Jun 29, 2018

YOU WILL NO LONGER BE AFRAID IF YOU KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO BE DOWN

A lot of people were so scared to fail because they hate the feeling of failing, they were so scared because the think that it is painful and humiliating, yeah it is painful but you can always recover from that pain. That pain will teach you a lesson that you can use in the future. That pain will make you stronger and tougher. So if you haven't felt the feeling of being down yet... you should feel it now, try something, take risks... do something that is scary and don't be afraid to fail.

At one point in your life, you will become a failure, everything that you are doing is not working, you will feel that it's the end of the world but if you manage to survive and rise up... congratulations, you're a new person now, you're tougher than who you were yesterday. Never let your psychology control you, control your psychology.

If you're down for a long time you will never be scared to fall even deeper, you know the feeling of it, you're not afraid to feel that depression, sadness, stress and weakness again. You know how it feels, you're not a virgin to it.

That's why NBA players who were really broke during their child hood made it to the top, they don't have any direction anymore other than going up. They were down for so very long so they weren't afraid to take risks anymore. They give everything they have for their craft that's why they were so very successful.

So if you are feeling down now... don't panic, don't be scared of it, it's normal, your situation will change if you will just embrace it and take one simple action at a time.

If you're down... you have no choice but to go up, you have no choice but to become strong and fight back, there is no pressure anymore because the next sequence will be all about winning and thriving. Because there is no other direction waiting for you, there is no other path available for you. You're already down, you can't go down even more.

So keep trying and keep working because you have nothing to lose. You have everything to gain, what is left to lose in your life? you've been suffering for years, what is it to be afraid of? you know how to struggle, you know how to lose... use that pain to become victorious in life.  There should be less pressure on your side because you know that failing won't hurt you anymore. You've been there a million times, it can never shake you anymore.

Being down is not a bad thing, actually... it is a blessing in disguise, it will mold your fighting spirit, it will turn you into a beast. All you have to do is give your best and that's it, you should be at the edge of your skills, you should never take anything for granted, never exert a weak effort... ever. Always remember that the cards dealt to you are always good, even if it is a low card... use it to your advantage.

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