January 24, 2017
LOOK AT YOURSELF AND FIND A ROOM FOR IMPROVEMENT
If you don't know what to do in life and you are a little bit bored then look at yourself and find a room for improvement. That kind of approach will already change your life and give you the directions that you needed.
There are lot of room for improvement. You just need to accept that there are some areas in your personality that are weak and needs improvement. You can become great if you will just accept that you are weak and then start changing your life now. You already knew what to do, you are just pretending that you are stupid because you don't want to take actions. You are pretending that you don't know what to do because you don't want to face the stress of starting.
It is only difficult in the beginning, once you start taking actions and gather some momentum then you will find out that it is not that hard. It will be easy if you take consistent actions, you will fall in love with little progress each day. Improving is addictive, you need to give it a try so you will become happier and satisfied with your life.
You are not perfect and you can never become perfect but you can become better. You can always make yourself better than yesterday. It is just a matter of wanting it and making a little sacrifice.
If you are emotionally weak, improve it. Read a lot of books on how to handle emotions. Sometimes put yourself in uncomfortable situations and places so that you will be able to know how you will react and survive on those circumstances. Stay on that place and never go home or stop until you find yourself comfortable again. It is just a matter of knowing who you are and listening to your emotions. It is really uncomfortable but you can have fun with it. You will begin to know yourself even more and you will see your reactions. You will learn what adjustments you needed to do in order to become emotionally strong. And when you get use to dealing with uncomfortable situations, you will be able to build a strategy on your own on how to tame your anxiety and fear. You can come up with a game plan or let's say default thought that you will use once you find yourself feeling uncomfortable again. You are slowly improving everyday and becoming emotionally strong.
If you are weak in your work then find a way how to become strong. It is either you force yourself to do more or forge a strategy on how to work smarter. Even if you were already old, you can still improve. It is not true that an old dog can't learn new tricks. You can learn anything no matter what your age is. It is your determination to improve that will determine your success.
Just like in basketball, if you are weak in using your left hand then find a way how to improve it. Make your left hand strong too so you can use both left and right and you will become unstoppable. You will be very hard to block and you will become more creative. The key to improve it is to always use it, use it even if you are not sure that it can make a shot. The more you use it the more it will become stronger. Don't worry about missing, just focus on improving.