May 22, 2016
WHAT YOU DON'T WANT TO DO IS WHAT YOU NEED TO DO
This is a sad reality especially for those people that were lazy but wanted to change. What you don't want to do is what you need to do, you heard me right. I will repeat again WHAT YOU DON'T WANT TO DO IS WHAT YOU NEED TO DO. Stop listening to people who were always talking about "do what you love" and just doing what you do. It is not explained very well, some part of it is right and some part of it is wrong. You can't be just doing what you love to do and be successful. what if you love drinking beers everyday, will it make you successful? What if you want to simply play PS4 the whole day, will it make your life better?
The human being's mind will always look for easy rout, it will not engage itself to stressful activities unless you force it. That is the reason why you tend to eat a lot of junk foods instead of running for a few kilometers. That is the reason why you prefer to watch tv first instead of doing your assignments and solving difficult problems. And it is also the main reason why the number of successful people is lesser than the number of people who fail, being successful is harder than being a failure. There are lots of stress that you need to face in order to become successful and most people were afraid of facing stress.
So then, what are you doing now? of course you love it because you wouldn't do it if you don't love it. Even if you say that you hate your work and it really sucks, you still love it, you just hate to admit it, you are forced to love it because you needed money. Even if you say you are just doing it to support your family, oh common... there is still a little love on that work, if you totally hate it one hundred percent then you will immediately leave even if your family gets hungry.
If you want to change your life and you really mean it you must look for the things that you don't want to do or you are afraid to do. If you are an unemployed bastard and you want to change your life, what is the thing that you are afraid the most? be honest. I know it will be making a resume and looking for a job, most people who were unemployed for years hates to do it, they even vomit if they heard the words "resume" and "application". It hurts but it is the truth, what they love to do is chilling, relaxing, looking like a bum, pretending to be a bad ass person, pretending to have something they don't have, drinking a lot, waiting for financial support, watching TV 20 hours a day. Those are the things that they love to do and the things that they need to stop doing so they can change their lives.
If you are repeatedly being abused by your partner and the abusing goes heavier and heavier everyday, what do you think you need to do? of course leave him. Even if it hurts because you love him so much and you cannot live without him as you repeatedly saying everyday, you still need to leave him. Because that is the right thing to do, don't wait for the make believe fantasy that someday he will change. He is abusing you everyday for years and that is already his habit so he cannot change anymore. Even if it hurts, even if you don't want to do it LEAVE HIM.
If you are dreaming of at least cutting several pounds in your fat ass body, what do you think you need to do? be honest because lies won't serve you in the future. Just be completely honest and face the reality, what is it? Of course eating healthy foods, of course doing some exercises everyday. Those things were really hard for you because you don't have the habits of doing it but even if you don't want to do those things, those things are what you needed to do. It is only difficult in the beginning but if you force yourself to build those habits then you will get the results that you want.
You only don't want to do the things that you need to do in the beginning. Once you pass the boundary of laziness, procrastination and doubt and once you build some little momentum then you will eventually change little by little. You will enjoy your progress and you will become somebody else. Your personality will change, your life will change, you will see a transformation in you that you can't even imagine when your life is still on the wrong direction.