April 27, 2017
IT'S OK TO GET CONFUSED BUT DON'T PANIC
Sometimes you will be confused in your life because there are lot of things going on. Sometimes the momentum is so strong that you don't know anymore what to do first. But having a lot of happenings in your life is far way better than no happening at all.
It is ok to get confused, there is nothing wrong with that. But first, you should avoid panicking, because panicking will destroy everything. You must be aware if you are panicking so you can stop it right away. Panicking will make you ruin your work, it will make you lose fast, it will make you lose your mind.
On the other hand, being confused means you are still thinking, it means you are still in a little bit control of your mind. You just don't know what to do, that's it.
ACCEPTING CONFUSION IS THE END OF YOUR SUFFERING
Accept that you don't know what to do and the answers will be revealed in a little while. If you are not fighting confusion then you will be comfortable with that kind of state of mind and then you will be able to relax. You will learn to breathe, take it slowly and find the right answers for your questions. There is nothing wrong if you don't know the answers because you will find it in just a little while if you are patient enough to wait for it to come.
It's ok to get confused if you are new to something, it's ok to look stupid and ignorant. Everyone experiences that kind of feeling even if they don't admit it, everyone got confused from the past. No one is immune to confusion, everyone will experience it even the smartest and the greatest ones, All you got to do is relax and be at peace with the moment. Never try to escape from your situation nor fast forward the time. You will got even more confused if you will fight what is happening at the moment.
PANICKING IS THE NUMBER ONE CAUSE OF A BAD DECISION
You have a lot of time, you don't need to decide now if you are not sure. You don't need to act like a freak out of control. If you are panicking then you will always make mistakes, you will look awkward, weird and out of tune. It is better to stop moving than to make movements at all if you are just panicking. Panicking will destroy everything that you work for. Panicking means you are in need of something but you don't know how to get it. You are completely lost and you can't find any direction.
JUST LEARN HOW TO SLOW DOWN
Take a deep breathe, slow down and don't be afraid if you are losing or you are the last person in the race or something. Don't be afraid to lose. If you accept that you already lost then that will be the start of your journey to winning. You will be free from expectations, you will be free from pressure. You will no longer feel the need of something. You will be able to enjoy life even more and take it one step at a time. You will not rush and everything will be under control.