IT'S NEVER LATE IF YOU REALLY WANT TO DO IT

Sometimes you don't want to do things or finish things because you are thinking about time, you think you're already late and there is no point in doing it anymore. You think that finishing it is useless and will not even make an impact at all. That kind of thinking is wrong, if you really want to do it then you must do it regardless of what time is. You must be a finisher, you must finish strong, you must be a strong closer, you must have a killer instinct even if you think that it's too late. That is what champions does, they don't care about time, all they know is they have to execute and do whatever it takes to win.

If you're already late in your work, your initial reaction will be... you don't want to work anymore, you are thinking about going home, you are thinking about making an excuse to your boss and pretend that you're sick so that you will not go to your office anymore. And then what? do you think your worries and fears go away after deciding to not continue? of course not, it will stay in your system. You will still think about what could happened if you just continue, you will feel regret in the end because you knew your situation now is worse and it could have been better if you only act courageous to continue earlier.

If you have a project and it already passed the deadline, do it still. Your professor might not accept it anymore, your clients might get mad at you. But their reactions doesn't matter anymore. If you want to do it then you must do it regardless of what might happen. Because that is the best thing to do, finishing it even if you are already late. How can you know the answer if you will not try? there are good things that can happen if you try.

If you think that it's too late then just do it anyway. Time doesn't matter now, the most important thing here is doing it because it is the only way to avoid regrets.

Being late is just an excuse to not continue, you are making yourself believe that there is no more point in continuing because nothing will happen anymore. That belief is stupid, there are lot of good things that will happen if you will still try even if you think that it's too late. Miracles can happen, miracles always happen in the end, miracles happen for those people who try and still hope in the end.

That is why there are lot of people who can't pursue their dreams... they think that it's too late for them. They think that they were too old and cannot achieve anything great anymore. They were too scared because they believe in time, they believe in what other people say that it is too  impossible for them.

Remember that it is not about doing it on time, it is about doing it anyway and finishing it no matter what.

YOU WILL NEVER REGRET THAT YOU FACE THE PAIN

Once you heard the word pain...you are so afraid to face it. There are different kinds of pain: a pain that is inflicted, a pain that you created for yourself because of your bad decisions and a pain that you need to take so that you can gain something from it.

Let's talk about the pain that will give you rewards, this is the pain that most people doesn't wanted to face because you have to do it consciously, just thinking about it will make you don't want to face it. For example, the pain in working out and exercise just to make your body healthy and strong, I am very sure you don't want to do it. It is hard especially if your mind is not wired yet to move. It is really hard to move and force yourself to take actions. It feels like something is stopping you and your body is frozen. It feels like you will die if you will move. Have you ever felt it before? I am pretty sure you are especially if you don't have the habits yet installed in your system for moving. But you have no choice but to face it if you want to change your life, you have no choice but to endure the pain in moving because it is the only remaining hope to make your life better.

Face that pain now and you will never regret the time you face it, face it now and you will become happier later. You will be proud of yourself because you take actions. Not too many people can take actions especially if they don't like it, they will choose just bumming around watching TV and keeping themselves updated about the game of thrones series.

The truth is there is no big difference between pain and short term pleasure. They are both painful, the only difference is.. short term pleasure will give you fake happiness now and major pain later. While on the other hand.. facing pain now is somehow stressful but will give you real happiness later.

If you will face the pain of taking actions now and doing what is needed... you will be so very happy that you face it because you will no longer need to think about or worry about finishing the task that you are suppose to finish earlier. In other words, you already beat the habit of procrastinating and the reward is having a peace of mind, having more time to relax and enjoy life, that is what you will get by facing the pain now... happiness and contentment.

But if you will tell yourself that you will just face the pain later... the pain will grow bigger and bigger, you will get overwhelmed, you might not take any action at all because you're so scared and stress. You want to finish it but you can't even start, you feel like your mind will explode, sometimes you just want to numb the pain by taking alcohol or doing some things that will entertain you and forget your problems, activities like watching TV or going to the shopping mall which will only make your problem worse. Yeah, you may feel good for a while but that emotion won't last for so long, you will feel depressed again later. And speaking of depression... this is what you will feel if you will not face the pain now and do something about it, depression will eat your mind, you will become a little bit crazy or maybe totally crazy.

So whatever it is that you need to do... do it even if it is painful, do it now because you will not regret it later, you will become totally happy and fulfilled. Just like in pursuing your dreams, it is painful, it is very hard to start. But once you see that you are becoming successful little by little, you will think that your decision is right. You will be very happy for yourself that you face the pain and you didn't shy away from it.

Facing pain is facing life. Life is painful, no matter how hard you deny it and pretend that everything is alright... there will be times when you will feel a lot of pain. Sometimes you don't even know where it is coming from. Sometimes you just got sad or depress for no reason. It is what it is, this is life, it is painful and sometimes you don't even know what to do. But all you got to do is do what you have to do, do it even if it hurts, do it even if you feel so heavy and unmotivated. If you want to feel life... you should face the pain because it will give you the emotions that you needed to maintain your sanity.

FAILING MEANS ENTERING THE FLOW OF SUCCESS

If you've been rejected for so many times, just keep on trying because it doesn't matter how many times you fail, what matters is how you feel. If you still feel motivated after failing for a lot of times, you will become successful in just a matter of time. Because if you keep on failing and trying, it means you're on the flow of success. Being successful is not all about winning and achieving money, trophies, houses, cars, plaque of appreciation etc. If you wanted to become successful, you also need to enjoy failing. Because the path of success is also filled with failures, disappointments, depression, stress and any other negative emotions. But if you can keep that faith back and remain motivated for a very long time... you already won.

So if you are failing constantly, it only means you are inline with success, it means success is very close to you. Only if you still have a positive attitude and you are still doing something to keep growing everyday.

So never get tired of failing, never get tired of being rejected. Just keep pushing because if it is really hard, it means you are very close to winning, it means the doors will open in just a matter of time.

You can never be a loser forever if you keep trying, you will never stay at the bottom forever if you are really grinding. And when I say grinding, it means real real hardwork, not just a fake work that is main intention is to impress everyone. You don't need to tell everyone that you are working hard, you don't need to impress them and get sympathy from them.

Keep failing and failing and treat it as nothing. It can't harm you, it can't destroy your confidence. All the failing does is make you stronger and smarter. Never get discouraged if you are failing because it means success is just around the corner, it is just playing hard to get. You will be able to conquer it in just a matter of time.

If you are not failing it means you are not even trying, it means you are playing safe or maybe not playing at all. It means you are stagnant and you are not doing anything. Those people who never fail never do anything. They are completely obsolete and will never achieve anything in this world.

Don't be like other people who gets tired easily after failing a couple of times. Look where they are now... they are still in the same position, they never made any significant change in their lives. That is what will happen to you if you are afraid of failing... you will never get anything.

Failure is the only door to success, if you fail now it means you will win tomorrow. Keep that in mind, enjoy failing and just laugh at it when it happens because the only way to not get hard on yourself is to take it easy, treat failure as an ordinary event and keep in mind that it is the most important ingredient to success.

IT'S OK OF YOU'RE JUST A ONE DIMENSIONAL OR ONE TRICK PONY

There is nothing wrong if you're not versatile enough or you only know one thing. There is nothing wrong if you're too focused on a single thing and everything you know is all about it. You may not do a lot of things, you may not fit well with other things but if that one knowledge of yours is too deep... you will become unstoppable, they will not be able to deny you.

It's all about mastering one thing and trying to become the best if not the greatest at it. If you can bring the only skill you have to another level then you will become very successful. It is not all about knowing a lot of things, it is about mastering one thing and making it as your source of living, you can even make it as a source of income. People will hire you, people will get interested at your skill because you're too good at it.  They know you can become a very strong help for them.

For example, you love numbers but you only love stats, you can become a very good statistician, just focus on it and people will hire you, people will try to get you for their team because you're an expert.

Another example is in mixed martial arts, if you only knew wrestling but you're really good at it, if you're wrestling skill is out of this world level then you can dominate your opponents, you can even become the champion because you're too good at it and they can't find ways how to stop you. The funny thing is they already knew what you're going to do but because you're skill is to deep.. they don't know how to slow you down, they don't know how to neutralize your will.

And when you're too good in one thing, it will never be hard to learn some other things. Because you already experienced the feeling of greatness, you already knew the process of becoming great so learning some other things will not be difficult anymore because you already have the habits of working in your craft and making it a world class level.

It is better to master one thing than to become a little bit skilled in everything. You can know a lot but if you're knowledge about those things is not deep... you will never go far. You will just be an accessory to someone's success. They will just use you if your skills are fit with their small projects, they can easily remove you if they don't need you anymore. But if you're too good in one thing... you can build your own empire, you can become big because you have a one of a kind skill that cannot be seen anywhere. People will find you, people will become very interested at you because you're so unique, you're like a gem that is very hard to find.

So keep making your favorite skill deep, keep honing it and improving it everyday because one day it is going to make you shine.

THE ONLY MOTIVATION IS TO ENJOY

The only motivation you need to produce is how to enjoy what you are doing at the moment. If you can simply enjoy the very first step up to the last then you will never have a problem in doing something.

Taking action is very hard because you are always looking at the finish line, you are always looking at the clock. You are checking how many hours did you work already, you are checking how many hours left before you finish. In other words, your focus is not to enjoy but to reach the finish line. It is a bad approach because if you are always looking to finish, it simply means you are not enjoying what you are doing. You are always rushing and it is the fastest way to fail, it is the fastest way to quit.

You should always find the motivation to enjoy in anything that you do... even if the activity sucks and really hard, you have to enjoy every step of it or else... you will not succeed. That is the trick in life... enjoy every movement, even if you are sick... you have to enjoy drinking the medicine and having rest.

You have to enjoy every movement of your body, you have to enjoy ever second. Even being tired, you have to enjoy it. That is the secret of success... being excited and just simply enjoying the process.

If you will earn how to enjoy everything,  the hard will become easy and the easy will become effortless. Your stress will diminish and you will begin to see the real beauty of life.

At first it is hard, especially if you don't like what you are doing. But even if you are passionate about something... sometimes you will still find yourself getting bored at it. So if you can learn how to adjust your attitude towards any kind of work... life will become easier for you. There will be no task that you can finish.

Remember that you can't control everything but you can control your mind and feelings about something. so if you can just simply adjust yours state and be very patient at everything... the impossible will become possible to you.

You think that it is hard to enjoy a hard task or a boring thing but it is easy. Just simply feel your body, feel the movement of your hands, learn to breathe when things are going hard, as simple as that. You will learn later that it is not that hard, you are just putting some pressure to yourself which is not needed.

Just simply being in the moment, forgetting the future and not looking at the clock will make you enjoy everything. It will make you relaxed and it will make you able to think clearly. Don't try to escape any situation, don't try to fast forward time. Enjoy taking actions, don't be scared to get tired, don't be scared to finish imperfectly, just be yourself. Try to push yourself a little bit and always give your best shot.

WHY ARE YOU SCARED TO ELIMINATE THE TOXIC PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE

Your life hasn't got better because you have a lot of toxic people in your life. I don't know if you are just pretending that you don't have one or maybe you already accepted that you can't stay away from those people. Maybe you are pretending that you feel good around them, maybe you think that your life will be better with them. I don't know, or maybe you're really scared and you can't live your life according to your rules. Look at your life and see the people around you because those people have a big contribution to your life, they can pull you down or push you up. So if your life is not doing well right now, it only means there are some people who are really toxic to your life and you must get rid of them right now if you want to have a better life. Have no conscience in kicking them out of your life because we are talking about your life here, their life doesn't matter. They can cry about it but at the end of the day, it is your happiness that matters that theirs.

1. You think they are the only ones best for you.  You think you cannot find a replacement to them that is why even if they are treating you bad, bullying you and mocking you... you still can't afford to lose them. You think that you can't find another people that will treat you better. You think that they are destined to become your friends or relatives forever. You think that other people will not treat you better than how they treat you.

2. You think they are right. Even if they are doing wrong, you still think that they are right and you are wrong. You feel that you cannot make your own decision so your way of thinking is always influenced or manipulated by them.

3. You think other people were on their side. You think that majority of people agrees with them and that is why you are so scared to be labelled as the one who is wrong. You don't want to be against them because you don't want to look bad to other people.

4. You are dependent from them. You need something from them, you need their support or help so even if they are treating you bad... you can't leave them. You think that your life depends on them.

5. You don't believe in yourself. You think that you can't become successful without the help of toxic people in your circle. You simply don't have the confidence to live your life your way. You are so scared to try something new, you are so scared to let go. You lost confidence in yourself because they are treating you bad. You believe them more than you believe yourself.

6. You think that they will change one day. You are still hoping that one day they will treat you right, you give them unlimited chance. You think that one day they will realize your value and you needed to be treated right. You are longing for their respect that is why you can't move on and let them go.

7. You're afraid to be alone. You will be alone for a very short time, you will find the real people that is right for you so don't be afraid to be alone now and leave them. If you love yourself and you don't let people disrespect you then people will respect you. So endure being alone now if all of your so called "friends" are just bullying you and using you, leave them and don't let them enter your world again. The right people are waiting for you and you will be able to locate them if you will leave the wrong people. And sometimes you don't even need to look for them because they will come naturally.

8. They owe you something. You are afraid to eliminate some people in your life because they owe you something like money or important things. I am very sure they have no interest in returning back what is your so you need to forget those things. Forget those things and forget those toxic people too. They are having power over you because you are still hoping that you can get back what they borrow from you. Remember that toxic people are toxic and they don't have considerations so there is no chance that you will get back what is yours if you will not force them.

9. You owe them something. You can't let them free because you owe them something, maybe they give you a favor from the past or maybe you are the one who borrows money from them and that is why you can't reject them, you think that without them your situation now is uglier. You think that they improve your life in some ways.

10. You're easy to please. You forgive them easily, if they do something bad to you, they will just compliment you fakely and you will smile right away, you will become friends with them again. You are too soft, you are so easy to please.

ENJOY WHERE YOU ARE NOW

The best place is where you are right now, not paris, not somewhere in europe, not on a beach, not on the top of the mountain. The best place is where you are sitting or standing right now, there is no other place better than were you at right now because you can do anything that you wanted to do at the moment.

But yet you take it for granted, you always wanted to go somewhere else, you wanted to go to other places that you think will make you happy, you never know that you can be happy at the moment. If you are sitting in your car and there is too much traffic, don't think about going home so fast, that kind of approach is what makes the stress even stronger. You can enjoy the music in your car, look for different commercial billboards, look for other cars beside you. Maybe it sounds a little boring but it is true that you can be happy where you are if you will only own your mind and stop making traffic a big deal. You can always appreciate the place where you at, it is easy if you will just be patient and stop looking to make time fast.

If you are in your classroom and the professor is mean, don't ever think of going to some other place, just sit on your chair because it is the best place to become happy. Just endure the meanness of your professor, just be happy that you might be able to learn something. Even if he is embarrassing you, you can have fun with it. Show him that you are not affected and that is not a big deal, you will see that he will somehow get affected too with your behavior.

If you are at your work and the time is so slow, don't ever think of going home so fast, don't ever think of going to a bar and drinking some beer. You are wasting your time if you are not appreciating where you at right now because you can never bring back those time again. The time that you become stressed is still a part of your life, it is either you savor it or you treat it like a worse part of your life. It is all in your mind, if you can't enjoy where you at right now... you can never enjoy too if you are at other places, even if those places are comfortable, you can never fully enjoy it because you are always thinking about some other things that you think will make you happier.

If you are eating your lunch and your drink is only water... enjoy it, be happy with that simple water. Don't think about drinking a cola or an expensive juice, that will only ruin your lunch. Enjoy your water and learn to appreciate it because without it... you might choke.

The reason why you can't enjoy your life is because you are always thinking about other places and other things. You want to change your situation right away, you don't want to embrace the emotions that you are feeling, you are always seeing scarcity in your life.

If you will just learn to accept your situation and be really happy about it... you can attract better situations in life. Stop planning for vacation, stop planning for treating yourself because you are suffering now. Those things will come naturally, don't get too hard on yourself and think that your goals are not yet happening, those things will come if you will enjoy the process, if you will just enjoy what is happening now because that is what life is all about... enjoying every second of your life and learning to be happy no matter where you are. It is a very good and effective trick to live your life to the fullest.

WAIT FOR YOUR TURN

You will be served, what is yours will come to you if you will just wait and be patient. And one more thing, you still need to work hard while waiting for your turn, because if you will just wait for it and do nothing... it will not come.

Don't cry like a lost dog looking for his mom if what you want is not yet coming to you. It is on its way, you just need to wait for a  little more time. What is yours is yours, nobody will steal it from you. Don't worry, stop being impatient, don't think about it too much because it will be yours in just a matter of time.

If you're not picked now in some kind of an audition or something, don't worry, don't feel bad because you will be picked tomorrow or next time. Just wait for your turn because you will have it, you just need to try and try again, get better each day and that's it. Your time will come, you will shine too and that is guaranteed.

Sometimes no matter how hard you try, you still can't get it, you still can't become successful. For unknown reasons, it happens, no one can explain it because it has been said that if you work hard then you will become successful. But sometimes you really need to wait for your turn while working hard, sometimes you just need to stay with the grind and be focused with your dreams without being impatient. It is what it is, if you will not become patient and if you stop what you are doing then nothing will happen to you. You will go back to zero, your momentum will die, your life will get worse. But if you stay with the hustle, if you stay with the process and patiently waiting for your turn then for sure your time will come, you will shine one day. All of the waiting and suffering will be worth it, you will get what you want, your dreams will come true.

So if you are not a star player right now, don't get jealous with other players. Your time will come, just wait for your turn, all you can do is focus on what you can control and be happy with your situation. If you can do something about it then do it but if all you can do is be better each day then just wait for your turn, you will become a star player one day, for sure it will come, no questions need to ask, no need to doubt yourself.

Waiting is a powerful thing, you may think that you are stuck in a mud but if you feel that you are improving, if you honestly believe in yourself that you are a better person than yesterday physically and mentally then there is no need to worry if you are going to become successful or not.

Yes sometimes it is really boring to wait and work especially if you are not seeing any significant progress but if you can just manage to make that belief alive or at least make it a little bit stronger than yesterday then for sure you will become successful one day. Success is just a matter of who will survive his own business even if it is almost dying. It is a matter of believing yourself even if there is no other reason to believe.

You never know, tomorrow or next week might be your turn so be patient and keep working hard. Your time will come, keep that faith alive.

BUILD YOURSELF NOT YOUR DREAMS

You think you are building your dreams huh? you think you are on your way of getting it and when things are not going well.. you will blame people, government, bad luck etc. etc. The truth is... if you are building your dreams then you are also building yourself. So if you are always complaining while you are traveling your journey then it means you will not get it. Because you become a different person while you are pursuing your dreams, you may improve or you may get worse while you are building your dreams. So if you are having a bad attitude while pursuing your dreams... it means you will fail, as simple as that.

Some people works hard even more while they are pursuing their dreams while some people gets lazy even more, they became impatient, they want results right away that is they they can't succeed.

So if you want to become successful... build yourself and not your dreams. Don't let your dreams build you into someone that is not capable of staying longer. Build yourself into something that will persevere until the end, build yourself into something that will do whatever it takes to win.

Because the reality is... it is the person that you transform into that matters. It is not the dream itself. Come to think of it, in the past, remember when you become successful at something... you become confident right? you are happy because you never think that you will become successful but you made it, you never imagine that you can do it too, you think that it is hard in the beginning but you made it. You will tell yourself that it is easy if you only have the proper mindset to do it.

So build yourself, have that mindset of winning, don't look for the prizes that you will get once you become successful. Look at yourself, study yourself and honestly make an assessment of yourself and admit what kind of a person you are now. If you're a bad person now with lazy habits then it means you are not becoming successful, as simple as that.

But if you are a better person than yesterday, even if the results were not showing yet then you already succeeded. Because you will get all of those things later once you keep getting better everyday, the process itself and the transformation is the real prize, not the houses, money or cars. It is what you've become that matters.

Build that determination, build that habits of winning, build that mindset of winning. Don't look for your dreams because it will not happen if you're not better than yesterday, focus on improvement and not on the destination. You know in yourself if you are doing well or not, you know in yourself if you are gaining something.

It will be very easy if you are focused on yourself, the proper pieces for your success will fall into its designated places naturally. You don't even need to force something to happen, something will happen if you keep on getting better each day.

8 BASIC STEPS ON HOW TO BUILD CONFIDENCE

Most people think that confidence is only for the chosen few. While some people are born with it already, there are some process or techniques that will help you to gain confidence. Like any other skills, confidence can be learned too, anyone can master it. All you need is patience, perseverance and the will to achieve it. Once you have that confidence you needed, your potential will be unlimited. You can have everything you want. 

1. Be the person who has the most number of tries. This will make you ruthless, this will make you a legend. Be the person who has the most number of tries. In anything that you are doing or pursuing... try as much as you can so that you will not be scared to fail again anymore. I will destroy your doubt and fears, of course you will fail a lot but those number of failures will make you feel invincible because it is not a big deal to you anymore if you fail, you will feel like you're just playing and you have nothing to lose anymore.

2. Fall in love with rejection. Rejection is painful but once you fall in love with it and you are not afraid of it anymore... you will never be afraid to ask for something, do something and get something. You are ok if you don't get it because it is not a big deal, it is like an ordinary situation that doesn't bother you. And that will give you so much confidence in the long run. Always remember that it is nothing. Rejection is normal so don't cry if you got rejected because that happening will only make you stronger than before.

3. Never look at someone as special nor one of a kind. You got intimidated with someone, you lose your confidence if you feel that someone special is around and he is such a huge presence. Well, the best thing to do is treat everyone as an ordinary human being, treat them as equal as you so you won't be conservative and you can still be yourself regardless of who is around. They're just human, you're just human so there is no big deal if someone who has a higher position than you is around. Even the mayor on your town... don't crumble when he is around. Always remember that you are special too, carry yourself like no one is above you and of course don't ever think that you're above everyone too, try to stay humble and just be yourself every second.

4. Be a workaholic. If you are a workaholic then you can become really good at something, and if you're good at something... that will give you a lot of confidence. You will feel that you have a purpose and you are contributing a lot to this world. Being a workaholic will make you avoid what other people are doing. Your own world will be built, you don't need to stop into other people's world because they are the ones who will go after you.

5. Forget the outcome. It's ok, regardless of what happens... it is always ok, forget the outcome and just keep doing your thing. Forget the results because there will always be people who will judge you even if you've done something perfectly. Just keep taking actions and enjoy every second of your life.

6. Just enjoy your emotions. Confident people are very good in faking their facial expressions. You think that they are always feeling good? no they are not. Sometimes they feel uncomfortable but what makes them special is they can always fake their facial expressions. They were able to enjoy their emotions even if it is not good. They were not in a hurry to feel good, they stay with their emotions even if it is really uncomfortable. So if you want to become really confident.. just enjoy your emotions, any kind of emotions from fear to doubt... just enjoy it and you will feel good later.

7. Don't be needy. If you are needy then you already destroyed your confidence from the very beginning. Confident people are so independent. They trust themselves, they will never ask for someone's help if they can do it by themselves. They will not ask for someone's attention because they know who they are and they don't need appreciation from other people. Being needy is the most unattractive trait of someone so if you want to always feel good... stop being needy and dependent.

8. Stop being a perfectionist. Just do it, have no conscience in doing it. Do it even if you suck, do it even if you feel like not doing it. Stop being a perfectionist because it will make you stiff, unloose and conservative. Just go all out, express yourself even if you are not perfect. Learn to let go and just produce something.