Oct 13, 2017

THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOMEONE BETTER THAN YOU


You can't escape it, even if you don't admit it because you're so full of ego... there will always be someone better than you. The word "greatest" is just an illusion. Every record can be broken, every great achievement can be beaten. So stop aspiring to become the greatest, just be yourself and do your best.

Even if you're the greatest now... time will come and someone will take your place. There is nothing wrong in aspiring to become the greatest but the point here is you are giving yourself too much pressure. If you are aspiring to become the greatest then it means you are competing with others, it means you are comparing yourself to others, you are not focusing on yourself. The endless comparison will never end, you will be on a rat race.

If you're the prettiest girl now as what they say... don't hold on to that title too much, don't put it in your head too much because that title will be gone in just a matter of time. Someone will arrive and will mesmerize the people who were admiring you. You will no longer be their favorite. Don't get jealous because you will only feel badder if you do it, just accept it. It is what it is, there will always be someone who is better than you and no matter how much you deny it.. it is the reality.

So stop pressuring yourself that you need to be the best. Just do your best and if you became the best then it's just a bonus.

Stop looking for the title. Just be yourself and always stay natural. If you will always compare yourself to others, if you will always look forward to be the most beautiful, richest, smartest then it will only build insecurity. You will always feel bad if you saw someone stealing your throne. You will get jealous of someone who is doing better than you and you can't accept it.

No one will become the greatest forever, someone will else will break the record, someone else will steal the throne so don't care about your identity too much because it will not stay forever.

If you will not compare your life to others then you're already living in peace, nothing will bother you anymore. Jealousy and insecurity will go away. Life will become easier, you will feel free, you will become more creative and real.

A LOT OF PEOPLE WERE INSECURE WHY?

Not because they are not talented, not because they don't have good looks but because they always see someone who is better than them. They care about what is trending, they care about who is popular, they care about what people will say. If you will just focus on your goals and motivate yourself then nothing can bother you anymore. You created your own insecurity by trying to become the best, trying to become popular which will never happen if you are not true to yourself. Just be true to yourself, improve if you can but if you can't do something at the moment then just accept yourself. Always grow mentally and emotionally. Try to make your mental game tougher than before, try not to become emotional with anything.

It is how you feel and how you think, it's not about the achievements or rank  in the society. If you can feel good about yourself and do what is best for your life then you're in the right direction. You will just live your life, do your best everyday and welcome success. It's very easy to do, just kill your ego, don't bee needy and focus on your own path. People will appreciate you, not everyone but some people will see your value.

THE POWER OF ACCEPTANCE. Accept what you have, accept how you look if you can't do something about it. The best thing to do is pick something that will entertain you and will give you growth, it can be financial growth or emotional growth. Do what makes you truly happy and not what gives you insecurity. Real happiness is not looking outside of you, it is focusing on what really matters. It is focusing on what is helping you to become a better person.

GREATEST PEOPLE DOESN'T ARE IF THEY ARE THE BEST.

Look at Michael Jordan, the greatest basketball player to ever live, he is not insecure. He doesn't care if people is calling him the greatest or not. He is not even joining the argument about who is the number one player of all time. He just live and do what he does best. He keep on working hard, doing his thing and he doesn't mind if people criticize him or praise him. He is not comparing himself to others that's why he is a winner. He is simply focused on making himself better each day. Nothing worries him, nothing bothers him, he is so himself that is why he's so successful.

SUCCESS AND APPRECIATION WILL COME TO YOU IF YOU'RE NOT NEEDY.

Being needy, always seeking for attention will make you look stupid, it will only make your situation worse because you will feel bad if no one is talking about your name. You always want to be involve in a conversation and you feel insecure if no one is talking to you or talking about you.

People will appreciate you even more if you're acting natural and not forcing things, they will appreciate your value if you will not be needy of appreciation. It will come natural, don't force it, don't do stupid stuffs or any form of negativity that might affect other people. You will become the best if you are giving your best, as simple as that.

FORGET ABOUT YOUR RANK IN SOCIETY AND JUST GIVE YOUR BEST.

Just work hard, just go hard. If they can't appreciate you so what? if they praise you then it's just fine, it's just another normal day, don't let it go into your head, don't let it climb into your brain. Just be natural everyday, choose the right people that will give you the right emotions to become a better person. Choose the people that will sharpen you and motivate you. Don't look for them because they will come, the right people will come into your life.

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