find yourself already tired and wanted to go to bed. The cycle goes on and on, you don't have the willpower to force yourself to do the important things first, you are so addicted to comfort and temporary pleasures.
6. You are not warming up. Just do a simple warm up even if you feel so heavy. If you are a writer and you can't begin, just simply write ugly paragraphs, revise it later if you still want to. But just do something so that you will gain a little bit of momentum. Warm up, it is ok to slow in the beginning, what you need is momentum and you will only get it by just doing what you can for the moment regardless of how ugly your action is.
7. You get easily distracted. When your brother told you that your favorite sexy star is on TV... you will jump on the TV right away and then watch it, even if your purpose of watching is over... you can't stop it anymore because you were distracted already and you begin to enjoy it. A lot of small things can distract you, your focus is so weak.
Jun 4, 2017
CREATE YOUR OWN NUMBERS
Sometimes all you can do is create your own numbers because they cannot give the numbers that you are asking. What do I mean by this? you create some numbers that will put you in a position to get the numbers that you originally wanted. For example, if you are asking for a salary increase and your boss doesn't want you to give one... it's time to create your own numbers. Work as hard as you can, create the number of hours of work that is longer than the normal hours of working. If you are working 8 hours before it is time to work for at least 10-12 hours now. Do as many task as you can, produce some numbers that is very hard to ignore, if your boss sees your value then he can never deny you next time.
If your goal is to get a million subscribers in you tube and you can't figure out how to get it, if it seems like nobody is subscribing to your channel... it is time for you to create your own numbers too. If you can't force them to subscribe to your channel, you can force yourself to make videos as much as you can. It is possible to create one million videos. I know it takes a very long time to do that but it is still possible, once you're on the journey and you love what you're doing, you will never think about succeeding or failing anymore, you just do it for the love of doing it. And even if you don't create a million videos, if you're striving to reach that kind of numbers... you will attract big numbers too. A lot of people will subscribe in your channel because they will see that you are serious, they will see that you are for real. They will see that you are growing and they will see that you are getting better everyday. Because if you keep on working consistently... people will notice you, and that is the biggest secret to success... consistency and hardwork.
If your coach is not using you but you wanted to play some minutes in a game, if they can't give you some playing time then it's time for you to create your own numbers again. Create your own numbers in practice. Practice for a very long time, practice for three or more hours each day and let's see if you don't become great. Those number of hours in practice, those hardwork will attract success. If they see you that you are getting better, they can't deny you anymore. Forget about the playing time, just focus on your practice. Focus on what is happening and not on what is not happening, what is happening is you are practicing and that is where you should place your focus a lot.
Focus on what you can control. You can control your emotions, work ethic and perspective. Don't get disappointed everytime you ask for a number and they can't give it to you. You can create your own number, large numbers will attract large numbers. So if you are working hard even if there is no reward yet... you will be rewarded in the end. All of your efforts will be noticed, you just need a little more time and believe yourself a little bit more.
If your goal is to get a million subscribers in you tube and you can't figure out how to get it, if it seems like nobody is subscribing to your channel... it is time for you to create your own numbers too. If you can't force them to subscribe to your channel, you can force yourself to make videos as much as you can. It is possible to create one million videos. I know it takes a very long time to do that but it is still possible, once you're on the journey and you love what you're doing, you will never think about succeeding or failing anymore, you just do it for the love of doing it. And even if you don't create a million videos, if you're striving to reach that kind of numbers... you will attract big numbers too. A lot of people will subscribe in your channel because they will see that you are serious, they will see that you are for real. They will see that you are growing and they will see that you are getting better everyday. Because if you keep on working consistently... people will notice you, and that is the biggest secret to success... consistency and hardwork.
If your coach is not using you but you wanted to play some minutes in a game, if they can't give you some playing time then it's time for you to create your own numbers again. Create your own numbers in practice. Practice for a very long time, practice for three or more hours each day and let's see if you don't become great. Those number of hours in practice, those hardwork will attract success. If they see you that you are getting better, they can't deny you anymore. Forget about the playing time, just focus on your practice. Focus on what is happening and not on what is not happening, what is happening is you are practicing and that is where you should place your focus a lot.
Focus on what you can control. You can control your emotions, work ethic and perspective. Don't get disappointed everytime you ask for a number and they can't give it to you. You can create your own number, large numbers will attract large numbers. So if you are working hard even if there is no reward yet... you will be rewarded in the end. All of your efforts will be noticed, you just need a little more time and believe yourself a little bit more.
Jun 2, 2017
YOU CAN MAKE YOURSELF BELIEVE
You can make yourself believe that you can do it, you can make yourself believe that you're invincible and you can achieve anything, you can make yourself believe that you're a winner. You can make yourself believe that you work so hard, just work hard now and do everything you can to become closer to success.
It's all about conditioning your mind and feeding it the necessary thoughts to become successful. If you can only make yourself believe that what you are aiming for is possible then you will take massive actions to become successful. Because it is all about taking actions despite of not seeing any results. Not all people can believe, not all people can take actions especially if they are not getting anything from it. People wants assurance that they will get something from what they're doing that is why when they feel that nothing is happening... their beliefs will die, they will no longer believe in themselves.
Be aware if you are not believing anymore, be mindful of your thoughts. It is easy to get carried away by the negative things that are happening to your life. Your hope can easily die once you are hit with a strong adversity and it is your duty to keep your belief alive. Because you will not be able to take actions anymore and do what is necessary if your belief dies.
Just find a reason why you should still keep believing. You can find a food for your belief so that it will come back stronger again. It is normal if your belief is weakening, the most important thing is you should be aware if you are losing hope, if you are aware... it means your mind is still in the right position to entertain positive thoughts. It means you are still in control. Those people who quit are not aware that their belief is dying that is why they let the situation control them. They submit easily because they cannot make their belief strong again. And you can only make your belief strong again if you know that it is dying,
So what is the status of your belief now? is strong or is it weak? you know what to do if it is weak. Find some thoughts that will keep you motivated, watch some motivational videos in you tube so that you will find some little hope.
Little by little you can make your belief back, you can make it stronger again. Be patient and erase all the despair in your system. Look for an inspiration, be closer to the people who inspire you and true to you. Stay away from negative people and things that will only weaken your belief even more. Take small actions that will give you good feelings.
You have the power to believe. Believing is enough, when I say believing... it should be pure belief, there should be no doubts nor hesitation. You should be a singe minded individual that cannot see yourself failing.
It's all about conditioning your mind and feeding it the necessary thoughts to become successful. If you can only make yourself believe that what you are aiming for is possible then you will take massive actions to become successful. Because it is all about taking actions despite of not seeing any results. Not all people can believe, not all people can take actions especially if they are not getting anything from it. People wants assurance that they will get something from what they're doing that is why when they feel that nothing is happening... their beliefs will die, they will no longer believe in themselves.
Be aware if you are not believing anymore, be mindful of your thoughts. It is easy to get carried away by the negative things that are happening to your life. Your hope can easily die once you are hit with a strong adversity and it is your duty to keep your belief alive. Because you will not be able to take actions anymore and do what is necessary if your belief dies.
Just find a reason why you should still keep believing. You can find a food for your belief so that it will come back stronger again. It is normal if your belief is weakening, the most important thing is you should be aware if you are losing hope, if you are aware... it means your mind is still in the right position to entertain positive thoughts. It means you are still in control. Those people who quit are not aware that their belief is dying that is why they let the situation control them. They submit easily because they cannot make their belief strong again. And you can only make your belief strong again if you know that it is dying,
So what is the status of your belief now? is strong or is it weak? you know what to do if it is weak. Find some thoughts that will keep you motivated, watch some motivational videos in you tube so that you will find some little hope.
Little by little you can make your belief back, you can make it stronger again. Be patient and erase all the despair in your system. Look for an inspiration, be closer to the people who inspire you and true to you. Stay away from negative people and things that will only weaken your belief even more. Take small actions that will give you good feelings.
You have the power to believe. Believing is enough, when I say believing... it should be pure belief, there should be no doubts nor hesitation. You should be a singe minded individual that cannot see yourself failing.
Jun 1, 2017
THINKING IS ALREADY POWER
Nurture the thoughts that will help you in your life. Thinking is already power, what you think about will play a major role in your life. If you are thinking about losing then you will lose, if you think about winning (all the time) then you will win. Your thoughts is your reality. You may think that it is not true because those are only thoughts. But your thoughts plays a major role in how you act, how your body reacts, it plays a major role in your actions. If you are thinking about getting rich all the time... your body will be forced to take actions to become rich. For unknown reasons... you're moving without even thinking. It's like automatic, you're in an auto pilot mode for taking actions to become rich. You will become motivated if you're always thinking about getting rich. You will have an unlimited energy and you will keep moving forward.
But if you're thinking about poverty, hardness of life and problems... all you will have is problems, you will not be able to produce some solutions for the betterment of your life. That is why broke people can't escape the rut that they are in... they were always complaining and whining about life. They don't want to take actions, they don't want to change they way they think.
Powerful people, successful people have rich thoughts, their brains were full of hope, positivity and solutions. They never entertain negative thoughts. All they think about is making their life better. All they think about is success, that is why success is easily attracted to them. They were focused on taking actions instead of frustrations.
So if you want to change your life... study how you think, be mindful of your thoughts. Control your thoughts and make sure it is all about abundance, patience, actions and positivity. Take care of your thoughts, treat it like a garden and never let any weed of negativity grows on it.
Have you ever see a successful person complaining and talking about negativity? Have you ever see someone winning make excuses? of course not. Only losers play the victim role, only losers are making excuses. Winners may lose but they accept it and do something about it, they will take full responsibility of their loss and they will not blame anyone. It is simply because they know that if they let their thoughts become negative... they will never win again.
So if you are thinking about problems instead of solutions... you will attract problems, you will never be happy. You will not be able to change your life, your life will become full of stress and obstacles, it is true because I am a negative thinker before, I always attract adversities because I created it by myself because of thinking too much negative.
Learn to harbor positive thoughts, learn to always feel abundant even if nothing is going on with your life. It is your thought that molds your life and reality, be aware of how you think.
But if you're thinking about poverty, hardness of life and problems... all you will have is problems, you will not be able to produce some solutions for the betterment of your life. That is why broke people can't escape the rut that they are in... they were always complaining and whining about life. They don't want to take actions, they don't want to change they way they think.
Powerful people, successful people have rich thoughts, their brains were full of hope, positivity and solutions. They never entertain negative thoughts. All they think about is making their life better. All they think about is success, that is why success is easily attracted to them. They were focused on taking actions instead of frustrations.
So if you want to change your life... study how you think, be mindful of your thoughts. Control your thoughts and make sure it is all about abundance, patience, actions and positivity. Take care of your thoughts, treat it like a garden and never let any weed of negativity grows on it.
Have you ever see a successful person complaining and talking about negativity? Have you ever see someone winning make excuses? of course not. Only losers play the victim role, only losers are making excuses. Winners may lose but they accept it and do something about it, they will take full responsibility of their loss and they will not blame anyone. It is simply because they know that if they let their thoughts become negative... they will never win again.
So if you are thinking about problems instead of solutions... you will attract problems, you will never be happy. You will not be able to change your life, your life will become full of stress and obstacles, it is true because I am a negative thinker before, I always attract adversities because I created it by myself because of thinking too much negative.
Learn to harbor positive thoughts, learn to always feel abundant even if nothing is going on with your life. It is your thought that molds your life and reality, be aware of how you think.
THE BEST WAY TO BEGIN
The best way to begin is just begin, just start right away. The best way to begin is when you're feeling lazy, when you don't want to move because you are so sleepy or something, the best way to begin is when you're uncomfortable, worried or confused. To make the long story short, the best way to begin is when discomfort is taking control of your body.
Most people are waiting for the perfect timing, for the most comfortable situation and that is why they can't even get started. They were always looking for the perfect feeling, they were like babies who likes comfort so much. But guess what? you will never feel comfortable in life, discomfort is the partner of success so if you always wanted to feel good before you start... you will never start, you will just wait forever. You will grow old accomplishing nothing, your life will be full of regrets.
There is no such thing as perfect timing, the right timing is now. Not tomorrow, not later, not next week or next month. If you want to begin something... do it now. And even if you feel like your timing is wrong the moment you started because everything is not clicking... don't think about it, what you need to do is adapt and improvise. Just make the necessary adjustments, don't shy way from the process. It is what it is, if something went wrong it is because mistakes are normal, it is not a big deal. What you need to do is move forward and forget the past, focus on what you can do and make your situation better each day. Once you begin... follow through, never stop, never look for what went wrong, don't feel any regrets because that thing is stupid. Once you begin, there is no more turning back, once you begin... your ship was already burned. You can't go back anymore and start something else again.
So start even if you suck because once you start... you will get a momentum, you will discover things, you will get a feedback that you needed for the next action. Start even if it is really uncomfortable, just start and give your best, hope for the best and always stay positive and patient.
Stop making plans, just start and make plans while you are moving. Sometimes you don't need to make plans at all, just embrace any single situation and try to make changes if needed, just live with the moment because the right action will be unfold if you have dedication. You will always find out what to do next if you are committed to being successful.
If not now when? how many times you said to yourself that you will start tomorrow or next week? aren't you getting tired of fooling yourself and lying to yourself? you said you will change, you said you will start building your dreams but how can you do it if you can't even get started?
Keep moving even if your beginning is ugly. If you started ugly..., don't get frustrated, everything will run smoothly once you dedicate yourself for taking action. You will find your momentum and right timing once you started and keep taking actions.
Most people are waiting for the perfect timing, for the most comfortable situation and that is why they can't even get started. They were always looking for the perfect feeling, they were like babies who likes comfort so much. But guess what? you will never feel comfortable in life, discomfort is the partner of success so if you always wanted to feel good before you start... you will never start, you will just wait forever. You will grow old accomplishing nothing, your life will be full of regrets.
There is no such thing as perfect timing, the right timing is now. Not tomorrow, not later, not next week or next month. If you want to begin something... do it now. And even if you feel like your timing is wrong the moment you started because everything is not clicking... don't think about it, what you need to do is adapt and improvise. Just make the necessary adjustments, don't shy way from the process. It is what it is, if something went wrong it is because mistakes are normal, it is not a big deal. What you need to do is move forward and forget the past, focus on what you can do and make your situation better each day. Once you begin... follow through, never stop, never look for what went wrong, don't feel any regrets because that thing is stupid. Once you begin, there is no more turning back, once you begin... your ship was already burned. You can't go back anymore and start something else again.
So start even if you suck because once you start... you will get a momentum, you will discover things, you will get a feedback that you needed for the next action. Start even if it is really uncomfortable, just start and give your best, hope for the best and always stay positive and patient.
Stop making plans, just start and make plans while you are moving. Sometimes you don't need to make plans at all, just embrace any single situation and try to make changes if needed, just live with the moment because the right action will be unfold if you have dedication. You will always find out what to do next if you are committed to being successful.
If not now when? how many times you said to yourself that you will start tomorrow or next week? aren't you getting tired of fooling yourself and lying to yourself? you said you will change, you said you will start building your dreams but how can you do it if you can't even get started?
Keep moving even if your beginning is ugly. If you started ugly..., don't get frustrated, everything will run smoothly once you dedicate yourself for taking action. You will find your momentum and right timing once you started and keep taking actions.
IT'S NOT ABOUT THE TIME, IT'S ABOUT GETTING IT
Some people can get it in 1 year, some people can get it in 2 years or three or 5. Some people can become successful fast while some people cannot. It doesn't matter how fast you get it, what matters is you still get it. If it takes 20 years to get it, so what? Use time the right way, value it, treasure it and never waste it but forget about the length of the time to become successful. Life is not a race, success is not a race, it is a matter of staying on the journey, giving your best and keep working until you become successful. If it takes 20 years to become successful.. do it. Would you rather stop working and not become successful? or would you rather be patient because you will still become successful in the end?
Forget about how long would it take to become successful, forget about the people who are making it fast, good for them if they are making it fast. Never copy their face, never get jealous with their rapid success. You will have your time, you will also become successful if you never give up.
It doesn't matter if your progress is very slow, what matters is you keep moving forward and you stay with the process. It's not about time, it's not about speed... it is about getting it.
People who are rushing will never make it. It is because they will quit in the long run once they didn't see the results that they are expecting. Success is all about having a strong patience, it is about waiting and working, it is not about checking for the results everyday. It is not about celebration, it is all about action.
You can get anything you want for as long as your patient enough and you are willing to work until you get it. You don't need to compare yourself with others because that is the most stupid thing that you can ever do. You don't need to compare your timeline with their timeline. If they are fast so be it, if you are slow, accept it. Forget about the time, just keep working until you become successful.
Because if you really want it then you will never stop, you will never quit, you will never think about the time you spent for getting it. Your belief will never die and you will still do whatever it takes to win in life.
Just get it no matter what, just keep on grinding and persevering.. make it simple an consistent, don't look for the results, forget about the progress, just keep working until you become successful. Never get tired of believing, never get tired of working.
Only few people can wait for a very long time and those are the most successful individuals in this world. If you will look at the most successful stories in the history, those people who succeed has wait for a very long time and they never get tired working. They were so focused on their work and they don't care about anything else.
Forget about how long would it take to become successful, forget about the people who are making it fast, good for them if they are making it fast. Never copy their face, never get jealous with their rapid success. You will have your time, you will also become successful if you never give up.
It doesn't matter if your progress is very slow, what matters is you keep moving forward and you stay with the process. It's not about time, it's not about speed... it is about getting it.
People who are rushing will never make it. It is because they will quit in the long run once they didn't see the results that they are expecting. Success is all about having a strong patience, it is about waiting and working, it is not about checking for the results everyday. It is not about celebration, it is all about action.
You can get anything you want for as long as your patient enough and you are willing to work until you get it. You don't need to compare yourself with others because that is the most stupid thing that you can ever do. You don't need to compare your timeline with their timeline. If they are fast so be it, if you are slow, accept it. Forget about the time, just keep working until you become successful.
Because if you really want it then you will never stop, you will never quit, you will never think about the time you spent for getting it. Your belief will never die and you will still do whatever it takes to win in life.
Just get it no matter what, just keep on grinding and persevering.. make it simple an consistent, don't look for the results, forget about the progress, just keep working until you become successful. Never get tired of believing, never get tired of working.
Only few people can wait for a very long time and those are the most successful individuals in this world. If you will look at the most successful stories in the history, those people who succeed has wait for a very long time and they never get tired working. They were so focused on their work and they don't care about anything else.
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