Feb 16, 2018

DON'T BE AFRAID OF THE NORMAL THINGS

Why will you be afraid of the normal things? why will you feel bad about something that is normal? traffic is normal, you experienced it everyday so why be afraid of it. The solution for traffic is not the widening of the road, lessening of the vehicles, etc. Those things will help but the real solution is your mindset, it's mental toughness, if you're mentally tough then no traffic will scare you, just enjoy what's going on with your life, you will be able to survive anything. If you can feel that you're growing from any kind of stress then no stress will scare you anymore. It's all in the mind, never be scared of something that is normal, you experience it everyday and you will experience more of it in the future so there is no reason to be afraid of it anymore. Use timing, travel during the times with no traffic, if you can't do it then go back to plan A... just make your mind tougher, make it having the ability to handle any kind of stress or tension.

Disrespectful neighbor, annoying people in your circle, abusive boss... these things are normal too. Don't be afraid of them because the more you are cautious... the more you will become unhappy. You are the one to choose what problems to focus upon, instead of focusing on small problems that has no benefits why not focus on bigger problems that will give you success? why not focus on business, work, goals, or anything that will give you achievements in the future? you are so focus on things that will not even contribute to your growth that's why you're not happy in your life. Your focus is your reality, as simple as that.

Small problems are normal things, it will not kill you nor make you broke. You experience it in your daily life so never be afraid of it. If you will always prioritize your emotions then you will have a hard time to become happy in life. Stop being too sensitive, stop making a lot of dramas in life, it's your duty to enjoy life, you owe it to yourself. Never look for happiness and comfort because it will always come to you naturally.

Getting overwhelmed, getting stressed, getting humiliated... these things are normal, it is nothing new, it is not a new discovery. You will experience this again and again so don't be afraid of it.

Having financial problems, having no food on your table, having only 20 bucks in your pocket... these things shouldn't bother you because the truth is you can always survive any problem, no problem can break you nor put you down. You will only go crazy if you focus on the hardships in life. The real problem is something that may kill you such as dangerous disease, accident, calamities, these are the real problems. But if something can't kill you then don't even bother on it, just keep moving forward because life goes on.

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