LOOK AT THE SOLUTION NOT THE SITUATION

You're looking at the situation not the solution that's why your life gets even harder. I know you're struggling now but you keep on focusing in your struggle instead of dining a way how to make things better.

Why will you get mad if your house is dirty? why blame the kids who are so playful and making dirt? why blame your wife who is busy doing some other things for the family? why not clean it yourself, pick the broom and sweep the floor, wipe whatever you need to wipe so that your house will be cleaner. Stop focusing on the dirty house start focusing on how to make it clean.

You are a little bit sick, why will you get sad and feel bad because you're sick? why not do something to make your situation better? why not start curing yourself bit by bit so you will become confident that your body will recover? stop focusing on the sickness, start focusing on how to make yourself stronger. Focus on the process not on the situation... that will make you feel better.

You have money problems then why will you make your problem worse? why will you borrow money from other people if you know that deep inside you will not be able to pay on time? or maybe not pay at all? it's not a solution because it is still a problem that you make bigger. The solution is not adding debt, the solution is finding a way how to earn money.

There is a solution to every problem, focus on it and you will feel better, you will become more confident and motivated. Instead of blaming and pointing fingers or having regrets... do something positive, that is how to turn your life around.