Nov 19, 2017

WHY SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO BE ALONE IN YOUR JOURNEY?

Sometimes you need to be alone in your journey so that your strategy will be fully controlled by you. If there are lot of people surrounding you then you will never be able to focus, especially if their intention is to not help you. You will be confused, a lot of ideas and inputs will go into your brain which is not healthy.

You need to be alone so that you will see more of yourself, you will know how strong you are and what you really want. It's ok to be alone, after all all you need is yourself and nothing else. You need to be alone so you can be in full charge of your journey, so that you will be able to discover what are the things that you really need to do.

Don't be afraid to do it on your own because you are the only one who understands yourself, you are the one who knows what you need. They may call your delusional, selfish, crazy blah blah blah but if you persevere and focus on taking it one step at a time... you will become successful in the end. Be able to stand for what you believe in and work on your dreams relentlessly, if you follow your heart and persevere enough... you can prove them that you're right, they will see that all of your decisions were right.

Some people are trying to help you but they are only making your life harder. Yes they are concerned, yes they love you but sometimes they are only making life difficult for you because they think they know better than you, they think that they need to follow you. You don't need to argue with them because that will only make your journey slower, just keep doing your thing, keep silent and do it on your own.

CREATE YOUR OWN SYSTEM, CREATE YOUR OWN STRATEGY. You are free to decide on your own, you are free to do whatever you want. Create your own technique, a system that will work for you, discover the steps that will make you very near from being successful. Do the trial and error if needed. You only need to become right once, once you find what is working... keep doing it, be patient and you will become a winner one day. Life is all about experimentation, you are the scientist and you can gather the data that will bring you one step closer to success. You can try a lot strategies being advised by others but if you will not love the process itself then nothing will happen to you, you will still get lost and look for some other things to do.

Being alone, mocked by others, criticized by the society is alright. It is part of the process, it is part of what you need to go through. So don't feel bad, don't be scared if they are all the same and you're different.

Being in your journey means being alone, you think you have people behind you but it's not the reality. The truth is you are on your own, you make your own decisions, you make the corrections, you push through no matter what. No one can make you keep going other than yourself. So it is your journey, you are alone. Because if you fail, no one will be there to pick you up, it is yourself that will help you to stand up. Your mom or dad can pamper you, they can help you in some ways but it is still you that will help yourself. It is still your decision if you will try again or simply quit like everyone else does.

So don't think that you're unlucky if you're alone in your journey. It is a good thing if you're alone, no one will disturb you, no one will blame you, no one can ever make you feel guilty about something. No one can point out your mistakes, just make sure that you will work until the end. Remember that it's not all about hard work, it has also something to do with making your mind tougher and always making sure that your emotions were in the right place.

Don't worry if you have support or not, don't worry if you're making the right decisions or not. What matters is you keep moving forward and you never lose sight of your dreams, your vision must be very clear and you are always alright walking away from the crowd. Some people are not alone because they are afraid to be alone, they always want to make sure that they will not fail even though they already failed by not taking risks.

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