Jan 16, 2018

NEVER MAKE DECISIONS BECAUSE OF ANGER OR EXCITEMENT

If you will make a decision with a high level of emotion then most of the time your decisions are wrong. Never make a decision if your angry because the result will be bad, it is either you fight someone, you punch someone or you make a terrible decision that you will regret in the end. Never let your emotions control you, always stay relax even if you're angry, stay in control and never burst in anger, never let emotions run your decision making skills. If you're angry then it means you're out of control, you're out of your mind, you don't even know what is happening.

Always be aware if you're angry. If you know that you're angry then you can cool down fast, you can cool down in just a matter if minutes. If you're angry then do nothing, be still, say nothing, never take any single action. Stay quiet on a while, wait for your anger to go away before you speak. Stillness is the key for making a very good decision. No need to rush in making decisions, anything can wait, just wait for your mind to settle down before you do anything.

Never make decisions too if you're happy or excited, the tendency is you may always say yes even if you don't mean it. If you see a brand new shoes at the department store and you get excited... you will buy it even if you don't need it, you will purchase it even if you don't have an extra money, this is a bad move because you let the emotion get the best of you, the result is you don't have an extra money anymore, what if you need it tomorrow?

Never answer a request if your happy, you will say yes even if you don't want to. When your friend borrow some money from you and you feel happy at that time... you will say yes, what if you don't have an extra money? it's a wrong move.

Wait for your emotions to tone down a little bit before you make a decision, wait for your feelings to subside, sometimes you will not think the right way if your emotions were too high.

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