Aug 6, 2015
STUDY WHAT MATTERS MOST
I remember when I was in High School, whenever we have an exam we will study our books and mark all the important words by a colored marker that we think will come out on the exam. Some students are very funny they almost mark all the words on the book even if it is not important and I wonder if they can memorize all those words. The funnier thing is sometimes the exam is just multiple questions. You just need to remember what you read and you will pass the exam.
When I was in College our professors were requiring us to buy the books that they wrote or the book of their friends but we didn't even have a lesson on it the whole semester. I don't know why they do that, do they understand that not all students has a lot of money? Some are just there because they are scholars.
In life we sometimes over think and we are force to study everything but in reality we only need important information. I have studied physics, the life of heroes, trigonometry etc. but up to now those information didn't give me a single cent. I don't know why Colleges and Universities are requiring the students to study subjects that are not related to their course, what I am talking about here are the minor subjects. It only lengthen the period of time of studying and it increases the tuition fee of the students. But at the end of the day when we only needed little information on the job that we are applying.
I am even shocked that what I have studied for 7 years in my University was not used when I was working.
My advice is study what matters and what will make your life better. Education can be formal and informal and I am telling you informal education is much better that formal because you can choose what you want to learn and you are force to learn what are the information needed at the moment.
I am not saying that don't go to school, school has still a lot of things to offer us but not all. Are you going to use all the dates, events that you studied in your history subject for your job? Is the story about killing a national hero gonna improve your life or make you a millionaire? Again I am not saying that it is bad to study those stuffs and it is ok if you love those subjects but my point here is if you don't love what you are studying don't give too much importance to it. Don't pressure yourself to study things that are not important and not fun to you.
Study things that will improve your life or what is fun to you. Stop being forced to study something for no reason. Some people even study a lot of things for the sake of showing people that they are smart but the reality is those information in their head is not giving them edge in life. Is the birthday or favorite color of a certain celebrity will be asked on a job interview? Is the death date of a national hero or some counterfeit politician gonna give you some money or food on your table?
Don't get embarrassed if you don't know the date of an important even or important birthdate. If some laughs at you just say this phrase "Sorry but I am only studying things that I love and will give me money, I am not studying things that will not make my life better"
Aug 5, 2015
LUCK IS THE PARTNER OF LAZINESS
When people got lazy they will just purely rely on luck that is why luck is the partner of laziness. I've been a lazy bum ass before so I know this 100 percent.
If I didn't study and tomorrow we have an exam, I will just pray that some of my classmates will let me copy their answers. I am praying that I get lucky so my professor won't caught me. Sometimes I got lucky and sometimes my professor is heavily guarding us so we cannot copy each other's answers. I purely rely on luck that is why I do not have high expectations that I am going to pass.
As a graphic designer if I didn't work hard enough to find clients and the due dates of my bills are coming, I just hope that I got lucky again and some miracle clients will show so I can pay my bills. Again, this is not a good habit, sometimes you get away with it and sometimes not. Most of the time I got busted and I have to pay the penalties of my bills. Good thing I am changing now and I am not waiting for the due dates to come to work hard.
Some athletes, if they didn't work hard because of partying before the game, they just wish that they got lucky, they just wish that the right plays will come to them. They wish that their opponents might have a bad day so that they can win the game easily. Most of the time this didn't happen. How can you win if your opponent works harder than you? Hardwork gives confidence and strength to those who did it so what is the chance of luck wining over hardwork?
Those lazy unemployed people who keep on complaining about the economy has also relied on luck most of the times. The good thing is their hope never dies, they keep on joining lottery games and hoping that their numbers would be picked. They keep on hoping to get lucky and become and instant millionaire. A little bit of delusional on their side because winning a lottery as a very low percentage of happening.
So you, what are you? do you rely on luck so much? do you always avoid taking the right action and working a little harder? if you are a big fan of luck then you are a lazy person. Even if you don't want to admit it, it is true. Who's a successful person who rely purely on luck, I bet you can't give me one. There is no big person in history of success whose name is attached to luck, they didn't even talk about it.
Avoid being lucky, avoid relying on luck because that word is for people who believes in destiny. Destiny is not true. How about those drug abusers, are they destined to become addicts? certainly not, they do it, they choose it so they suck in life. Destiny is not written so luck is not real. Some people said that success is only for a chosen few, it is because they are too lazy to manipulate their destiny. They are so lazy to act and force the issue if needed. LUCK IS THE PARTNER OF LAZINESS, HARDWORK IS THE PARTNER OF SUCCESS. Enough said my blood pressure is rising!
Aug 4, 2015
DRAMAS WILL GIVE YOU BAD KARMAS
Dramas will just give you bad energy, bad vibrations. You will attract bad situations and bad circumstances, stop whining and start creating.
JUST ONE FOOT FORWARD
You can't stay stuck forever...If you are poor you can never be poor forever, there is a way for you to earn money more than what you are earning. You'll just have to look for it and execute immediately. If you are suffering obesity you can't have a fat ass forever. There is a way how to trim those fats, it is not easy but it is possible.
MOVE! It is the only way to avoid depression, one movement will take you to somewhere, that constant motion will take you one step closer to your dreams. don't be afraid of how many steps will it take to bring you to another level. JUST ONE FOOT FORWARD. It is not that hard, just one movement can change everything in your life. Step after one step. Tell this to yourself "JUST ONE STEP MORE, ONE STEP MORE" You will see that taking one step at a time will make you feel better, more confident and you have a sense of direction.
JUST ONE FOOT FORWARD and never step backward. Don't be afraid to take the next step after taking the previous step. You can step slow but you should not stop, you should also not take any step that is not congruent to the direction that you are heading. Don't step LEFT neither RIGHT. Just step forward, always one foot forward. This is easy, it may not be so comfortable but taking one step at a time makes the goal easier.
Don't look for immediate results because it may overwhelmed you and make you stuck again. Looking for immediate results is the biggest sin of a person that wants to take his life into another level.
You already changed your life if you take one step forward because by doing this you are not the same person anymore. For example you want to take bigger roles or you want to have a career move. What is the first step for achieving this? RESIGN...this action already changed your life. what is the next step? look for a better company that will give you what you want, then next step again and next step. Always one foot forward, you may trip along the way but tripping doesn't mean failing, it is just a sign that you need to reevaluate the steps that you are taking.
Don't worry if sometimes you are slowing down, it is just a part of the process. Not all the time you can do one foot forward so fast. Pacing is not that important, consistency is the key to reach the destination.
So what are you waiting for? take the next step, always one foot forward. GO! and NEVER STOP!
Aug 1, 2015
THE REAL FREEDOM IS NOT LOOKING FOR ANY VALIDATION NOR SEEKING FOR APPRECIATION
The real freedom is not looking for any validation nor seeking for appreciation. If you are really free, you will express yourself without anyone's permission.
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