It's like choosing a passion, choosing a dream, choosing a destination and placing all of your energies on it. Whatever you can put on it... put it. Choose a bucket and put something there everyday. It's like investing in a piggy bank and feeding it some coins everyday until it becomes full.
TIME IS FAST
A lot of people can't fulfill their dreams because they think that it takes so long to get there, they think that it takes a million years to become successful. If you will just become patient while working hard... success is already guaranteed to you. Time is fast, if you are so busy and you really love what you're doing... you will forget about time. One year will feel like one month and one month will feel like one week, time is fast if you're enjoying and gaining a little bit progress everyday. If your goal will take 5 years... don't worry because you will not notice it if you're so much having fun. Time is very quick and if you will not use it the right way... you will miss a lot of opportunities.
EVERY LITTLE THING WILL ACCUMULATE IN THE END
No matter how small or big you put in your bucket... it will sum up in the end. Every action that you are doing will help you. At first you thought it is not working but the truth is it is. All you need to do is beat the frustration. Yes, it sucks and it feels bad if you are not seeing any progress in your work but you have to bring your faith back and make yourself believe that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Patience is the key. You should never think about quitting if you really want to become successful.
IT WORKS IN ANYTHING
May it be in business, sports, arts or any passion that you choose... once you put something in there everyday... you will become successful one day. It is just a matter of time before you become successful. Don't get tired of waiting, don't get tired of working. You need to be consistent and committed if you really want to win because sometimes you will feel that it takes forever to become successful. Anything that you can ever think of... put it in there. It doesn't matter if what you put can make a large impact or not, what matters is you never let the momentum die. Always keep the momentum alive, continue what you did yesterday and never stop even if it is holiday, never take a break or else... you will become lazy and you will think about quitting.
START NOW
Don't start tomorrow, don't start next week. Start now, start even if you feel so lazy and uncomfortable. The hint here is... once you feel uncomfortable.. that is the right time to start, that is the right time to grind. Don't act like you have a lot of time, time is running out, you better start now before it's too late.
Jun 12, 2017
YOU'RE NOT THE HOTTEST GUY IN THE WORLD
Don't get mad or feel sorry for yourself if a girl dumps you or rejected you... you're not the hottest guy in the world so don't ever feel that you're entitled to be love by any kind of woman in the world. You're just an ordinary guy that is aspiring to bang some chicks. Are you an artist? are you a millionaire? Don't ever feel bad if you've been rejected because that is normal. Don't lose your confidence, it is life... you will be rejected and you will also reject somebody.
Rejection is normal, there is nothing wrong with it. Even the hottest guy in the world has been rejected. Even Tom Cruise has been rejected from the past. What is the big deal about it? did you lost some money after getting rejected? did your nose got bigger? your life remain the same right? So why are you making rejection a big deal? why are you crying like a baby?
Rejection can only create emotion, and that emotion of course is negative. Yeah, it hurts but what can you do? You can never change an answer from anyone because it's their choice to reject you. Don't focus on what you can't control, focus on what you can control and that is your emotions and perspectives. Don't feel so bad if you've been rejected, don't dwell on it so much, stop acting like a diva that needs to be pampered. It is what it is, if they don't like you so be it.
HOW TO AVOID REJECTION?
You can't avoid rejection even if you're the most handsome guy or richest man in the world. The only thing you can do is treat it like it is nothing. If you can just laugh at being rejected then you will feel that you're not rejected. It is the emotion towards rejection that makes it look bad. Just give yourself a compliment that they let a big fish escape by not choosing you, just think that way so you will still feel good about yourself.
NEVER LET A REJECTION DESTROY YOUR CONFIDENCE
A lot of people suffers a depression after getting rejected. This is a weak kind of approach, you should never feel depressed after being rejected because it means that is not for you, it means something better is waiting for you and all you need to do is try again. Keep taking risks, keep asking for what you want and one day maybe next week or next month... you will become successful at anything that you ask for.
THE MORE YOU GET REJECTED THE MORE YOU WILL BECOME CONFIDENT
It is really true, it is all about the numbers. The more you get rejected, the more you will understand that it is not a big deal, sometimes you will even make it a game. If you get good at it... you will never be afraid to ask for what you want or need anymore, getting rejected will not bother you anymore. Rejection will make you stronger and tougher if you keep absorbing it.
A lot of people were shy before, a lot of people can't express themselves before but the power of rejection makes them tough, it makes them a better and confident person because they keep on experiencing it.
Rejection is normal, there is nothing wrong with it. Even the hottest guy in the world has been rejected. Even Tom Cruise has been rejected from the past. What is the big deal about it? did you lost some money after getting rejected? did your nose got bigger? your life remain the same right? So why are you making rejection a big deal? why are you crying like a baby?
Rejection can only create emotion, and that emotion of course is negative. Yeah, it hurts but what can you do? You can never change an answer from anyone because it's their choice to reject you. Don't focus on what you can't control, focus on what you can control and that is your emotions and perspectives. Don't feel so bad if you've been rejected, don't dwell on it so much, stop acting like a diva that needs to be pampered. It is what it is, if they don't like you so be it.
HOW TO AVOID REJECTION?
You can't avoid rejection even if you're the most handsome guy or richest man in the world. The only thing you can do is treat it like it is nothing. If you can just laugh at being rejected then you will feel that you're not rejected. It is the emotion towards rejection that makes it look bad. Just give yourself a compliment that they let a big fish escape by not choosing you, just think that way so you will still feel good about yourself.
NEVER LET A REJECTION DESTROY YOUR CONFIDENCE
A lot of people suffers a depression after getting rejected. This is a weak kind of approach, you should never feel depressed after being rejected because it means that is not for you, it means something better is waiting for you and all you need to do is try again. Keep taking risks, keep asking for what you want and one day maybe next week or next month... you will become successful at anything that you ask for.
THE MORE YOU GET REJECTED THE MORE YOU WILL BECOME CONFIDENT
It is really true, it is all about the numbers. The more you get rejected, the more you will understand that it is not a big deal, sometimes you will even make it a game. If you get good at it... you will never be afraid to ask for what you want or need anymore, getting rejected will not bother you anymore. Rejection will make you stronger and tougher if you keep absorbing it.
A lot of people were shy before, a lot of people can't express themselves before but the power of rejection makes them tough, it makes them a better and confident person because they keep on experiencing it.
Jun 11, 2017
WHEN YOU CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE, IT MEANS SOMETHING GREAT IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN
Sometimes you need to feel a lot of pain, depression, frustration and stress in order to become successful. I don't know why but it seems like the universe is always testing you, it is testing you if you are strong enough not to give up. It is testing you if you really want to win and when it sees that you can't take it anymore then that is the only time that it will give you what you want. But it is ok, it is more fun if you will experience a lot of adversity before you win. A victory is sweeter if it is harder to get.
So be aware if you wanted to give up, if you wanted to quit. When you feel that you can't move anymore and you wanted to go back... just slow down, rest if you must then keep going. If life is getting harder and harder for you... it means success is almost there. It means something good is about to happen.
Look at those people who persevere, when they were almost defeated that is the time when help comes, that is the time when they were able to figure out what to do to win in life. If it looks really impossible, it means the victory is very near, you will make it so keep going and fighting.
The beauty of life is it is very tricky. Sometimes you think it is already over, sometimes you think you can't make a come back but suddenly... some kind of a miracle will happen. You will be able to find a way to win, you will be able to find the missing piece to your puzzle.
So keep working even if you're suffering. Just find a way how to extend your journey, you can always stay in the game. It's all about focusing one step at a time, one breathe at a time. Find a thought that will avoid you from quitting.
WINNERS WILL STAY IN THE GAME NO MATTER WHAT. Miracles always happen in the end, there is no such thing as a miracle in the beginning. So if you want to see miracle and a great turn around... you should never quit. Just move slow if needed, what matters is you are still progressing, what matters is you're still alive and your will to win is still there. Do everything you can to avoid from quitting. Think about the happy thoughts, entertain thoughts that will entertain you and will make you a little bit stronger. There is no winner that quit so if you want to win, if you want to become successful.... don't ever quit.
Look at the greatest stories of success... all of them were paired with adversity. There is no such thing as a great story that has no pain nor suffering. A journey that is full of challenges will produce a very sweet victory.
Just focus on what you can do, fill your mind with hope and positive thoughts. Your strength will never ran out, your body will not be depleted. It is your mind that is wanting you to quit so you must find a way how to silence the voices in your head that is telling you to quit.
So be aware if you wanted to give up, if you wanted to quit. When you feel that you can't move anymore and you wanted to go back... just slow down, rest if you must then keep going. If life is getting harder and harder for you... it means success is almost there. It means something good is about to happen.
Look at those people who persevere, when they were almost defeated that is the time when help comes, that is the time when they were able to figure out what to do to win in life. If it looks really impossible, it means the victory is very near, you will make it so keep going and fighting.
The beauty of life is it is very tricky. Sometimes you think it is already over, sometimes you think you can't make a come back but suddenly... some kind of a miracle will happen. You will be able to find a way to win, you will be able to find the missing piece to your puzzle.
So keep working even if you're suffering. Just find a way how to extend your journey, you can always stay in the game. It's all about focusing one step at a time, one breathe at a time. Find a thought that will avoid you from quitting.
WINNERS WILL STAY IN THE GAME NO MATTER WHAT. Miracles always happen in the end, there is no such thing as a miracle in the beginning. So if you want to see miracle and a great turn around... you should never quit. Just move slow if needed, what matters is you are still progressing, what matters is you're still alive and your will to win is still there. Do everything you can to avoid from quitting. Think about the happy thoughts, entertain thoughts that will entertain you and will make you a little bit stronger. There is no winner that quit so if you want to win, if you want to become successful.... don't ever quit.
Look at the greatest stories of success... all of them were paired with adversity. There is no such thing as a great story that has no pain nor suffering. A journey that is full of challenges will produce a very sweet victory.
Just focus on what you can do, fill your mind with hope and positive thoughts. Your strength will never ran out, your body will not be depleted. It is your mind that is wanting you to quit so you must find a way how to silence the voices in your head that is telling you to quit.
JUST DON'T BE AFRAID TO DO WORK AND YOU WILL BE ALRIGHT
A lot of people were having a miserable life because they were afraid to do work. They were making an excuse that life is so difficult but if you have a mindset that life is simple and all you need is to take actions then you will be fine. You will be able to have a good life, surpass all the challenges and experience a lot of finer things in life.
MOVING IS BETTER THAN BEING STAGNANT LIKE A STATUE
Your're not a statue, the purpose of your different body parts is to move. You will become happier, livelier, fulfilled if you move. Your problems will evaporate if you move. Your worries will go away if you move, in other words... you will be alright if you're simply willing to use your body.
The best thing about moving is you will just use a little portion of your brain. You don't have to think a lot anymore once you have the momentum. You will be less stressed if you are moving because you know that there is something good happening. Action is the best solution, thinking will only make your problems bigger. Making positive actions will erase all your fears.
YOU HAVE NO JOB? JUST MOVE
Just walk and pass your resume to different companies and you will have a job. Yes, you have to wait for some time but the point here is you are moving, you have a great momentum going. The job will come to you if you don't stop looking for it. The reason why a lot of people has no job is because they don't take actions consistently. Just because you pass 2 resumes for different companies doesn't mean you can afford to stop. You still need to look for a job until you have one. The solution for unemployment is not education or good government... it is forcing the people to move and look for a job.
THERE IS SOMETHING WAITING FOR YOU IF YOU MOVE.
Don't make an excuse that you are doing your best yet you can't get results, that was a big lie. If you're really moving, if you're really working then you should have results even if it is just little. There is always something waiting for you, there is a result waiting for you, all you need to do is keep working until it come to you.
BAD HEALTH? NO PROBLEM IF YOU ARE WILLING TO WORK
Just run, exercise, do the process that will make you stronger, as simple as that. Yeah, it is not easy but the results are sure to happen if you take actions, how lovely was that. A lot of people were having health problems because they are so lazy to work on themselves, they will blame a lot of things and make a lot of excuses and that is why they are having a difficulty in dealing with their health problems. You can solve any health problem if you are willing to work on it.
Life is very simple if you will just work. If you're hungry then just eat. If you're sick then just make your body healthy. It is all about work, you can't escape work if you want to have a good life. Working will take away your fears, moving will solve any problems in your life. You don't have to worry anymore if you are willing to work.
MOVING IS BETTER THAN BEING STAGNANT LIKE A STATUE
Your're not a statue, the purpose of your different body parts is to move. You will become happier, livelier, fulfilled if you move. Your problems will evaporate if you move. Your worries will go away if you move, in other words... you will be alright if you're simply willing to use your body.
The best thing about moving is you will just use a little portion of your brain. You don't have to think a lot anymore once you have the momentum. You will be less stressed if you are moving because you know that there is something good happening. Action is the best solution, thinking will only make your problems bigger. Making positive actions will erase all your fears.
YOU HAVE NO JOB? JUST MOVE
Just walk and pass your resume to different companies and you will have a job. Yes, you have to wait for some time but the point here is you are moving, you have a great momentum going. The job will come to you if you don't stop looking for it. The reason why a lot of people has no job is because they don't take actions consistently. Just because you pass 2 resumes for different companies doesn't mean you can afford to stop. You still need to look for a job until you have one. The solution for unemployment is not education or good government... it is forcing the people to move and look for a job.
THERE IS SOMETHING WAITING FOR YOU IF YOU MOVE.
Don't make an excuse that you are doing your best yet you can't get results, that was a big lie. If you're really moving, if you're really working then you should have results even if it is just little. There is always something waiting for you, there is a result waiting for you, all you need to do is keep working until it come to you.
BAD HEALTH? NO PROBLEM IF YOU ARE WILLING TO WORK
Just run, exercise, do the process that will make you stronger, as simple as that. Yeah, it is not easy but the results are sure to happen if you take actions, how lovely was that. A lot of people were having health problems because they are so lazy to work on themselves, they will blame a lot of things and make a lot of excuses and that is why they are having a difficulty in dealing with their health problems. You can solve any health problem if you are willing to work on it.
Life is very simple if you will just work. If you're hungry then just eat. If you're sick then just make your body healthy. It is all about work, you can't escape work if you want to have a good life. Working will take away your fears, moving will solve any problems in your life. You don't have to worry anymore if you are willing to work.
17 EFFECTIVE WAYS ON HOW TO MAKE YOURSELF FREE
Freedom is what everyone wants but they can't have it because they are making their lives complicated. They are making the word "freedom" elusive because of their daily activities and mindset. Being free is easy, you just need to make some basic adjustments to your life, change your approach and do what really makes you happy. Stop looking outside of yourself and keep being free.
1. Stay away from perfection. If you're a perfectionist... the tendency is you will not progress as fast as you can. Sometimes you will be even stuck in a mud. If you're trying to control everything then it means you already lost your freedom. Accept that you can never achieve perfection but still give your best. Don't dwell on small things that doesn't even matter. Don't sweat the small stuff, what you need is progress and freedom so if you are giving stress to yourself... you are not celebrating your freedom at all.
2. Forget the result. Just keep moving, that is the key to freedom. Forget the result, forget being phenomenal, what matters is you give your best and everything you got. Never mind if they will praise you or not, what matters is you do it your way and you let yourself make the important decisions. It's the journey not the destination, if you will keep on thinking about what will happen... you already jailed yourself with that negative thought. You will not become loose, you will always be cautious of what might happen. In other words, you are so conservative... you didn't give yourself the right amount of freedom you deserve.
3. Stop comparing yourself to others. If you will always look at other people's achievements, looks, capabilities, success etc.... you will never feel good about yourself. You will never feel free, you will base your life on other people's lives and that is a crazy thing to do because it will diminish your happiness. If you really want to experience real freedom... just be yourself and celebrate who you are and what you have.
4. Don't think about the things that are very hard to get. There is nothing wrong with dreaming about big things but if you can't have it yet at the moment because you're not yet ready... don't feel bad, don't get so attached with your dreams that are not happening. It will happen in the right time, just keep doing what you do best and let the other things take care of itself. If it is for you then it will come to you, no need to worry so much if you are not making any progress at all.
5. Just give your best everyday. If you give your best you will have no regrets. Don't think about anything else, just give your best. If your purpose is to give your best then you will have freedom, you will be a single minded person, you will have direction and blue prints. It doesn't matter what you do, in anything that you do... give your best and you will feel free.
6. Minimize procrastination. If you're a procrastinator then you will feel heavy, you will feel attached, you will feel incomplete and lacking of something. Your mind is stressed, you feel like you can't do something. Having those feelings means you are not free, you are jailed in your own prison. So if you want to feel light and free... do something, stay active, do what you needed to do. Start now and finish fast.
7. Stay away from people that are bringing you down. People that are parasites, backstabbers and energy suckers are your downers. It will make you feel bad, you will feel incapable and not worthy, the way they treat you will destroy your confidence to make decisions and do something great. If you want to feel free more... choose the right people in your circle, make sure they are making you feel better all the time.
8. Just think about what is happening now. Being in the moment will make you free, your worries about future will go away. You will have more fun in life, you will enjoy every second. Don't think about what might happen later or tomorrow. What will happen will happen, don't control the circumstances. All you can do is be happy with what is happening, if you can't be happy then just wait for it to pass by but don't ever wish for the time to become faster because that will give you stress. Real freedom is living every second and not wanting to escape from it.
9. Start patronizing your own pattern. Follow your own path and instincts. Just because someone is doing good then you will follow what he's been doing. If you don't like the patterns of others then don't do it. Freedom is patronizing your own skills, ideas, patterns to become successful. You don't necessarily need to follow others even if they are doing better than you. If you follow your own path then it is the right path, your situation will become better in the long run if you stick with it.
10. Be happy if someone is succeeding. If you're jealous with other people's success then it means you're not free. You don't believe in yourself, you don't believe that you're also going to succeed. Jealous people are jailed by their own negativity. They can't become happy because they always envy others, their focus is on the lack and not on the possibility that they too can become successful. If you can't be happy with other people succeeding then just ignore them and do your own thing. Envy will take away your freedom forever if you let it control you.
11. Laugh at your critics. Another one best solution to become free is just laugh at your critics and haters. Don't let them bother you. Dwelling on them and fighting back will just make you feel bad. If you give them some attention then it means you have something to prove and that will take away your freedom, you will become scared to take risks and be yourself because you are always thinking that someone is watching you.
12. Just play. If you will learn that life is just a game and you should only have fun every second then everything will be easy for you. Don't worry about winning or losing, what matters is you have fun with it and it makes you feel good. Always think that you're just playing and there is no other meaning behind it. Play it right, have fun, don't entertain any pressure.
13. Remember that it is ok. Whatever happens, always keep in mind that everything is ok, everything will be alright. You will not die, you will not evaporate or something. To become free, you should have a mindset of nothing to lose. Take away the idea that you have something to keep. Remember that it is ok and you will always be ok no matter what.
14. Don't make money as your only happiness. Don't chase money, let it come to you but don't chase it. Chasing money will only take away your freedom because you will be attached with it. You will be so very busy getting it, you will feel bad if you don't earn a lot. It is ok to strive to become rich but never allow money to become your boss.
15. Stop impressing people. Stop striving to look good to other people because that will stop you from being you. You want to impress them so you will do things that are not in your vicinity. Impressing people will only build the fakeness in you. You will have a hard time living your life because you are always doing something ridiculous just to get their attention.
16, Be yourself no matter what. All you can do is be yourself, be yourself no matter even if they are not liking what you're doing. If you will live according to their impressions then you will lose your identity, you will feel that you don't have the freedom to do anything that you want to do.
17. Stop thinking too much. Just let go, stop thinking and you're already free. Freedom is just a state of mind, if you can just go with the flow and stop thinking about the next series of event then you're already free. Just live your life and don't dwell on small things that doesn't even matter. Overthinking will only give you stress.
1. Stay away from perfection. If you're a perfectionist... the tendency is you will not progress as fast as you can. Sometimes you will be even stuck in a mud. If you're trying to control everything then it means you already lost your freedom. Accept that you can never achieve perfection but still give your best. Don't dwell on small things that doesn't even matter. Don't sweat the small stuff, what you need is progress and freedom so if you are giving stress to yourself... you are not celebrating your freedom at all.
2. Forget the result. Just keep moving, that is the key to freedom. Forget the result, forget being phenomenal, what matters is you give your best and everything you got. Never mind if they will praise you or not, what matters is you do it your way and you let yourself make the important decisions. It's the journey not the destination, if you will keep on thinking about what will happen... you already jailed yourself with that negative thought. You will not become loose, you will always be cautious of what might happen. In other words, you are so conservative... you didn't give yourself the right amount of freedom you deserve.
3. Stop comparing yourself to others. If you will always look at other people's achievements, looks, capabilities, success etc.... you will never feel good about yourself. You will never feel free, you will base your life on other people's lives and that is a crazy thing to do because it will diminish your happiness. If you really want to experience real freedom... just be yourself and celebrate who you are and what you have.
4. Don't think about the things that are very hard to get. There is nothing wrong with dreaming about big things but if you can't have it yet at the moment because you're not yet ready... don't feel bad, don't get so attached with your dreams that are not happening. It will happen in the right time, just keep doing what you do best and let the other things take care of itself. If it is for you then it will come to you, no need to worry so much if you are not making any progress at all.
5. Just give your best everyday. If you give your best you will have no regrets. Don't think about anything else, just give your best. If your purpose is to give your best then you will have freedom, you will be a single minded person, you will have direction and blue prints. It doesn't matter what you do, in anything that you do... give your best and you will feel free.
6. Minimize procrastination. If you're a procrastinator then you will feel heavy, you will feel attached, you will feel incomplete and lacking of something. Your mind is stressed, you feel like you can't do something. Having those feelings means you are not free, you are jailed in your own prison. So if you want to feel light and free... do something, stay active, do what you needed to do. Start now and finish fast.
7. Stay away from people that are bringing you down. People that are parasites, backstabbers and energy suckers are your downers. It will make you feel bad, you will feel incapable and not worthy, the way they treat you will destroy your confidence to make decisions and do something great. If you want to feel free more... choose the right people in your circle, make sure they are making you feel better all the time.
8. Just think about what is happening now. Being in the moment will make you free, your worries about future will go away. You will have more fun in life, you will enjoy every second. Don't think about what might happen later or tomorrow. What will happen will happen, don't control the circumstances. All you can do is be happy with what is happening, if you can't be happy then just wait for it to pass by but don't ever wish for the time to become faster because that will give you stress. Real freedom is living every second and not wanting to escape from it.
9. Start patronizing your own pattern. Follow your own path and instincts. Just because someone is doing good then you will follow what he's been doing. If you don't like the patterns of others then don't do it. Freedom is patronizing your own skills, ideas, patterns to become successful. You don't necessarily need to follow others even if they are doing better than you. If you follow your own path then it is the right path, your situation will become better in the long run if you stick with it.
10. Be happy if someone is succeeding. If you're jealous with other people's success then it means you're not free. You don't believe in yourself, you don't believe that you're also going to succeed. Jealous people are jailed by their own negativity. They can't become happy because they always envy others, their focus is on the lack and not on the possibility that they too can become successful. If you can't be happy with other people succeeding then just ignore them and do your own thing. Envy will take away your freedom forever if you let it control you.
11. Laugh at your critics. Another one best solution to become free is just laugh at your critics and haters. Don't let them bother you. Dwelling on them and fighting back will just make you feel bad. If you give them some attention then it means you have something to prove and that will take away your freedom, you will become scared to take risks and be yourself because you are always thinking that someone is watching you.
12. Just play. If you will learn that life is just a game and you should only have fun every second then everything will be easy for you. Don't worry about winning or losing, what matters is you have fun with it and it makes you feel good. Always think that you're just playing and there is no other meaning behind it. Play it right, have fun, don't entertain any pressure.
13. Remember that it is ok. Whatever happens, always keep in mind that everything is ok, everything will be alright. You will not die, you will not evaporate or something. To become free, you should have a mindset of nothing to lose. Take away the idea that you have something to keep. Remember that it is ok and you will always be ok no matter what.
14. Don't make money as your only happiness. Don't chase money, let it come to you but don't chase it. Chasing money will only take away your freedom because you will be attached with it. You will be so very busy getting it, you will feel bad if you don't earn a lot. It is ok to strive to become rich but never allow money to become your boss.
15. Stop impressing people. Stop striving to look good to other people because that will stop you from being you. You want to impress them so you will do things that are not in your vicinity. Impressing people will only build the fakeness in you. You will have a hard time living your life because you are always doing something ridiculous just to get their attention.
16, Be yourself no matter what. All you can do is be yourself, be yourself no matter even if they are not liking what you're doing. If you will live according to their impressions then you will lose your identity, you will feel that you don't have the freedom to do anything that you want to do.
17. Stop thinking too much. Just let go, stop thinking and you're already free. Freedom is just a state of mind, if you can just go with the flow and stop thinking about the next series of event then you're already free. Just live your life and don't dwell on small things that doesn't even matter. Overthinking will only give you stress.
Jun 10, 2017
LEARN TO LOVE THE SIMPLEST THINGS
It's easy to become successful, just learn to love the simplest things. Success is just a state of mind, it has nothing to do with money, fame, cars, houses, friends, clothes or even achievements. If you can learn how to love the simplest things then you will be alright, you will never feel envy again, you will never feel the scarcity again, you will never feel incomplete. It feels like your life is perfect and you don't need anything else other than your life.
It's all about conditioning your mind to appreciate what you have, it's ok to ask for more and work for more but the most important thing is to love what you have at the moment and never feel that there is something that is lacking in your life. If you don't have it then work for it but if you really can't have it then don't ever feel bad about it.
Super rich people can no longer the simplicity of life, they always compare, they wanted to be the best, they wanted to look super rich and famous and that is why they can't find the true happiness. The truth is... you can still become happy even if you're just living in a simple house. There are even some people who live in the street who are happier than rich people. It only means that happiness comes from appreciation and simplicity. Happiness and success is just a state of mind. This kind of approach will only take place into your life if you will not compare yourself to others. If you will not watch other people's lives then you will be alright, you will be happy in what you're doing... as simple as that.
Learn to love your small house, your simple car, your simple knowledge, your small money. Learn to love the simplest things in your life because if you can't appreciate the simplest things in your life then how come you will be able to appreciate the big things in your life?
Some people would love to have what you have, some people are dying to have what you have so if you are bitching about your life and not appreciating it... you're just wasting your life.
Even if your food is not delicious... learn to love it. Even if your business is not successful... love it. Even if your life is not perfect... learn to love it. The truth is you can choose what to love no matter if it is successful or not. Sometimes loving is all you can do, you need to love every piece of your life so you can experience another new chapter of you life. Because if you will hate your life... you will be stuck, you will not be able to move on.
Simplicity is the key, simplicity is the name of the game. People wants to become rich because they want to be better than other people. And that is why if they can't get what they want... they feel broke and hurt, they feel unhappy.
If you will learn to love the simplest things then there will be less pressure on your side. You will experience more abundance. You will have no pressure to get bigger because it's alright with you if you only have small things.
It's all about conditioning your mind to appreciate what you have, it's ok to ask for more and work for more but the most important thing is to love what you have at the moment and never feel that there is something that is lacking in your life. If you don't have it then work for it but if you really can't have it then don't ever feel bad about it.
Super rich people can no longer the simplicity of life, they always compare, they wanted to be the best, they wanted to look super rich and famous and that is why they can't find the true happiness. The truth is... you can still become happy even if you're just living in a simple house. There are even some people who live in the street who are happier than rich people. It only means that happiness comes from appreciation and simplicity. Happiness and success is just a state of mind. This kind of approach will only take place into your life if you will not compare yourself to others. If you will not watch other people's lives then you will be alright, you will be happy in what you're doing... as simple as that.
Learn to love your small house, your simple car, your simple knowledge, your small money. Learn to love the simplest things in your life because if you can't appreciate the simplest things in your life then how come you will be able to appreciate the big things in your life?
Some people would love to have what you have, some people are dying to have what you have so if you are bitching about your life and not appreciating it... you're just wasting your life.
Even if your food is not delicious... learn to love it. Even if your business is not successful... love it. Even if your life is not perfect... learn to love it. The truth is you can choose what to love no matter if it is successful or not. Sometimes loving is all you can do, you need to love every piece of your life so you can experience another new chapter of you life. Because if you will hate your life... you will be stuck, you will not be able to move on.
Simplicity is the key, simplicity is the name of the game. People wants to become rich because they want to be better than other people. And that is why if they can't get what they want... they feel broke and hurt, they feel unhappy.
If you will learn to love the simplest things then there will be less pressure on your side. You will experience more abundance. You will have no pressure to get bigger because it's alright with you if you only have small things.
THE NEXT ONE IS THE ONE
Try again because the next one is the one. It is the opportunity you've been waiting for. It is the biggest break that you've been waiting for. This should be the mindset that you must practice to become successful. Keep trying, keep working, keep hoping. The next one is the one, and even if you didn't succeed from the next one, keep hoping for the other next one again. The next one will never end until you succeed. There is always another try, there is always another hope, your chances will never ran out so don't lose hope, don't feel bad if you keep failing over and over again. You have unlimited chances and you must take advantage of it.
And what it is it to be afraid of if you know in yourself that you have another chance next time? if you're not afraid to take the whole process again then you will be fine. It's just a matter of moving again, doing the same thing again and hoping to win again. It's nothing new so don't ever feel bad if you have to take the same process again, or even if it is a new process... you will still move and exert effort so what is the big deal about it? you will just use your body and brain, you will just become tired... there is nothing uncomfortable with that, it is too normal.
So keep trying, keep working, keep grinding, hammer it till the bitter ends. The next one is the one, and even if it is not the one... you don't have any choice but to keep trying if you really want to win.
Only few people can try over and over again until they succeed and those are the most successful people in the world. So if you're not scared of failing then you will win for sure. It is just a matter of time before you win, if you need to fail a million times in order to become victorious... do it.
All of your failures will be erased once you win in the end, keep that in mind.
And what it is it to be afraid of if you know in yourself that you have another chance next time? if you're not afraid to take the whole process again then you will be fine. It's just a matter of moving again, doing the same thing again and hoping to win again. It's nothing new so don't ever feel bad if you have to take the same process again, or even if it is a new process... you will still move and exert effort so what is the big deal about it? you will just use your body and brain, you will just become tired... there is nothing uncomfortable with that, it is too normal.
So keep trying, keep working, keep grinding, hammer it till the bitter ends. The next one is the one, and even if it is not the one... you don't have any choice but to keep trying if you really want to win.
Only few people can try over and over again until they succeed and those are the most successful people in the world. So if you're not scared of failing then you will win for sure. It is just a matter of time before you win, if you need to fail a million times in order to become victorious... do it.
All of your failures will be erased once you win in the end, keep that in mind.
Jun 9, 2017
IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT THEN JUST GROW WITH IT
You have to accept that you will not like everything about your life. You have to accept that your life is not perfect and that you will see a lot of flaws on it. If there is something that you don't like in your life and there is nothing you can do to remove it... just grow with it, see something that will make you a better person from it, because there really is.
If you don't like your nagging mom because she's always making a sermon to you and shouting at you... what can you do? you can't remove her from your life because no matter what you do, even if you change the world... she is still your mom. All you can do is grow from it, just endure it. I am pretty sure there will always be words that comes from her that you can learn something. Yeah, her voice is hurtful to your ears but I am very sure you can still learn something from her sermon. Listen to her closely, grow from her words. But if all she does is shout at you and say hurtful words at you... you can still grow from it. Your patience can grow, your ability to ignore can grow stronger. Just don't listen to her and don't argue with her. Your ability to accept something will grow stronger if you don't argue with her.
If someone gives you a gift and you don't like it, you can still grow from it. Learn to appreciate it, learn to love it, learn to see the beauty of it and try to make it nicer than it was. You can grow from anything, all you need to do is feel lucky, feel blessed. Just make adjustments to your perspective and see anything that you don't like as an opportunity to grow.
Because the truth is... You're just focus on what you don't want that is why you easily become irritated and bothered. Don't be sensitive and emotional. It is What it is, you can't choose your life but you can do something about it.
Always remember that everything about your life is still part of your life. If you can't accept it then you will have a hard time living your life.
You can always find something good in any kind of situation. You just need to open your eyes and accept any ugly part of your life. Good or bad... accept it because if you will not... you will have a hard time dealing on some other things. It's all about controlling your emotions and looking for some positive parts of the bad part.
Because growing is your only option, no other else. If you can't grow with it then just ignore it and even if you just ignore it... you are still growing because you are becoming good in ignoring. And one more thing, don't ever underestimate the power of enjoying a bad situation, you can always have fun in something bad if you will just become a little creative in playing with your emotion.
If you don't like your nagging mom because she's always making a sermon to you and shouting at you... what can you do? you can't remove her from your life because no matter what you do, even if you change the world... she is still your mom. All you can do is grow from it, just endure it. I am pretty sure there will always be words that comes from her that you can learn something. Yeah, her voice is hurtful to your ears but I am very sure you can still learn something from her sermon. Listen to her closely, grow from her words. But if all she does is shout at you and say hurtful words at you... you can still grow from it. Your patience can grow, your ability to ignore can grow stronger. Just don't listen to her and don't argue with her. Your ability to accept something will grow stronger if you don't argue with her.
If someone gives you a gift and you don't like it, you can still grow from it. Learn to appreciate it, learn to love it, learn to see the beauty of it and try to make it nicer than it was. You can grow from anything, all you need to do is feel lucky, feel blessed. Just make adjustments to your perspective and see anything that you don't like as an opportunity to grow.
Because the truth is... You're just focus on what you don't want that is why you easily become irritated and bothered. Don't be sensitive and emotional. It is What it is, you can't choose your life but you can do something about it.
Always remember that everything about your life is still part of your life. If you can't accept it then you will have a hard time living your life.
You can always find something good in any kind of situation. You just need to open your eyes and accept any ugly part of your life. Good or bad... accept it because if you will not... you will have a hard time dealing on some other things. It's all about controlling your emotions and looking for some positive parts of the bad part.
Because growing is your only option, no other else. If you can't grow with it then just ignore it and even if you just ignore it... you are still growing because you are becoming good in ignoring. And one more thing, don't ever underestimate the power of enjoying a bad situation, you can always have fun in something bad if you will just become a little creative in playing with your emotion.
7 REASONS WHY ARE YOU WASTING YOUR TIME
Time and life are the only things in this world that you cannot replace nor get back. Once you lost it.. you can never get it back, the worse thing is you will have a lot of regrets in the end. So the best thing to do to live life is don't waste your time, use it to make your life even better. Use your time to make the people around you better. Use your time to experience a lot of great things in life.
Here are the reasons why you are wasting your time:
1. You think you are not wasting it. You are not aware that you are wasting your time, a lot of distractions distracts you easily. You are not focused, a simple post in facebook about the latest pregnant celebrity can catch your attention. A new useless video in you tube makes you leave the more important task that you're doing. You think that watching a 5 minute video, reading a short useless article will not affect your productivity?, that is what you think. It will become your habit, you are not aware that after repeating that time wasting activity over and over again... you are already wasting a lot of hours a day.
2. You think you can always make a come back. You think you're invincible, you think you can afford to waste time now because you can always do something good tomorrow, you think you can
give your best tomorrow or some other day so your decision is to just enjoy your day now and go hard some other day... which will never happen.
3. You are fooling yourself that you are in control. You think that your life will not be affected if you waste some time, you think that everything is under control and will always be in control. You're wrong my friend, wasting time is already an out of control behavior and if you will not do something to make an attitude adjustment... you're in big trouble, your life will become miserable one day. you think you are in control now but wait for a few more days or weeks and let's see if you're still in control.
4. You love short term pleasures. Checking emails, texting while working, chatting with fake friends, playing video games, watching replay movies. You love short term pleasures that gives long term pain. You are so addicted in useless activities that you think will not affect your productivity. It maybe short term pleasure, you may think that the time wasted is not that much but if you will calculate the time wasted for doing those activities... it's almost a million hours.
5. You're not scared to fail. You don't care if you fail in class, fail in business, fail in your work etc. You're not scared to fail that is why you waste a lot of time. If you're scared to fail then you will do the right thing or maybe you're still delusional that you can still succeed despite of wasting a lot of time.
6. You think you're still young. Your mindset is when you become older, let's say 30's or 40's then that is the only time you will take your life seriously. You think that it is ok to bum around, party, become lazy because that is what young people are suppose to do. But be careful because there are lot of young people before that became old now that wasn't able to change their lives. They were forever a bum because they don't have the habits to do the right things. If you will waste your time now then you will also waste it when you grow older, that habit of wasting time cannot be remove in your system.
7. Someone is supporting you. Your're so confident in not taking your life seriously because you knew someone will catch you, it is either your parents, martyr sister or sugar mama that will do the work for you. Beware because not all the time the support is always there, time will come and your support will no longer be able to support you. If I were you, I will take life seriously now because time will come and you will need to work for yourself.
Here are the reasons why you are wasting your time:
1. You think you are not wasting it. You are not aware that you are wasting your time, a lot of distractions distracts you easily. You are not focused, a simple post in facebook about the latest pregnant celebrity can catch your attention. A new useless video in you tube makes you leave the more important task that you're doing. You think that watching a 5 minute video, reading a short useless article will not affect your productivity?, that is what you think. It will become your habit, you are not aware that after repeating that time wasting activity over and over again... you are already wasting a lot of hours a day.
2. You think you can always make a come back. You think you're invincible, you think you can afford to waste time now because you can always do something good tomorrow, you think you can
give your best tomorrow or some other day so your decision is to just enjoy your day now and go hard some other day... which will never happen.
3. You are fooling yourself that you are in control. You think that your life will not be affected if you waste some time, you think that everything is under control and will always be in control. You're wrong my friend, wasting time is already an out of control behavior and if you will not do something to make an attitude adjustment... you're in big trouble, your life will become miserable one day. you think you are in control now but wait for a few more days or weeks and let's see if you're still in control.
4. You love short term pleasures. Checking emails, texting while working, chatting with fake friends, playing video games, watching replay movies. You love short term pleasures that gives long term pain. You are so addicted in useless activities that you think will not affect your productivity. It maybe short term pleasure, you may think that the time wasted is not that much but if you will calculate the time wasted for doing those activities... it's almost a million hours.
5. You're not scared to fail. You don't care if you fail in class, fail in business, fail in your work etc. You're not scared to fail that is why you waste a lot of time. If you're scared to fail then you will do the right thing or maybe you're still delusional that you can still succeed despite of wasting a lot of time.
6. You think you're still young. Your mindset is when you become older, let's say 30's or 40's then that is the only time you will take your life seriously. You think that it is ok to bum around, party, become lazy because that is what young people are suppose to do. But be careful because there are lot of young people before that became old now that wasn't able to change their lives. They were forever a bum because they don't have the habits to do the right things. If you will waste your time now then you will also waste it when you grow older, that habit of wasting time cannot be remove in your system.
7. Someone is supporting you. Your're so confident in not taking your life seriously because you knew someone will catch you, it is either your parents, martyr sister or sugar mama that will do the work for you. Beware because not all the time the support is always there, time will come and your support will no longer be able to support you. If I were you, I will take life seriously now because time will come and you will need to work for yourself.
USE DIRT TO CLEAN ANOTHER DIRT
If your life from the past is dirty like a garbage that is full of stupid mistakes and unacceptable bad decisions, use that dirt to clean another dirt. Tell your story to other people so that you can clean their dirt. So that they will use your story to change and not follow your path. Don't be scared to expose your dirt because it can help other people, it can be very useful.
Not all dirt are useless, you can use it to inspire people, you can use it to scare people so that they will know what will happen if they become dirty like you. Dirt can be used to clean another dirt.
Instead of using your dirt again just make it as an example for other People. Tell your story and scare people that you want to correct. Tell them the possible outcome if they follow the same path as yours. Don't use your dirt again and make mistakes again, use it to make people open their eyes and change themselves before it's too late.
Some people need stories or examples so they will know what kind of life is waiting for them. And your dirt is the best reference to make them avoid the same mistakes as yours.
Not all dirt are useless, you can use it to inspire people, you can use it to scare people so that they will know what will happen if they become dirty like you. Dirt can be used to clean another dirt.
Instead of using your dirt again just make it as an example for other People. Tell your story and scare people that you want to correct. Tell them the possible outcome if they follow the same path as yours. Don't use your dirt again and make mistakes again, use it to make people open their eyes and change themselves before it's too late.
Some people need stories or examples so they will know what kind of life is waiting for them. And your dirt is the best reference to make them avoid the same mistakes as yours.
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