May 21, 2018

HOW TO CONTROL YOUR TEMPER

You will make bad decisions in the heat of the moment if you let your emotions take over. Don't ever take actions if you're so angry because it will make you take actions that you will regret forever. Don't be too emotional, it's just an emotion... you better think thrice before you explode. Most people regret their actions after the consequences were already there. You don't know the miserable life that is waiting for you after that outburst.

That's why people go in jail, that's why people committed crimes, that's why there are relationships that are broken, that is why failure is happening... if you will decide when you're angry then for sure you are deciding the wrong way because the result will be very bad, you will not like it.

Control your temper by always thinking about what will happen if you do it. Be aware that you are angry, if you know that you are angry then there is a chance that you might be able to control your temper.

Don't speak, be still, don't move. Look inside of yourself and ask yourself what are you being mad about. Did someone hurt you? did he stab you? did he stole your money? remember that it's just a misunderstanding, it's just words... it's nothing more than that.

Your ego is making you angry, you think that someone is disrespecting you and stomping on your pride. Never give meaning to everything, if you can stay calm then you will win. Never be a slave to your anger because you will regret it in the end. It's better to just keep quiet and do what you're suppose to do.

Just walk away, there is nothing wrong in going home, it's better to look like scared and go home rather than fighting for useless arguments. If you're still alive then you're very lucky, the real brave man is someone who can control his temper.

A lot of people were trying to look tough by trying to look like a savage but when the punishment is there, when the consequences are there... they look like they can't hurt anyone.

Always remember that what angers you controls you, don't get too emotional because it will make you go the wrong way.

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