Show people how you wanted to be, show them the reason why you are living, show them how you wanted to be treated and make a stand that you live by your own rules.Make a decision based on your own thinking and never get influenced by the opinions of others. Avoid making movements that pleases others. We are living in a free world and any dreams, ideas or propositions that we wanted to expose should not be based on what people wanted to hear. Avoid being conservative, express yourself truly so you will feel great and fulfilled.
If we live a life influenced by others and not with our own judgement then we are really not living. Remember what freedom really means and if others can show what they really are, you too can do that. Just because you are not in a position to make a statement yet doesn't mean you can't be true to yourself forever. If you wanted to command or become a leader so be it. Don't be afraid that someone will get hurt or someone will not like what you are trying to convey. Just keep on moving and if they cannot stop you then its their problem.