IF YOU THINK ABOUT SOMEONE, YOU'RE DONE

The problem why you can't be yourself is you always think about someone. You are always thinking that someone is better than you, you are always thinking about living in other people's life. You want to be somebody else, you don't want to be yourself. You are dreaming of becoming popular, you are dreaming of also having everything but you never trust yourself. You are easily impressed by other people. You praise other people and kiss their ass to the point where you almost forgot that you are good enough and you can become great too.

The key to success is to always think about yourself, focus on making yourself better, focus on improving everyday and stop thinking about what other people say or doing. It is none of your business to think about how other people are doing. Your main duty is to focus on yourself, do your work and simply give your best.

If you are always thinking about someone then it means you don't love yourself because you are giving your time and energy for someone and you are not gaining anything about it, that kind of activity is just making you weak and stuck.

You always think if you hurt someone, you always think if you make someone happy, you always think if someone is mad at you. That is why you can't think clearly and all of your actions were based on what other people say. You are depriving yourself of freedom that you can use to become more creative and have a happy life.

Stop being concern about how other people feel, it is none of your business if they feel good or bad. Just always be yourself and continue living life. Because you are not living at all if all you do is think about people, your motivation will become low, your progress will become slow.

The funny thing is... the person whom you are thinking is not even thinking about you, he doesn't care about you. You are the loser in that kind of game if you keep on playing it. A lot of your time will be wasted, you will not be able to give your best.

If you are competing and you are always thinking about your opponent, you are thinking if he is doing good, what kind of training he does, is he progressing, is he better than yesterday. That kind of approach will just make you worried, unfocused and creates doubts and fears. You must focus on what you can control and that is yourself. Stop thinking who is doing better, just think about how are you going to beat your performance yesterday. You have to compete against yourself and not with others.

It's all about being yourself. And being yourself means enjoying what you are doing and not comparing your strength to others, it's all about only giving time for your improvement and not caring about what other people are thinking about you. You execute your own actions, being committed to the process that you really think is right. You simply don't care if someone is stronger than you or doing better than you. You will just do what you think is best for your life and can make you win.

IF YOU STILL DON'T GET IT, IT MEANS YOU'RE GOING TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL

If you don't get it and you are still trying then it means you are going to become successful. A lot of people will quit right away once they don't get it once, they will accept that it is not for them and will make a lot of excuses so other people won't see them as weak and incapable of succeeding.

If you can't get it then it means you are still trying, it means you are still on the process. It is just a matter of time before you get it, you just need to continue being patient and persevering.

It doesn't matter if you are struggling, what matters is you are still trying and you will never quit. If you can't get it then it only means it is for you. It is for you because even if it is hard, you still keep pushing and finding ways how to become successful.

It is hard to get it but the only reason why you are still moving is you know that you are going to become successful one day, you just don't know the exact time but you are one hundred percent sure that it is going to happen.

And that determination alone is a living proof that you are going to become successful. Because what is the point of your suffering if you are not going to become victorious? all of your efforts will not be wasted. Time is just testing you how strong you are, it is testing you if you are really deserving. And you can only convince it by staying on the grind and moving one step closer each day to success.

Continue to embrace the struggle, continue to keep taking actions even if you are not seeing any progress. It is just a matter of time. Your will is enough, you don't need to ask fora lot of things or support. Just keep moving forward and eventually you will get there.

People were so blinded by the pain that they are getting for taking so much actions and not seeing any result. They thought that they really can't do it and it is not their destiny to become successful. But if there is a war in your mind between continuing and quitting... you have to go with the continuing side. Don't ever quit because you will regret it in the end. Swallow your pride and keep moving forward even if you look so stupid and dumb because you keep trying even if the results were not showing.

Not getting it doesn't mean not having it. You already have it once you decide that you will keep trying until you become successful, you already succeeded once you decide that you are not going to quit. You just need to destroy all the obstacles and erase the negative thoughts running inside of your head. You were already successful if you stay on the process.

You will get it in just a matter of time, relax and don't rush. All you need is consistent movement. Even if you don't understand what is happening, don't get overwhelmed. Just keep pushing and take baby steps.

EASY WORK OR HARDWORK DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU ARE HAVING FUN

There is no hard work or easy work if you love your work. You will just do it because it gives you joy and bliss. Some people will think of your work as hard or easy but it doesn't matter because you are so focused on having fun. You don't care if you are getting paid high or low, you don't care if you are popular or not. For as long as you are doing it... you are alright and feel blessed.

Most people will always look for an easy work only to find out in the end that it is hard. The truth is it is not hard, they just don't want to do it or they got tired of doing it. They hate the repetition, they can't find the growth there.

A work that is difficult will look easy or will become very easy if you will learn how to love it. If you will just enjoy the process of doing it and you are not rushing then you will embrace your work until the end. You can become rich, you can become wealthy from it.

That is why champions are undergoing trough hard training but they can do it everyday because they were so much having fun, they love the process and they stick with it until they become successful.

So don't look for an easy work because you will never find it. You may think that it is easy in the beginning but it will become hard in the end because you don't love it. You will get sick and tired of doing it everyday. You will become frustrated, you will feel like a failure because you are not progressing nor growing.

So look for a job or a hobby that will give you so much fun, look for something that will give you happiness, excitement and joy and for sure you will have an extra motivation to wake up early everyday and come to work. Working will be very easy and your time will pass very fast, you will not even notice it.

But if you can't look for another job that is fun to you then it is time for you to look for the fun in your present job. You can add fun to it even if it is really boring. You can amuse yourself, it is up to you how are you going to do it. You can work faster and reach a personal quota or standard. You can use your job to attract people that can make your life better, you can play with it, you can have so much fun, all you need to do is become creative a little bit.

Some people with a work that looks dangerous or really hard is having a lot of fun. It is simply because they love their work, even if it is not corporate or high paying job, they still love it because it is who they are. They can make a very difficult task look easy because they mastered it for so many years, their love for their job makes them survive and become great.

Sometimes even if you really love your work, you will still experience some stressful situations, it is normal so don't feel bad about it. It is normal to experience difficulty, it is normal to face adversity, it is part of your job. Sometimes you would love to leave your work but your love for it will prevail in the end, the love will come back stronger and you will continue working until you can't work anymore.

Even if your work is really hard, if you really love it then you will stick with it, the only reason why you will leave your job is because the love isn't there anymore, there is no other bigger reason than that.

THE GRASS IS ALSO GREEN ON YOUR SIDE

You can't appreciate your own life because you keep on appreciating other life. You are not seeing yourself as beautiful and special human being. You can't hone your own skill because you are too busy watching some other skills. You can't evolve because you are too busy watching other people evolve.

You don't trust yourself, you think that you are not blessed and the grass is greener on the other side. The truth is the grass on your side is green too. It may not be greener but it is also green.

You also have some talents, you also have some gifts but it can't be opened or exposed unless you focus on it. So start being better now and hone your craft so you will be able to experience how it feels to become great.

You have your own money but you are so busy counting other people's money. That is the main reason why you can't become rich, you are too busy being jealous with other people's success. Count your own money and try to make it grow. It can be hundreds or thousands, it may not be millions but it is still money too. You are also rich, you just don't accept it or cannot admit it because you see other rich people being better than you which is not.

Just simply learn to appreciate what you have in life. Never think that you lack something or other people have much more than you. Having that kind of mentality will make you feel so bad about yourself and you will never experience the true happiness. You will lose motivation even more, you will have self pity and that will be the start of your falter.

Look at what you have and try to maximize it or use it as much as you can. Appreciate it, make it grow and never compare it to other people. You have your own pieces of blessings and your job is to be happy with it. Always remember that life is not really perfect, you can only make it perfect by simply thinking that it is perfect. It is your emotions and thoughts that matters, not the reality or judgement from other people.

Make your grass greener. Always try to evolve by simply focusing on making yourself and life better. Don't look at other people's backyard, focus on your own backyard and make your grass super green. You can do it if you will trust yourself, you can do it if you will give more time for yourself.

Some people will even appreciate what you have but the problem is you can't appreciate it. You are always focused on looking for other people better than you. No one is better than you, you are one of a kind and you have the potential to become great too. You can do a lot of things too especially if you will appreciate yourself and everything that you have. So don't get jealous at other people because the grass on your side is green too.

IT BECOMES HARDER BECAUSE YOU ARE MAKING DRAMAS

Your situation becomes more difficult because you are acting like a diva that is entitled to have an easy life with lots of slaves and benefits.

Let's say that your situation is really difficult, but if you keep on whining and bitching the whole day then your situation will become difficult even more. You will attract negativity and bad scenarios will play in your life.

What if you just shut your mouth and do what will make your life easier? what do you think will be the difference? Of course there will be a big difference. You will begin to think clearer, you will be able to take actions that will put you in a better position. Close your mouth, stop the talking and start executing.

You're just injured a bit yet you are broadcasting to the world that you are badly hurt even if you are not. Was it just a prepared excuse so if you perform bad people will understand you? If you will just ignore your minor injury then you will be able to perform better and your opponent will never notice that you are hurt.

Life will become harder if you are looking at your situation as really hard. You can still do something about it, you can still do your best, you can entertain better thoughts yet you are not doing it that is why your life is always on a miserable position.

Never complain in life because life is really tough, it is either you do something about it or you complain about it. I am pretty sure that complaining will just make the situation worse. But if you take actions and do what do you think will make your life easier then chances are your situation will change. The rule is very simple... if you keep on thinking about negative things then you will feel bad and you will also get the negative circumstances but if you keep on thinking about positive things then your life will be easier and best chances will come to you, as simple as that. Very easy yet people can't do it because they fall in love with negativity.

Making dramas will make you weak because it only gives weak feelings, your motivation will die if you keep whining and crying like a kid. You're a grown up man now and you can change your situation anytime you like it.

What are the types of dramas that you must avoid:

1. Not getting what you want. You must not feel bad if you didn't get what you ask for. You are not a king who is supposed to have everything in just a matter of seconds. You can't get it because you didn't work for it. You are only making your situation worse because instead of taking actions, you are stuck in a mud telling the world how bad you've been treated.

2. Making a small pain bigger. You only have running nose but you told your boss that you have a high fever so he will allow you to leave the office early. You think you get away with it huh? if you keep living that way, your mind will be programmed that you can't endure some small pains. If you have a small wound, you will treat it like a big deal and you will feel like dying because your mind is already programmed that way. A small pain can ruin your day or even your whole life.

WORK ONLY IF YOU ARE SURE THAT YOU WILL GET PAID

Some people will work for free that is why it becomes their habit and they cannot escape that rut anymore. Other companies or businessmen were abusing them because they are giving free service. There is nothing wrong in working for free, don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with that if you truly love it and you are not complaining about it. You can work for free if you are truly enjoying what you are doing and it is the only thing that gives you happiness. That is why there are some people who really give public service for free... they truly love it and that is their satisfaction.

But if your goal is to make some money then never work for free. Some companies especially the quick service restaurants (I will not mention their names) will abuse their employees and will require charity work because their leverage is they will regularized the most obedient employee.

You know what? a work without pay is not a work anymore. It is a form of slavery, are you a slave or a worker? define yourself.

It is not about being lazy or arrogant. You need to know your value and give importance to your time. You can do a lot from the time that you are giving to other people. The worst thing is... that company might still not regularized you even if you give them a lot of charity work because they will only choose a few. Of course they will choose their favorites, what if they don't like you?

You should know what you are made of. You can do better than that, you can still find other people or companies that will pay you right and give you what you deserve. Don't sacrifice a lot of your time for people who are abusing you and asking for free work. Your mindset should be in an abundant place, you can always find something or someone better. Don't be a slave of slavery.

Some clients will not pay your work if they don't like it, beware with those clients, those are the most abusive ones. They will ask for some trial but the trial looks like its the whole work already. It is funny because they will even ask for a lot of revisions but will not pay you later.

Work only if the pay is guaranteed, never give free work because you will only get hungry and broke if you keep doing that. Always be confident that you can find some pretty cold cash somewhere without being abused.

And the reality is if you keep working hard and do your best then money will come to you naturally without forcing it. Opportunities will be attracted to you. So don't worry if your company fires you because you are not giving them charity work. Know your rights, be confident that you can find a better work somewhere. Place your mind in a state of abundance, you will always find something better, you will get what you deserve. You will get what you want and that is a fact.

IMAGINE THE FEELING

How would you feel when you accomplish something? how would you feel once you take the first step? Imagine those feelings, those feelings are great and it can make you very happy.

People move because of emotions. That is why those marketing products were very successful. Those products on the tv commercial were all successful because they can hypnotize people and make them move. And how do they do this? by triggering people's emotions. They will build a commercial that will make people get excited, seduced and desire for the product being advertised. They know the techniques to make people aroused so their products will be patronized.

So the conclusion is... emotions will make you move or make a decision. Emotions will make you move your ass and do something about your situation. Emotion is a very powerful tool to become successful.

What you need to do is imagine the feeling of being successful, imagine the feeling when you finished something significant to your journey. Close your eyes and feel those feelings, draw the state from within. You will be forced to move and take some actions that will make you feel those feelings in the real life.

Because if you can't feel now then you will not move, you will just sit there and let the time pass by without accomplishing anything.

That is why fear can become a very good motivator. If you are scared to experience poverty then you will work hard. If you are scared to fail in your exams then you will study hard, as simple as that. But if you don't feel anything about your situation then you are in danger, you will just take every second for granted and do nothing about it.

That is why it is important to visualize with feelings because that kind of style will make you get results better.

Emotion is a very powerful tool for execution, you need to master your emotions so you can motivate yourself easily and take unlimited actions to become successful. It is not about the skills or talents, it is about who can feel right ad use his emotions to his advantage.

Imagine the feeling of being rich, imagine the feeling of being successful. Imagine it everyday and you will get those feelings sooner or later. But of course you still need to pair it with work. You can't be just dreaming and expecting to have everything, that shit only happens on fairy tales and not in real life.

Use your emotion to create a motivation. You can control how you feel by understanding how you feel at the moment. If you are scared then ask yourself what are you being scared about? you will see that your situation is not really bad and you can do something to make it better.

Calmness should be the default in order for you to create another emotion. You can be excited if you are calm. You can't be excited if you are scared. You can be happy if you are calm, you can't be happy if you are angry.

Just imagine the emotion that is connected to what you want and feel it. If you want to become successful then what is the emotion connected to it? it is happiness and excitement right?

PRETEND THAT YOU ALREADY QUIT BUT YOU'RE NOT

Sometimes if you are trying hard too much... you will never see results because your mind is occupied by the difficulty of the situation. You feel like it is really hard and it is impossible to succeed. You keep on repeating and repeating but you can't figure out how to win or become successful.

Sometimes you need a breathing room, your mind need some space and time. It needs to freshen up a bit.

If you are pursuing a goal and you feel like quitting already because it is really hard and you can't think of some solutions anymore... you must pretend that you already quit. Trick your mind that you already quit, surrender, don't think about winning anymore. Sometimes you have to lose hope so you will have nothing to lose anymore. Pretend that you quit, pretend that winning is not important to you anymore so you will become lose and free.

Because what is stopping you is your desire to win right away, you want to get it so bad that you forget to relax under pressure. Being calm and loose will make you decide fast, move quicker and feel less pressure.

So detach yourself from winning but keep moving, detach from thinking about perfection and always doing the right thing. Just do what you think is right, just move without any form of doubts if it will work or not.

Look at those people who already quit... the pressure was take away from the but the only difference is they are not moving anymore. But your case is a different case, you will still move and do your best but you will not think about being successful anymore or getting it right away. You will just focus on your actions and doing it over and over again.

You will not care if you make progress or not. You just do something that you think will give you a chance. But keep in mind that you are not reaching for success so bad. You set yourself free from the idea of having it right away and making it big.

If you don't care about something you can get it easily because there is no pressure on your side. You will not feel bad if you don't get it. You will not hold yourself from taking actions because just like I said... it is nothing.

But keep in mind that you are still open to winning, the only difference is you are not reaching for it, you are letting it come to your life naturally. You are allowing it to happen and not forcing it to happen.

It is like win or lose you don't care at all but you will still give your best, you will still enjoy the process and do the right thing.

Because if you keep trying but nothing is happening... you will only get disappointed. But if you are not expecting anything then you will try forever and just be happy doing the process until you get there.

A SMALL SUCCESS IS STILL A SUCCESS

You can become successful anytime, any day, any given hour. You can have it today because a little success is still a success, you can still consider yourself successful if you achieve a little success today. Even just being able to reach the quota for today, that is still success. If that is not success then what do you call that? a failure? Of course no, a little success for the day is still success and you should be proud of yourself if you achieve it.

A lot of people consider success as having big houses, a lot of money, being popular and anything that is big to their eyes. They thought that you have to get a lot of attention to be considered as successful but the truth is you can become successful by your own definition. If you really feel successful by just having a small house then you already are. It doesn't matter how much you have, it is all about how you feel. If you feel successful because you work so hard then there is nothing more to talk about, you don't need to tell everyone that you're successful, you just feel it by yourself.

Sometimes you are already successful but because you are thinking so much and not appreciating what you achieved... you still feel like a failure. You don't know that what you have... others are wishing for it and they wish they have your life but you are taking things for granted because of your negativity and complaining too much about life.

If you manage to just buy your mother a simple gift on her birthday then that is a success already. Not all people can buy a gift for their mother. It's still a success no matter how small it is. So don't ever underestimate your small achievements especially if you work hard for it.

And the good thing is... you can become successful everyday. Just set a small goal and achieve it then you're already successful. It can be about your work, running for a few kilometers, earning some extra cash, following a strict diet, abstaining from negativity. If you work for it and you suffer a little bit then that is already a success.

You can make your own definition of success, you don't need to compare yourself to anybody who is making it big. Just achieve something everyday and cherish the good feelings that it gives to you.

Your success purely reflects on how you define it. If you honestly believe in yourself that you are somehow successful because you are working hard everyday and making improvements in your life then you're already successful, It doesn't matter if they tell you that you are not successful, if you really believe in yourself and you are happy with the person that you become then you're already successful.

If you work for something and you achieve it then you're already successful. You don't need to weigh numbers, you don't need to compare your success to others. Anything that you work for is already a success. And one more thing... those little success that you achieve everyday will accumulate in the end and will become something big if you are consistent and patient.

WHY DO YOU NEED TO MAKE THAT MOVE?

The first question is why are you hesitating? why are you doubting yourself? Why are you stopping yourself from making that move? don't you know that moving is free? asking is free and trying is free, there is no harm in making a move especially if it is a positive move and can connect you to different opportunities.

You need to execute that move now! not later not tomorrow, now is the perfect time even if you think that you are not prepared. Because if you will wait for the perfect timing then it will never come. The perfect time is right when you are hesitating and doubting yourself.

You need to make that move because it is your only chance, it will show you the way. It will erase all the questions running inside of your head. That move maybe the turning point of your life, that move may change your life completely and give you the freedom that you are searching for a very long time.

It is easy... act like a tough person and execute that move right away. May it be asking a girl for a date, applying for a job, asking your boss for an increase in your salary, telling your parents that you are pregnant or you accidentally impregnate a woman, opening an email of an angry client because you haven't respond for days, telling someone that he disrespects you, honestly saying sorry to the person you hurt from the past, resigning for a company because you feel that there are more opportunities waiting for you, taking the ball and shooting the game winner, etc etc.

Any move that you are scared to execute can be the bridge to a better feeling and experience.Yes, it is scary, it is uncomfortable but once you made that move... you will feel free, you will feel that your problems were gone, you will feel like you conquered your fears and you are a better person now.

You need to make that move if you don't want to have any regrets in life. Take it, grab it, do it. Do it now, the more you postpone... the more your fears will become bigger. You will only know the answer, you will only know what next move to do if you will do what is needed now. It is simple but hard but the reward is priceless. And the truth is... you will never die once you made that move so why are you so scared to do it?

Yeah there is a chance that what you are expecting may not happen. People may reject you, get mad at you, you may even fail but you will never regret making that move. You will be happy for yourself because you made a stand and you take your chances.

There are lot of pussies in this world who have everything, they have the opportunities in life, they have the support but what did they do? they never make a move. The keep on wondering what could have happen if they only take chances. Their regrets were haunting them everyday. Sometimes they even want to go back to the past but it is too late now.

So even if you have the slimmest chance of making it... still do it, still make a move. You never know, fate loves the fearless people, it is giving a fair chance to people who have the courage to become courageous despite of fear.

Move while you can still move, while you still have time. It is free, you need to make it, you need to see what is possible in your life.