Haters will make you weak if you let them. If you mind what they say then you will just destroy your day. Just let them talk because all they can do is talk, they don't know anything. They don't know anything about your heart, your will, your desire, your true capabilities. They don't know anything about you, all they know is your failures, weakness and ugly traits. They will try to expose you and make you feel bad in anything that they say.
They feel happy if you feel sad, they feel powerful if you feel weak, The best way to deal with them is just ignore them. If you know a hater and pretending to be nice when you're around, just ignore him and for sure he will feel bad too. Ignore him and you will become stronger, ignore him so he will feel stupid, he will feel there is something wrong, he will wonder and worry... he gets a dose of his own medicine.
If you can ignore a hater then you can move faster, everything they say will not affect you. You can do a lot of things because your mind is clear and there is nothing bothering you. A lot of people who has a big potential never succeeded because they were so focused on their haters, they were bothered strongly by their haters that is why they can't make good decisions, they cannot focus on their work.
HATERS WILL BECOME MORE MOTIVATED IF YOU ARGUE WITH THEM
The more you give them attention, the more they will find a reason to hate you. They are so much having fun if they saw you crying and complaining. Their strength is your weakness. The best way to handle them is to not feel anything towards their words and actions, treat them like a garbage who doesn't deserve any of your attention.
IT'S ALL ABOUT FOCUS
Where you place your focus upon is what you are going to get. Focus on your haters and you will get hate. Focus on your work and you will get more rewards. Focus on happiness and you will get happiness, as simple as that. Don't focus on what you don't want. It's all in the mind. You can even make a certain event look like it didn't happen at all if you stop thinking about it. There are some celebrities who were involved in a big scandal, they manage to overcome it by simply not talking about it. They keep their mouths shut and then people begin to forget it as the time goes by. They were smart, they knew how to kill an issue without reacting or doing anything. An issue will stay for so long if you keep on talking about it so it is better to just keep quiet and focus your mind to other things.
IGNORING IS A VERY POWERFUL THING
It can make you look invincible and powerful by simply ignoring the things that bothers you. A cheer from the crowd that is mocking you will never affect you if you stay focused on what you're doing. A critic from other people will have no power over you if will you just ignore it and pretend that you didn't hear or read anything. You can always hide your feelings, you can make them feel that you are indestructible by simply ignoring everything.
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