MOST PEOPLE are looking for riches, success, security, intelligence, they are aiming for talents, praises and any other things that are weak for the strong ones. You don't need a perfect life, you need a strong mind that will help you to survive any kind of storm, humiliation, cruelty, disrespect, rejection, sadness and failure. Because these problems will be experienced no matter how perfect your life is, these problems will never go away because it is part of life, the question is are you ready to deal with them? that is why it is important to be mindful all the time and condition your mind that nothing else matters other than what you think of yourself, your vision, beliefs, philosophy and resolve. If you know yourself then there is nothing else to prove. If you want to strengthen your mind you need to pressure it, when everything else is falling apart and you're about to quit... keep going further no matter what, believe that you can take one more step, one more breathe, one more try and you will prevail. You can survive anything if you will promise to yourself that you will never quit no matter what. A strong mind can be trained, that is the best thing about it. Imagine pressure situations and see yourself being calm, or put yourself on pressure, do the things that are you are scared of and get familiar with it. Practice meditation, practice stillness, remind yourself all the time that you have power over mind not external events. You are the only one who can control your mind, not people, not situations, not praises or insults, not success or failure, not happiness or pain.. you're the only owner of it. Just don't quit every time it gets harder and your mind will become stronger, yes it will be hard but it will give you a lot of advantages in the future, it will make you a different type of beast. Just try it... compete, take the risk, fail, embarrass yourself and you will see that you can survive anything, you can survive any difficulties and that is what you must understand to get stronger in life. Love yourself and that means building a strong mind, train it to withstand any kind of pressure, problems or uncomfortable situations that you don't like. Embrace everything, never care about what they say, that is the game of life, if you can manage to never feel anything about what people say or think about you... you are in a different kind of level, you're strong, you already conquer a different type of fear that most people are terrified. A strong mind is not afraid of critic because it can easily detach from it, it is not afraid of words because it can make it meaningless, it can make the words powerless by not feeling anything about it.
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