YOU'RE ONLY SCARED OF PEOPLE

You're not scared of failure, you're not scared of the future, you're just scared of people, you're scared to get judged, you're scared of what people might say. You want to please them, you want to belong, you want to impress them that is why you're so afraid of what they think of you. And that is the truth, no matter how many times you say that you don't care you still care. That is why you are stiff, unexpressive, apologetic and so conservative. You don't want to be called crazy, fool, arrogant, stupid, poor, loser or not cool. You want to be liked, you want people to love you, admire you and accept you. That is why you can't do what you want to do, you're so afraid that they might reject you. And that means you're chained by their judgement and perspective of you. You want to be loved by everyone. Stop thinking about what people say and you will experience real freedom. At the end of the day who are they that needs your loyalty? they will not pay your bills, they will not save you in danger, they will not even give you leftovers. So never mind what people say and just be yourself. Just do what you want to do and be happy if nobody is there to clap at you. If you are free from fear of being cancelled then you are strong. You don't need to prove yourself anymore and that will give you power, you will no longer ask for permission, you will become independent and you will realize that you are the only one that have power over your mind not them. It is what it is, this world is full of judgemental people but don't be afraid of them because you will still be judged no matter how nice you are. Let them judge you but never let them control you. You are the only one who can control your life, there is no co-controller, there is no boss, you are the boss of your own life, you can choose how to dress, talk, work, try, chase and live. They can never control you anymore once you let go of the idea that you need to be respected. You will become powerless once you let them control your thinking. You can do something now, you can do it your way even if they are looking at you, let them guard your actions but never let them stop you if you're about to do a weird thing that they might not like. You're only scared of people that is why you are failing, that is why you hate your life, that is why you are so timid. You are not afraid of failure or mistakes, you are just afraid that they will laugh at you, criticize you or hate you. Let them be, give them freedom to think whatever they want to think but still continue living your life the way you want to live it. You will become powerful once you're not worried anymore about how they think about you. Those people doesn't deserve your loyalty because they didn't work for it, they are only judge, they are only watcher. Stop focusing on them and focus on your life, focus on trying to get better, focus on trying to improve and watch your own journey. Watch your growth, watch your life and never let anyone affect your way of thinking.  

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