May 14, 2016
STOP BECOMING A STRANGER TO YOURSELF
The reason why you are not loving life and you are not getting what you think you deserve is because you are a complete stranger to yourself. This may sound weird and uncomfortable but it is true. You don't know yourself, you don't have a bold identity and you are just going with the flow.
You cannot stand out and become original if you are just going with the flow. You will become an instrument to other's success. Yes your life is more comfortable but it is not the life that you really want to live.
STOP LISTENING TO THEM IF YOU CAN DO IT OR NOT
If you work hard enough and prepare long enough to achieve something then nobody has the right to tell you that you cannot achieve something. You know in yourself if you are deserving and you dedicated a lot of time to something so stop becoming a stranger to yourself. Stop doubting yourself just because someone gives you an ugly prediction. It is you and only you whose responsible for your success. Not someone's words, not a random comment will make you forget who you really are.
PURSUING HOBBIES BECAUSE IT IS THE NUMBER ONE COOL AT THE MOMENT
You are not being yourself again because you patronize a hobby that is against to your real self. You dance even if you don't want to dance because it is what most people do, the result is instead of looking cool you look like a fool. Stop dancing if it is not into your liking. if what you really want is stitching cross stitch then go ahead. Even if you will not become popular you will still be happy in the end because you do what your heart tells you to do. The result for doing what your heart tells you is knowing yourself, knowing who you really are and knowing what really makes you happy. All of your works will become a masterpiece. The authenticity of your actions will be recognized and some people will also appreciate what you are doing.
YOU KNOW YOURSELF MORE THAN THEY KNOW YOU
You know what actions you want, you know what path you want so stop being influenced by others' opinions. Stop being a stranger to yourself because you think they were right and you are wrong. You will only become wrong if you let your life be dictated by other people's ambitions and personal agendas. You know what you can do so do it. You know who you are so be it. There is no wrong action if that action is based on what your heart tells you to do so.
YOU BECOME A STRANGER BECAUSE YOU ENTER A TERRITORY THAT YOU DON'T LOVE
You go to a country that you don't want just for the sake of earning a lot of money and now you don't know yourself anymore. You were asking if you are living your life the right way, you are asking yourself if you are really happy. You are getting older and older and happiness is still not on your side because you exchange it for money.
You joined a group that you don't love just for the sake of having allies and now you were bullied in that group. They were bullying you because they know that you are weak and you cannot stand alone.You don't know yourself anymore, you are a stranger to yourself because you don't know your strengths. If you will only trust yourself and do what you feel is right then you don't need other people's consent. You don't need to join forces with anybody, you can sail alone and bring yourself to a place where you deserve.