Wanting to win so bad creates pressure, it creates fears, it immobilize you and stop you from taking actions. It freezes you and make you an old tree that couldn't grow or bear a single fruit. But if you are focus on facing your fears then the pressure will be lessen, you will move, you will force yourself to take actions and you will start winning little by little. The problem with people is they're too focused on the outcome and not on the process that's why they can't move a little bit, they're overthinking, they're too worried about what's going to happen next. Life and success is a journey, it's not a destination, you will feel so much better if you will face your fears, take the risk and give yourself a chance to express yourself to the fullest. Ask yourself what do you want and then face all of your fears to get there, the fear of taking actions, the fear of failing and repeating again... face all of these and you will feel free, you will already feel successful even if you haven't got the reward yet. Because the real reward is the person you become, it's your growth and transformation, it's you changing into a different type of beast. Face your fears and you will feel happier, you will feel proud of yourself. Embrace it, don't be afraid to become afraid. Be scared and still move forward, feel uncomfortable and still work hard, feel like a loser and still try to win, that is what it's all about... trying to see your full potential and detaching from the outcome or what people say. At the end of the day results doesn't really matter, what matters is you give your all because it will erase all the regrets in your head. If you will face your fears then you will be liberated.
TRAIN YOURSELF
Train yourself to face your fears all the time. Do the work when you're lazy, face the opponent who is stronger and bigger than you, take risk even if you have no chances of winning, embracing your fear is an exciting way to live your life. You will feel more energetic and has a purpose, you will never get bored anymore because you're life will be like an adventure. So every time you are scare of something... face it, make sure to deal with it but make sure it's a challenge that is worth it and not something that you do just to brag that you are brave. Face challenges like working hard to get better, taking risks to elevate your status, building your own business, taking the last shot in a game, making your health better, executing your ideas, doing it your way or even just resigning from a company that you don't like. Face your fears and never look for winning right away, you need to persevere first and endure the difficulties before you et the prize. Starting today... study what scares you the most, it can be a career move or just a simple task that invites growth, it can be riding a bike or simply going to a place that you are not familiar with. Face your fears, look for the benefits you will get by doing it. Remember that fear is just an emotion, it is not real, it is a liar, whatever you are scared of hasn't happen yet and it is unlikely to happen. Go forward even if you are scared, just give it a try, live your life.
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