Oct 8, 2017

STRAIGHT TO THE POINT


No more long introduction, no more flowery words... just straight to the point. Try this style and you will get faster results.

If you want an increase say this to your boss "I want an increase boss, if you will not give me then I will resign today, no more excuses, no more extension. I am busting my ass and if you can't process the papers now then let's forget all the pending projects, I will pack my bags and I will go, no hurt feelings, nothing personal" I am pretty sure your boss will look like a shocked kid stunned by a scary stranger. His skin color will turn into white and his lips will look pale. He will look funny and wouldn't even know what to say. If he make excuses such as he will talk to the owner of company and discuss your request then tell him "Ok you will not see me tomorrow".

It is what it is, you want to change your life, you want something more then you should force situations. It's just business, don't get too emotional, don't get personal. Because if you will not do it now then when? when do you think will your life change? when money is not a necessity anymore?

STRAIGHT TO THE POINT BITCH! do it. You only have one life so roll the dice. What is it to be afraid of? you're already hurt, you're already in pain, people were already treating you like a garbage so what is the point of being scared right now?

If you will keep on waiting for the right timing then you're just waiting for nothing. It will never come. The right timing is when you feel so scared the most. If there is resistance then there is a chance. Say it now or else you will never say it forever. Trust me, you will find every excuses on the book to avoid what should be done. Hesitation causes destruction, you will never win if you're not going to speak.

Same as having a crush on a girl... just ask her for a date without brushing your teeth. Man up and show here that you have balls. So what if you got rejected? at least you were able to know the answer. If you will not go straight to the point then you will just fantasize her everyday. Nothing will happen to your scared ass. One day, a brave boy will ask her number and take her out on a date, they might even have sex on that day. And what will happen to you? you will cry like a bitch and have a drink with your friends to tell your stupid story. You're such a clown kid, man up and do what will give you a chance.

JUST LAUGH AT REJECTION. It hurts but at the same time you were able to experience freedom. You were able to know the answers, you were able to express yourself even if you're scared. At the end of the day, all you want is to know what will happen if you push further.

If you need to say something... spit it out. If you need to do something... do it, don't think if you're right or wrong. Just do it and never feel any regrets when the outcome is ugly. Straight to the point like a cold blooded killer who is thirsty for blood.

The more you think, the more you are frightening yourself. The more you wait... the more you are letting an opportunity escape. Time is running out boy, you need to decide now. If you don't want to do it then don't think about it again... ever.  Don't think about it tomorrow, don't think about it next week, just let it go.

TAKE TEN DEEP BREATHES THEN DO IT. Or maybe just three or five, ten is so long, it will make you think about stupid things again. Just take some deep breathes and then go!!!! Free yourself from outcome, don't think about what will happen, just enjoy the ride, enjoy expressing yourself and asking for what you want. Always remember that asking and taking actions is free, it is unlimited, you can ask as much as you want. You can do as much as you want, you're the real winner here. You have nothing to lose, you have everything to gain.

ACT LIKE YOU'RE CONFIDENT. Act like you're a one bad motherfucker. Act like you're an action star. You are the starring of this movie, you hold everything on the palm of your hands. Fake confidence until you really have it. Think about you're just playing around and let them fall into your trap. Always breathe, always relax your mind. Talk slowly, move calmly and never let your voice sound like a scared toddler. Make your voice a little bit deeper and hear everything that is coming out from your mouth. Never rush things, stay with the moment and let these people know what you want. Let them feel that you want an answer YES.

If you can develop this skill then you can experience a lot, get a lot and be a lot. Those people who can decide fast and execute fast are the ones who are making it in life. Watch yourself if you're full of hesitation and procrastination, look at your life... it is not fulfilling right? Don't bullshit yourself and act that everything will be fine because it will not be. You can only get results if you will go straight to the point. Your time is running out, you better get what you truly deserve.

What is the point of not going straight to the point? did it make you rich? did it give you some money? did your face become pretty? you're not getting anything right? so if I were you I will act now and make a dirty change in your life. It will be messy, it is stressful but the feeling after expressing yourself and doing something is priceless. You will even admire yourself because of the courage that you show.

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